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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a romantic endeavor you thought was going great suddenly, abruptly went south without a warning or an identifiable reason? Whether you’re in the early stages of courting and thought you were heading toward a commitment or whether you’ve been together for years and thought you were [...]
Last Thursday, WIM presented us with his list of the 10 most critical #ManLaw Commandments. All of ‘em had me doing the Hallelujah dance in the Church of Latter Day SBM. But there was 1 in particular that caught my attention and led me to the post for today: 5. Come to us with a [...]
Earlier this week, Mr. Spradley wrote a post called Five Things About Men I’ll Teach My Daughter. Assuming you want to have a daughter, these were all great life lessons to share. To be clear, I’m not sure I want to have kids at all. Even if I do, I plan to be married before [...]
Let me paint a picture for you: You get a woman’s phone number/bbm and you start chatting. You hit her with all your classic lines, your charm, and she’s FEELING it! You have no doubt in your mind that you can and will score. You set up a rendezvous with this woman, and have a [...]
One of my closest friends always tells me, “I come to you for advice because you can make an argument for just about anything.” He’s typically talking about women. So he knows that if most people are telling him that he shouldn’t talk to a young woman, he can come to me and I’ll tell [...]
You guys wanna know a secret? More than anything, I’ve always wanted a daughter. When the prospect of having children was nothing more than a distant dream, the child I dreamt of the most was my future little girl. As I’ve gotten older and the idea of having children has progressed from dream to long [...]
In an effort to maintain her relevance in society, every few years Barbie goes through a dramatic, newsworthy makeover. What is her latest reincarnation? Tattoo Barbie, complete with cactus covered dog-like creature, “Bastardino.” Tattoo Barbie, a limited edition doll from Japanese inspired brand Tokidoki, will set you back $50. Your investment will net you a [...]
It has been hard transitioning from a Single Black Male into a Dating Black Male and now into an Engaged Black Male (I’m still SBM though … remember that). Today’s post is part of a new series: Engaged Black Male. I’ll talk about being engaged, my upcoming life of commitment, and all of the thoughts [...]
Earlier this week a friend forwarded me an email. I normally ignore forwarded emails, because despite the number of threats from chain letters on my life, my friends life, my love life, and/or other, to the best of my knowledge, none have suffered as a direct result of ignoring a chain letter. However, the title [...]
Today’s Single Black Mail is short and sweet. A simple question that was sent to us that I wanted to answer. Here is the question from one of our great readers: Have you guys talked about women with facial hair? Would you date a woman with chin hair?? Sigh. How do men feel about women [...]
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