How Leaked Nudes Have Changed The Game For The Worse

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 Share on Tumblr Leaked nudes have hurt the game more than the abundance of stretch “4′s” in the NBA. For anyone not into basketball simply ignore that. But leaked nudes aren’t a new thing. When nudes of famous people were leaked in the past it was sort of special. Not in a sacred way, but […]

You’re About to Ruin This: After Sex Do’s and Dont’s

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 Share on TumblrIt has come to my attention that after getting that happy ending many people don’t know what to do with themselves, so due to such infractions I must educate. What you do after sex is just as important as what you did during? There is still a mood to set after getting the cheeks and knocking boots. […]

How To Get Off The Dating Rollercoaster 101

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 Share on Tumblr You’ve reached a point where you’re tired of exerting energy into the wrong guys so you take time to re-evaluate yourself and your approach to dating. Then, finally, one day you wake up and say “Okay, I’m ready to get back out there and try again” only to find yourself in the […]

Why Everyone Doesn’t Have A Right To Know Your Personal Business

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 Share on Tumblr We’ve reached the end of a tumultuous week that saw yet again gender relations in society pushed to the brink of an all-out war. Stephen A. Smith put his foot in his mouth and then spent much of the rest of the week trying to put two fingers in his mouth to […]

Three Relationship-Starting Tips from a Family Therapist

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 Share on Tumblr Sometimes I envy the preacher: when couples come to him, they’re in LOVE. When people come to me, it’s not because they’re in love. It’s because they’re in trouble. I’m a family therapist, and when you’re knocking on my door, it’s because the two of you need to work something out. I […]

How Does a Man Approach a Newly Single Woman?

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 Share on Tumblr I don’t know! How about we start off with that and let it be known. I am not perfect in the world of dating. Although I’ve experienced great successes, i sure have some weak points. One of my biggest weak points is my timing. With women I have the shittiest timing this […]

Five Pieces of Advice I Wish I Could Give the Younger Me

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 Share on Tumblr I’m 31 now. Ancient, past my prime, and “should be starting a family” come to mind.  I still have a lot of goals now that I wish I had undertaken earlier in my life, a lot of things I’ve yet to do and all the while that clock is ticking. Seems like […]

Should A Woman’s Past Ever Have An Expiration Date?

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 Share on Tumblr   Twitter at times  can be one of the most useful tools ever for a writer. For me, it seems to give me random inspirations. It was last week that I came across a tweet from a young lady. It wasn’t directed at me, it was just her thinking out loud. I […]

To Breakup Or Not – That is the question

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 Share on Tumblr I was once in a relationship where it was nearly impossible to continue, but still I couldn’t get myself to leave.  We had broken up a couple of times before, but it was never final. Whenever we broke up, we would eventually get back together. I still felt like I loved this […]

My Expectations Of Marriage

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 Share on Tumblr   Happy holidays to all you good readers of SBM. I hope your season is filled with joy, health, safety…and gifts! I have a fascination with marriage. My curiosity goes from why do things fall apart to what makes things stay together? Were some marriages doomed from the start? There are a […]