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2011 has been a helluva year. It had its ups and downs, but we’re all still here another day. There’s a lot to be thankful for even if you had a rough one. Pause. With the end of the year officially looming, I wanted to talk about some of the lessons I’ve learned as a [...]
Let’s face it, we all know that women don’t want men to have fun. You are only allowed to ever have fun with her and her alone. Have you ever seen the rage in your woman’s eyes after admitting you actually had a good time “just hanging with the fellas”? It’s terrifying. That’s why whenever [...]
This is a throwback from earlier this year. It was a letter we received, in situations that we’ve all been through at some point. Enjoy and Happy Holidays! THE EMAIL Streetz, As we get older our networks continue to expand and there’s always a conversation among the fellas about dating inside or outside the circle. [...]
Today’s post is a Guest Post from a good friend of mine, Ayanna Abrams, Psy. D. She graduated from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, and is completing a postdoctoral fellowship as a Psychotherapist at Emory University Student Counseling Ctr. I thought this would be a good way to present this post. I had long thought about [...]
I Worry. If I don’t grind hard enough, I won’t be rich. If I don’t set at least 2 alarms, I’ll miss my flight. Sh*t happens and I try hard to make sure it doesn’t happen to me. Now I find myself about to get married. I am about to commit the rest of my [...]
I meant to write about this movie when I first saw it but life happens. In order to keep my G-status intact I will provide a brief explanation on how I came to see this movie in the first place: I set out on my date to watch Killer Elite with Jason Statham, Clive Owens, [...]
Friend is a term that I see thrown around carelessly on a daily basis. I think that as children, we are ingrained with the notion that friend should be used in a broad sense. Anyone that you didn’t hate, but knew randomly, was a friend. As we grow older and experience these so-called friends disappoint, deceive, and [...]
Not too long after graduating college, an ex-girlfriend from back home asked me why I didn’t come around anymore and why I didn’t spend time with my best friend from high school. I didn’t have an answer, the best response I could come up with was “I think we’ve grown apart.” The truth was, I [...]
Without a doubt, my favorite time of the year, the most wonderful time of the year, the time of year I look forward to more than any other is Christmas time. What’s not to love about this time of year. Most of the major religions of the world have major holidays around this time, we [...]
For those of you who are unaware, there are six writers for the site. You can read each’s contributions by clicking their names below: Site founder: @SingleBlackMale aka SBM aka EngagedBlackMale aka EBM @SlimJackson aka Mr. Slimuel L. Jackson Dr. J aka aka @DrJayJack aka Mr. FirstToThrowAChair Streetz aka @StreetzTalk aka Mr. ImNotAPlayer @MrSpradley aka TheMostInterestingManIntheWorld [...]
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