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Video: What Men Think During Relationships



When men sit around talking about relationships it’s always a couple young cats who want to know exactly what it’s like to be in a relationship. Any man that’s been in a relationship will look you right in the eye and tell you, “Young boy, being in a relationship is a constant feeling of knowing you got to do sh*t. It don’t really suck that much if you find the one that you really want to do sh*t for though.” As a boyfriend, you’re going to have to buy it, get it, make it, do it, build it and take it, just to keep the peace. Hopefully, you’ll get rewarded in not so limited access to sex, a couple high fives from the fellas for dating a dime and someone who will take some stress off your chest… hopefully.

Anyway, we were surfing the Internet today and came across this video which epitomizes relationships for a lot of men. The team wants it to be clear that none of the #SBMWives Season 1 cast is anything like this girl, Monica.

After you watch, do you feel this guy’s pain? Do you think women know that they’re like this? Most women don’t think they nag, but women are inherently prone to ask a lot of questions. (They don’t think that’s nagging, they think it’s just asking questions.) I wonder if a woman saw herself in this video if she would laugh or seek help. What do you think?

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  • Larry

    Lmaooo!!! YES…definitely feel his pain. The "Are you ok"' bit toward the end was classic.

    • Dominique

      LOL! But if we don't ask then we'd never know what's wrong. Guys aren't very talkative.

  • (thud)
    …………………………ON THE FLO! LOL

  • Dominique

    Laughed so hard because I (at times) have been guilty of Monica-like behavior! I don't think we women realize how annoying we can be sometimes 😉

  • MaggK

    LMAOOOO!!! I do take 15minutes telling my "so funny" stories!!!
    I love this guy!!!!

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    • Adonis

      And a black chick would have nailed this vid. IMO

  • diannne

    Im her. GAWD

  • Tea

    HAHA that was funny! I definitely do the, "are you okay? are you comfortable? are you okay? do you want anything? are you okay" LOL.

    The other stuff …I have friends like that, and its annoying to me as a friend so I can only imagine how a boyfriend deals with it!! Ugh! lol

  • Antoinette

    I'm soo guilty of the "are you ok?" haha