As part of my #30in30 series at Streetztalk, I tackled the topic of men getting angry at women for “no reason”. I wanted to share it with the SBM fam. Check it out.
I was cruising down the boulevards of Instagram last night when the picture above danced across my timeline. These SomeEcards are super hilarious by the way. This particular card held an abundance of truths. What amazed me even more about this premise is that all the women who commented on this pic cosigned it fully! It’s no secret that men feel women will spazz on them for no apparent reason, but the illustration above gives us a little more insight into how women use a technique I like to refer to as the Delayed Reacting Maneuver when communicating with men.
The Delayed Reacting Maneuver is used by women to convey anger or disapproval towards men for a situation which didn’t necessarily occur at the time in which they exhibit said anger. An unrelated catalyst from “situation zero” provided by men triggers this reaction and leaves men bewildered. This catalyst could be either verbal or nonverbal communication. Let me give you an example.
Tyrone: What’s up Angie?
Angie: Oh nothing, just chilling you?
Tyrone: You know same old. Hey did you borrow my pen? I can’t find it and I’m sure I lent it to you yesterday
Angie: WHY YOU ALWAYS GOTTA ACCUSE ME OF SOME BULLSH*T?!! I DONT NEED YOUR F*CKIN PEN, THANK YOU!!! YOU STAY THINKING I WANT ANYTHING FROM YOU!! UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!
Tyrone: “Damn… Was it that serious?”
To check out the rest of the article click here, and lets discuss. Women do you agree with my premise? Any examples to share? Men share your horror stories with us.
Don’t scream at me for buying Popeyes instead of Chipotle,