Is The Time He Takes To Reply An Indication Of His Level Of Interest?

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Over the years, i’ve penned a few pieces on Texting etiquette as it pertains to dating. I’ve always been of the school of thought that the person who pays the bill, makes the rules. I am not oblivious to the challenges that texting causes in relationships or dating. It can be the cause of serious tension with most people choosing to outright stop texting. I see texting as a benefit, not a distraction. I think more people should do it, but the only way to do it, is to do it right. A lot of people try to use texting in the wrong manner. For example, since they can’t get their man to have a deep conversation about where things are going, they ask them via text.

I get hung up when people ask if the time it takes to reply to text messaging is any indication of the level of interest. It can be and it also can not be. Just like there are women who prefer to talk on the phone over text messages; men are just as entitled to feel the same way. Also, there are some people who just do not like snap communication. They tend to mull over a response, at times drafting several texts before finally clicking “send.” And then, there are people like me who read a text message and think, “That is ridiculous, i’m not replying to that.” To each their own. Sometimes the ignored text message saves you from yourself. Forcing communication is never a great tactic.

Nonetheless, I wrote a piece over at MN about Text Message Etiquette and how or if text messaging can be any indication of a man’s level of interest.

Is The Time He Takes To Reply An Indication Of His Level Of Interest?

I’ll admit, I’m one of the worst offenders of text etiquette. I’ve long thought that the person who pays the phone bill is the only person who has the power to decide when and how to respond to text messages. I’m a constant offender of the “ok” text, even when I’ve received a great deal of text prior. I don’t read into things that deeply, so a text that’s quick is seemingly the most appropriate. I encourage all to remember that SMS stands for short messaging service. It’s not a place where a dissertation should be written. In all of this, it continues to confuse women wildly when men don’t respond to text messages, take too long to respond, or respond curtly.

A few weeks ago, it was brought to my attention that the way you communicate with someone is very indicative of how you prioritize them in your life. If you’re really interested or into someone, you’ll move mountains to make them a priority. Therefore, when I get a text from a woman that I’m really into, I try my best to respond immediately. At the embryonic stage of our interaction, relationship, or courtship that will happen within minutes. (Save, for some of us who don’t have our phones with us when we’re at work. I would adjust this statement to say, “at our earliest convenience.”)

In return, when I’m texting someone and they tend to take a long time to respond, I think the same thing. I think that our suspicions are always deeply rooted in what we would do under similar circumstances. I’ll give you some quick hits about how I approach texting:

1)      If I text a woman and do not hear back for hours, I’m suspicious that she’s taken a “I’ll get to it, when I get to it” approach to our communication. When she responds, if it is not accompanied by an explanation, I turn this suspicion into a fact.

2)      If I text a woman and do not hear back for days, I never text her again.

3)      I refuse to be a repeat text offender. Unless the message needed to be spread over multiple text messages, I never text twice without a response.

As I always say, fair exchange is no robbery. Meaning that I cannot expect anything more or less from the people I’m texting with and they should be able to expect the same out of me.

Click here to read the rest of the article where I acknowledge that certain circumstances make women uncomfortable and explain my perspective on those circumstances.

What do you guys think about texting and dating? Can the two ever have a healthy coexistence? Have you chosen to eliminate texting from your dating? Have their been times when you spent minutes or hours confused at a reply or awaiting one?

- Dr. J

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  • Larry

    I think dating and texting will and can exist. I really don't put as much weight on the meaning of lag time between texts as it appears many people may, but that's probably b/c I don't always respond right away. My phone's on silent at work and when it's plugged up to the charger the charger light is on and therefore I cannot see the texting indicator light. Same thing at the gym. I"m not looking at my phone.

    Now when I'm not occupied I'll really respond to everyone when I get the text or are aware I was texted regardless of interest level. If I don't respond right away it means I'm probably doing something and will get to you when I can…which is the whole purpose of texting as opposed to calling I thought…but maybe I'm wrong.

    If you think I'm not into you b/c I respond back to you later then what YOU deem to be acceptable I don't know what to tell you, lol.

    • Larry

      Now I say all that assuming we are talking reasonable scenarios….obviously if you text someone 4-5 times w/o a response then 3 days later you get a 2 word response then yeah, obviously the person isn't really that into you. Those go without saying. My reply above was in the context of within anywhere from 30 minutes to a few hours later within the same day.

  • Smielz_920

    Umm … I assume your not into me or you think I’m cool but not at the “dang I really want to get to know this woman” stage, if we don’t text every day or every other day.

    If we text or speak like 2 or 3 times a week, I just assume were just friends’ you think I’m cool, but again you really aren’t pressed or enthused to get to know me.

    If I text you and get no response I don’t text again. You’ll either contact me or I just delete your number.

  • MandyPandy

    I don't think it really matters with the amount of time as long as its not 2 days later. I think what really matters is the quality of the text. If you are texting something that requires more than one word, and all you are getting is one word………..NEXT!

  • uNk

    Imapatient women are the devil!! LOL jk

    No seriously though, i thnk it has alot to do about understanding. Understand that while this text conversation is happening between you two, life is also happening. Like anything could happen at
    any point in time that could prevent you from focusing on a text. This applies to both men and women.

    I have an issue with texting sometimes too i cant lie, but i just think that you have to be able to balance both texting and talking.

    There have been plenty times i have stared at a text like "hmm..ok…how can i respond in such a way that will make her smile, not make her angry, make her think i dont only want sex, send the flirty vibe, AND keep her interested." mind you at times i may be thinking a bit too hard but man yall ladies is hard to please sometimes lol

  • MC23

    I keep my phone in my purse at all times (on vibrate) so when I check my phone and see I have a text, I reply (mind you I could check it hours after the person reached out to me or minutes). I'm weary of people who expect instant replies especially during normal work hours (depending on your work hours) I mean aren't you working? If you are constantly on text mode then how are you working…that is a sign

    But I will never wait days – someone takes a day to respond, then that is rude; I mean its a text how long does it take? I get you didn't see it (b/c I take a while to see it, but when I see it I reply)

  • Bthegem616

    They can co-exist so long as there are mutual understandings about texting norms. I learned my lesson and try to make it clear early on that I only use texts for small talk like "I'm headed out now"…deep stuff that requires active listening, is done in person.

    And yes, you make time for ppl you're interested in. A simple acknowledgement text is basic courtesy. If i dont hear from you after a day, I do a mental write off and keep it moving. I'm not a good chaser in person and im even worst in the digital space.

  • kylieky

    I just had the pettiest argument with one of my friends because she was complaining about some idiot who wasn't responding to her text fast enough and I just couldn't take her seriously. Getting worked up over how long someone takes to respond to a text is crazy. Sometimes I don't even realize I have a text until hours after it is sent. You could be doing a number of things like napping, working, driving or whatever. It just depends on the person I guess to determine if their texting behaviors are valid indicators of their interest.

  • http://www.opinionatedmale.com cortonio

    Absolutely getting back "on time" or not depends on his interest level. Don't front when you first meet a woman and she has all the right things says all the right things, you know you're checking your phone to see if she calls or texts. Or when your phone rings you're checking to see if it's her. When she texts you, you go right back, unless you're trying to do something strategic. And I'm sure the fairer sex does the same thing. Bottom line is, if someone is interested in you they'll get back within that day, because it doesn't take a year to respond with a text or a quick call. Although if they do have a busy lifestyle (work and school, single mom, etc.) then you have to give them some leeway. With that being said however, sometimes we are among the worst offenders of text etiquette, but we do get back within a reasonable time period.
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    • Bree

      based on what I've seen and experienced people don't always change up their routine and/or lifestyle quicker than a NY minute in the very beginning when they're dating. It's a process and takes time.
      The interest is there, its just that the person had obligations and things going on in their life before you came along, especially when people have a child or kids. Realistically it just doesn't always happen quick and easy.

  • Jay Dee

    I hate bullshit double standards.

    Guy texts girl back when he can because he’s busy = asshole who should check his privilege.

    Girl texts guy back when she can because she’s busy = strong independent women who doesn’t need a man to put ketchup and for damn sure not mustard on her turkey dogs #NOGMO

    Just saying .

  • KitKatCuty84

    I've really gotten over the texting thing. I used to text back and forth (or AIM, back in college), for HOURS. I had elaborate decoding systems for ambiguous texts. And yes, the longer it took the guy to respond, the less he was into you, unless he came back with a, "I got stuck in a monster meeting at work", or something like that. But even the excuses would wear thin after, like, three. I just don't have the mental energy to spend decoding the lag time between texts or whether your excuses are legit.

    That has continued to a general complacency about texting in general. I don't know what all the texts mean. Most conversations are better had by phone than text or, and I know this is radical, IN PERSON. I spend all day on the computer and the last thing I wanna do is spend all night looking at my phone. Since this new attitude, I use texting mainly for quick exchanges like restaurant suggestions, directions, addresses, clarification of meeting times, etc.

    And with my bf, who rarely has his phone at work, I generally just text occasionally, because I know he won't get it soon and if he's home, he might not respond soon, because he's probably playing video games. It's relaxed, and I LOVE the decreased stress in my life. :)

    • Bree

      " Most conversations are better had by phone than text or, and I know this is radical, IN PERSON." PREACH!

      • Peter Parker

        Bascially…I prefer in person conversations personally…That's what I am use to anyways…

  • http://whatyouallow.com/ Wildflower

    If I like someone, i will text back immediately. If he is ok I really don't care if I forget to text right back.

    If am I interested in someone and he makes a habit of texting me when he feels like it, I know that he isn't as interested in me as I would like him too. Now if he apologizes for taking forever then I believe he is busy and I wont trip.

    I'm starting to hate texting. Especially when it becomes the only source of communication.
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    • Bree

      If I don't text back asap it means I'm busy.
      It does Not mean I don't like you. If I don't text back at all, ever, or if you text me and I reply back "who is this?" then that means I don't like you and/or don't really know you and don't care to know you.

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        Lol. Well darn.. I have been guilty of that too. And sometimes when they tell me the name, I still cant figure out who it is.
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          "And sometimes when they tell me the name, I still cant figure out who it is." me too wildflower..lol

  • Bree

    I think it depends on the person and their lifestyle and work/career obligations and if they have children.
    I don't trip off of response time unless its a day and I know the person usually responds fairly quickly.
    But when I don't hear from people my first instinct is to worry and wonder if they're ok, Not get angry and think "wth are they so busy with that they couldn't take 10 seconds to reply to my text."
    I text certain people good-morning every morning and they text me good-morning as well. Sometimes I may not get to reply til the afternoon or they may not get a chance to replay until the afternoon so we text back "good-afternoon now" lol and its funny.
    imo if u know a persons schedule and lifestyle and know what they do all day and u know good and hell well they are busy with stuff and you start tripping because they don't reply back to your texts quicker than a NY minute then you need to get a check. ijs.
    Chillax, it's not always that serious. Many people are legitimately busy with other work or family priorities.
    Patience is a virtue! *smile*

  • BlueSteele

    For me there's no set rule. I can be horrible when it comes to phone calls and text messaging. There are time when I just need to unplug so I ignore calls/texts/emails/FB alerts/etc. until I feel like getting back (unless it's obviously urgent). For people who take offense to that I shrug and move on. My mom, my guy and my best friend all understand…all that matters.

    While dating there were plenty of times when I didn't respond quickly enough and was met with "well forget you too" or "so I take it you're not all that interested". Whatever dude, if you were that pressed you'd call anyway. I get that I'm an a-hole, whatevs.

  • Peter Parker

    To me, I have learned that texting is cool, but if you really wanna show a woman you are interested, it's best to call. I think my issues with texting were the fact is was easy to do and after being with someone for a long period of time that wasn't a phone person, you kinda just get this perceived notion that is the norm. I take it on a case by case situation out here in the dating sphere.

  • http://www.greaterunderstanding.net Anthony Brian Logan

    If you texting back and forth the level of interest aint high. Texting is an informal way of communicating. If you want to talk to me for real, call me on the phone or answer the phone when I call.
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  • bellatrice1

    I think texting response time is very telling…

    I know I take my time responding a) to not look thirsty or b) because I'm not that into the guy or he texts too much. I prefer in person communication above all else, so I may delay divulging certain information in a text so that we can discuss things in person.

    But, I think it's all relative. Texting behavior varies from person to person. I just observe my dates phone behavior. Does he usually have his phone near him? Is he always on his phone? If that's the case, I would expect a faster response time than someone who is frequently away from his phone. This is all to say, there is no hard or fast rule. But, if that person doesn't respond within the day, they're probably not into their date. Also, calls/texts don't always go through…
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  • http://twitter.com/mpj2k4 @mpj2k4

    With women its crazy, some women if I texted them quickly they probably felt I came on strong or I'm desperate and some women base it as a sign of interest. Then women will pay attention if you text first too. Honestly if I like a woman and she likes me it shouldn't matter who texts first

  • http://www.iamasexsymbol.com R. Anthony

    My rule is 1 text or 1 call or only 2 text and then I'm done… I don't have time!

  • http://cheetarah1980.blogspot.com cheetarah 1980

    Anthony Brian Logan, I couldn’t agree with you more. Texting is for informal communication. A text ids not an indication of interest. If he’s calling you, then he def might could be genuinely interested. Those of us who are 30+ remember a time without texting and had to call the people we want to date. Now people act like they don’t know how to speak. Too much can be misconstrued and miscommunicated through texting. And there is nothing better than when the man you’re interested in takes a second to call to say a quick hello.

  • http://cheetarah1980.blogspot.com cheetarah 1980

    Anthony Brian Logan, I couldn’t agree with you more. Texting is for informal communication. A text ids not an indication of interest. If he’s calling you, then he def might could be genuinely interested. Those of us who are 30+ remember a time without texting an had to call the people we want to date. Now people act like they don’t know how to speak. Too much can be misconstrued and miscommunicated through texting. And there is nothing better than when the man you’re interested in takes a second to call to say a quick hello.

  • LuLuThunda1

    Let's stop texting and let's make phone CALLS!

  • Jay Dee

    I’d call if I wasn’t expected to supply the conversation. If all you have to say is dead air NEXT

  • http://twitter.com/jtSolBroSupreme @jtSolBroSupreme

    I am not a slave to my cell….just because it rings or indicates that I have a text, doesn't mean I go running to it to answer or reply. Folks got better things to do than be on the damn phone….I gotta get in my facebook, twitter and SBM time too dammit. LOL.

    Seriously, if me not replying back in a certain time is an issue, please miss me so I can avoid the REAL drama that will follow.

  • VinnyP

    RANT: Personally I hate to talk on the phone for extended periods of time and I hate texting about as much. if I am calling/texting someone to no avail that will stop soon enough because I really don't like doing it in the first place.

    If I get a call/text, I'm kinda like whatever if its not business or a loved one… sometimes I might reply right away IF the phone is in my hand and other times I won't touch my phone at all for instance if I'm driving or underground. I'm not a HS girl living on my phone.

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    …….texting is for pussies

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  • James

    Guys need to text later. I do it on purpose. If I’m dating a girl she needs to know I have a life away from her and I can’t just drop everything and be on my phone texting her. If a girl sends me a text I will read it then reply up to 12 hours later. It shows you aren’t desperate and probably have other options. If I like the girl I would love to live in a world where I can worship her but unfortunately you have to treat them mean to keep them keen and replying later is just one of those mean things you gotta do to keep the girl in love with you.

  • santo

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some
    time things you don't believe can just happen. My
    name is santo cruiz, from uk am 26 years old i got
    married at the age of 25 i have only one child and i
    was living happily .After one year of my marriage
    my husband behavior became so strange and i don't
    really understand what was going on, he packed out
    of the house to another woman i love him so much
    that i never dream's of losing him, i try my possible
    best to make sure that my husband get back to me
    but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i
    discussed it with my best friend and she promise to
    help me he told me of a man called Dr baba, he is
    a very great man and a real man that can be trusted
    and there is nothing concerning love issues he
    cannot do that is why they call him Dr baba. I
    contacted his email address at
    ( [email protected]) And i told him
    everything that happen all he told me is that i
    should not worry that all my problems will be solved
    immediately. He told me what to do to get my
    husband back and i did, he said after 3days my
    husband will come back to me and start begging, it
    really happen i was very surprise and very, very
    happy our relationship was now very tight and we
    both live happily again. So my advice for you now is
    to contact this same email
    address:[email protected], if you are in
    any kind of situation concerning love issues and any
    other things that give you problems. THANKS

  • https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100007101030893 Jennifer Anderson

    My Name is JENNIFER, From U.S.A. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called DR OGBIDI has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, I was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but when I was unable to give him a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email, then you won’t believe this when I contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month I miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great DR OGBIDI for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below:

    1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be
    yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money
    - you can contact hem via: email [email protected] or cell phone
    +2348034962033

  • james

    I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;[email protected] ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:[email protected]

  • james

    I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;[email protected] ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:[email protected]

  • natas

    Hello every body in the world my name is natas My ex-boyfriend dumped me 9 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do,so I reach to the internet and i meet Dr,abaka and i explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness.I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that,we are about to get married.once again thank you Dr,abaka you are truly talented and gifted Email: [email protected]

  • jay

    Greetings to every body that is reading this testimony
    Me and my boyfriend were seriously in love for six years and we were planning to get married but one day he came to my house and told me he was no longer interested in our relationship simply because he was dating another rich lady who promise to buy him a car and to sponsor their wedding. And i suffer heartbreak for seven months and i was not tired of loving him.so i take a bold step by contacting a spell caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back. he is powerful and great his contact is [email protected] you can also contact him for help

  • james

    I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD'S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE'S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I'M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN'T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;[email protected] ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:[email protected]

  • jay

    I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another man. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. I wasted so much time and effort trying to get him back until I hit on the real thing. And that is you, spell help. You were different from all the rest – you are the diamond in the rough. Thank you from the depth Zaco spell of my soul! I am extremely happy now. I hope God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back, visit him on([email protected]) he can be a great help to you all.

  • Jennifer Wayne

    hello every body my name is Jennifer Wayne I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Ola help me, I got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 3years with 1kid and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and don’t want to lose him but everything just didn’t work out… he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used his power… Within 4 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kid are happy too and we are expecting our second child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email him through his email address [email protected].
    [email protected] .is his contact address.

  • http://citibasiccredit.ucoz.co.uk Rose

    I have always wanted to be able to not live paycheck to paycheck or have any debt. I worked in accounting for about 20 years and was barely able to make ends meet. It seemed like any time I moved up in the company and received a raise, my living expenses would go up significantly and I was never able to get ahead. lottery spells. Then one day my best friend told me the truth about what he did when his wife left him. He had a love spell cast and she stopped the divorce proceedings and they got back together. When he told me this I asked who he used and he gave me their email address which is:[email protected] and I immediately contacted them for help. I saw that they offered different kinds of money spells to help win the lottery. I was immediately intrigued. I have always felt like I was going to win the lottery someday. I had the jackpot lottery spell cast and awaited my win. I was told to play the lottery each week and I did what I was told. I played the lottery each week anyways, so it did not change anything. Within about two weeks it happened. I won $100,000!! I could not believe it! It was not enough money to retire right away, but I invested it well and it has allowed me to go down to part time work and will help me retire much earlier. I am eternally grateful for finding their email address:[email protected]