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February 2012
- The Curious Case of the Subconsciously Apologetic Negro
- The Children of Divorce: How Divorce Influences Our Relationships
- SBM Hosts Screening for 'The Three Way' at New Voices in Black Cinema Film Festival
- Die Kobe Die: Are We Cheering for Love Not To Work?
- Check This Out: The Whitney Houston Obituary Pamphlet
- Why Men Need Women with a Future and a Past: Deciding to Take Care of the Damaged Girl
- Resting on a legacy: where are the next black leaders?
- Engaged Black Male: Sh*t Engaged Men Say
- Video - Family Feud answer to "Something A Pilot Holds"
- Top 100 First World Problems
- Right vs Wrong: Black, White, and How We Poorly Assess Our Failed Relationships
- Chris Brown Can Beat Me
- Video - Jimmy Kimmel Super Bowl "Unplug the TV" Challenge
- Whitney Houston's 5 Best Live Performances
- Bittersweet Memories: Reflecting On the Incomparable Whitney Houston
- SBM Video Series: Why Is It So Difficult for Black Men to Commit
- In NYC on Valentine's Day? Come Mix and Mingle with NYC's Finest
- 5 Valentine's Day Struggles Men Should Avoid
- A Man and His Many Vices: How Men Cope with Stress and Unwanted Pressure
- Stories That Make You Think: Never Judge Anyone
- Lessons in Love: The One Thing She Really Wanted
- Be Easy Bruh: Roland Martin Under Fire for Super Bowl Tweets
- Career Pathways in Love: Girlfriends versus Wives
- Video - Avengers Movie Trailer
- The Space Between: The Help, Red Tails, An Oversimplification of Her Beauty and the Problem With Black Cinema
- Great Video: Soul Train Flash Mob Takes Over Times Square
- Forreal: Antoine Dodson Releases "Lovesick Lullaby" Video
- SBM Video Series: Approaching Women and The Three Foot Rule
- Super Bowl 2012: What's Your Prediction?
- Men Should Not Attend Baby Showers
- A Match Made in Heaven
- Why Sometimes Perfection Fails
- Floyd Mayweather to Fight Miguel Cotto May 5, 2012
- Rest In Peace: Don Cornelius
- Do Men Think About Their Wedding Day?
January 2012
- Must Read: Letter From Escaped Slave To His Former Master
- Video - Key and Peele: "Obama loses his sh*t"
- Video - Blake Griffin Baptizes Kendrick Perkins in Poster Dunk of 2012!
- The Curious Case of Amber Cole and How I'd Respond Were I a Father
- Presidential Fist Bumps Through The Years
- Idris Elba's Luther and My Love For Damaged Souls
- 5 Things That Make Sexy Moments Unsexy
- #Kobesystem: Why We Shouldn't Feel Sorry for Kobe's Divorce Case
- We Made Love at Midnight: My 10 Favorite Artists from BET's Midnight Love
- SBM Video Series: Let Sleeping Men Lie
- Stuff Black Bloggers Say
- Five Unimportant But Important Things Men and Women Look For In Each Other
- Red Tails: Expecting the Worst or Supporting the Best?
- How to Know He Loves You: Stress Him Out
- Love & Hip Hop: Why You Should Never Mix Business with Pleasure
- Learning the True Meaning of the Serenity Prayer
- New From SBM: The "Week in Review" Video Series
- The Truth About New York: How Big City Dating "Corrupts" Single Black Men
- The Key to a Happy and Successful Relationship: Let Your Man Cheat
- The SBM Staff Presents: Unconventional Resolutions for 2012
- Adulthood, Maturity, and Etiquette: What Your Mother Never Told You About How to Behave
- Jay-Z, Beyonce, Blue Ivy and the Importance of Timing in Love
- When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong: Relationship Edition
- Still Single? Maybe You Should Settle
- 2012 is NOT Your Year - A Different Take on New Year's Resolutions
- Five Movies That Changed Our Lives Forever
December 2011
- Wrapping It Up: 9 Lessons Learned From the Black Blogosphere in 2011
- Women Don't Want Men to Have Fun
- Inner Circle Dating and the friends caught in the crossfire
- The Problem with Black Men Accusing Their Women of Being “Crazy”
- Engaged Black Male: 5 Signs Your Marriage Will Fail
- How Many is Too Many: What’s Your Number?
- Friends vs. Associates: How Do You Know Who's Who?
- Love Changes ... and Best Friends Become Strangers: Four Relationships Destined to Fail
- The Music and Memories That Make This Time Of Year Special
- A Few Ideas To Make Her Christmas Great
- You Don't Need Jordans, Bro
- Will You Compromise What You Believe for Who You Love?
- Five Things Every Man Should Have in His Closet this Winter
- She's Not You, He's Not Me, But We're Not Together
- Engaged Black Male: How men get married
- The Man’s Burden: 5 Ways Men Break Up With Women and Why
- 5 Things Men Need To Do To Keep Women Happy
- 5 Things Men Say That You Can Take With a Grain of Salt
- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly of a Man's Ability to Compartmentalize
- Why We Get Mad at Our Wives
November 2011
- Defending Her Honor: When a Man Disrespects a Woman
- Black Girl Lost: The Fallacy That Unmarried Women Over 30 Are Losing
- Has Technology Made Us Lazy?
- Is This The End: Six Subtle Signs You're On The Verge Of Breaking Up
- Happy Thanksgiving! Team SBM is Very Thankful!
- We Be Grubbin: My Top 5 Thanksgiving Dishes
- Has Emo Rap Gone a Little Too Far?
- Four Lessons In Love We Always Learn The Hard Way
- Engaged Black Male: Quirks of an Engaged Black Male
- #ToughLove: 7 Questions Men Ask Women Without Asking Women
- When Keeping It Real Goes Wrong: Slandering Your Exes Through Social Media
- When America Turns Its Back on Black Boys
- Till Death Do Us Part: Some Thoughts On Wedding Vows
- Why Nice Guys Finish Last & How They Can Win
- Relationships in Debt: My Money, Her Money, Our Money
- Conrad Murray: killer or scapegoat?
- If I Was Elected President: Eight Things America Needs From Its POTUS
- 5 Things Women Need to Do to Keep Men Happy
- Engaged Black Male: 6 Reasons Marriage is Scary as #@*$
- Have Women Removed Men’s Need to Put A Ring on It?
- How Do You Stay in Love?
- Why Don't Rich People Believe in God?
October 2011
- Tipping Points In Love: How To Know When It's Time To Take The Next Step
- A Man's Dream: Can You Get to the Damn Point?
- Four Reasons I Don’t Want a Daughter
- No Means Yes
- Five Reasons for Herman Cain to Win the GOP Nomination
- Five Things About Men I'll Teach My Daughter
- SingleBlackMale.org Hot Topic: Barbie Gets Tattoos Before Cam Newton
- Engaged Black Male: Why do men get married?
- The 10 #ManLaw Commandments: He Said, She Said
- How Do Men Feel About Hairy Women
- How to Spot a Bridezilla
- The Words We Never Said
- SingleBlackMale.org Reacts to The McDonald's Incident
- Why Women Should Stop Caring What Men Think
- Everybody Doesn't Need a Degree to Succeed
- What you need to do, so I know it's real
- SingleBlackMale Stumbles on SlutWalk
- Five Things About Women I'll Teach My Son
- SingleBlackMale.org Reacts to #OccupyWallStreet
- Street Love: Most and Reecie's 5 Favorite Hip-Hop Love Songs
- The Friend Zone: Where Good Men Are Punished for Being Good Men
- The Stepping Stone Relationship
- I Guess That Means I'm the Angry Black Man at Work
- Five Women I Adore But Could Never Be With
- Special Sunday Edition: The Modern Day Black Male Athlete
September 2011
- Why Men Don't & Won't Support Other Men
- [Single Black Mail] Girlfriend Benefits Without The Girlfriend Title
- Girlfriend Zero: The one that ruined him
- Is the N-Word a Treasure to Behold?
- When Great Sexual Chemistry Isn't Such a Great Thing
- Yes, Chivalry is Really Dead!
- Open Letter: We Confess, We Men Are Afraid of Love
- 14 week fitness challenge - was it worth it?
- Troy Davis and the Twitter Black Out Conspiracy
- Why Do Black People Tweet So Much?
- The G-Code: Unwritten Rules That Separate Men From Boys
- S*x Ed for Adults & Old S*x in New Relationships
- The Dark Side of Fairy Tales: Influence on Men’s Perception of Women and Themselves
- Cuffing Season: from Marvin's Room to Honeymoon in 7 easy steps!
- 5 Things Every Man Should Have in His Closet this Fall
- Lesson Learned At The End Of The Affair
- SBM remembers 9/11, Football is back, True Blood season finale and Entourage ends
- Cuffing Season Part 1: Songs and Albums to Get You Through Cold Winter Nights
- Letter To My Girlfriend About Football
- She's Out Of My League
- I Could Probably Never Blog About My Wife
- Sunglasses and Advil: Happy Hour Was Mad Real
- The Male Marrying Age ... Explained
- Commit or Die: Even Good Relationships Should Have An Expiration Date
August 2011
- What's a King to a Non-Believer? The Argument Against the MLK Monument
- Five Biggest Misconceptions about Black Greek Life
- So Don't You Fall In Love: A Thesis for Emotionally Unavailable Men
- Will & Jada: Don't Cry. This Is Not Your Life.
- If Black Men Win, Do Black Women Lose?
- SBM Exclusive: Let's Help @OriginalNajeema Be Great
- 5 Things About Evelyn Lozada You Don't Need To Know
- How Do You Love?
- News Flash: Black Men Still Winning
- I Want a Girl When I Want a Girl, But When I Don't...
- A Man's Opinion Doesn't Matter to Women
- Dating the Damaged Girl
- The Five Relationships You Have Before You Find the One
- Wrappin' It Up
- The Beautiful Black Women
- 5 words or phrases that if women say, #reallymeans you're in trouble
- Dr. J and the Curse of the Short Haired Brown Girls
- Seven Things I Thought Watching The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl
- Double Standards 101
- 5 Lessons Learned From Dating
- Eff a blog dog, cause one day we gonna MEET [RUH]
- Misandry: Will Women Ever Admit They Hate Men?
- The Not So Tall Man’s Guide to Gaining Friends, Influencing People and … Winning
July 2011
- Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
- Do cheaters have the right to remain silent?
- [Single Black Mail] To have love and lost...
- Not All Booty Is Made Equal
- Is Being Self-Employed a Red Flag for Dating?
- How do you know it's Love?
- The Break Up: How Projecting Ruined a Relationship
- The Hyphen Issue - Should She Change Her Last Name?
- Fairy Tales: Lies Your Mother Told
- Things You Should Know and People You Should Meet
- Stay In Your Lane Please
- When is it OK to Deny Him S*x?
- The Derek Jeter relationship model: Lessons that we can learn from Mr 3000
- Ten Reasons to Hate Being Skinny
- Ugly Girl Swag (Guest Post by NC-17)
- I Hate Weaves - Part Deaux
- The Reappearing Man: Why Men Almost Always Come Back
- The Women's Beauty Recognition Paradox
- Hustle Hard by The Doctor and Slim
- Happy Independence Day!
- 30?!?!?!
June 2011
- From Elegant to Elephant: When Your Woman Gains Weight
- The Cost Benefit Analysis - How to properly rate the physical attractiveness of women
- That Kid Ain’t Mine: Why Men Deny Fatherhood
- It's Okay to Feel What You Feel.
- Deep into the heart of the strip club
- Celibacy and the Single Woman
- [SINGLE BLACK MAIL] Fear of children hinders orgasms in men?!
- So Your Girl Said My Name While Ya Was Sexin
- 3 Increasingly Lame Blog Rebuttals
- Who's Responsible For Bad S*x?
- Last Day to Make It Happen
- Abortion: Does the Man's Opinion Even Matter
- I'm just saying, you can do better...
- I Need My Personal Space (Only Child Syndrome and More) feat. The Most Interesting Man in the World
- Good Dads, Bad Dads, Headaches, and Enlightenment
- The Good Girl Dilemma
- Your baby's daddy name DOES NOT need to live on
- Don't call me sweetheart!
- Why is the Black Girl A H*e and not the White Girl?
- Does Having a Significant Other Make You Better?
- Help SBM Be Great. Do Your Part.
- Should Women Carry Condoms
- Don't Be Trifling at the BBQ
- 3 excuses against working out that women need to overcome
May 2011
- Can You Love God & Sex?
- 6 Questions To Ask on a First Date
- Single Black Mail: Should I break up his marriage?
- Double Standards in Media: Psych Today, Joakim Noah, and blacktags
- You Must Respect Dude's Night Out
- Why My Kid Will Only Go to a Top 50 School
- SBM Announcements Before the Rapture
- You Can’t Always Save the Damsel
- Change You Can Believe In
- Damn homie, in high school you were the MAN homie...
- Why Are Educated Black Men Obsessed with Being Thugs?
- Single Black Mail: How Do I Motivate My Man?
- SBM Comments of the Week 5/9-5/13
- There Goes My Hero
- For Those Who Think Young [Guest Post by @8plus9]
- Friends don't let friends cut their hair
- Why Are Black Men So Rude?
- Looking For Closure: Why Wasn't I Good Enough?
- SBM Comments of the Week 5/2-5/6
- How to Survive Dating a Crazy Woman
- Breaking Old Habits
- Sentimental Value
- Your Man is Gay, Now What?
- Stop Bodying Yourself on Twitter!
April 2011
- SBM Comments of the Week 4/25-4/29
- In My Time of Villainy
- The Bald Kitty Movement: Part 2
- Single Black Mail: The side chick struggle
- Eff Rihanna
- Monogamy, Cheating, and Side Pieces
- SBM Comments of the Week for 4/18-4/22
- Welcome to Wedding Season
- Who Men Pursue: Sexy vs Beautiful
- Single Black Mail - How to tell potential lovers that you're a virgin
- Angry Birds: An analysis of the term, “Bird”
- How Being Tactful Helps and Hinders Life
- SBM Staff to Meet the President
- The One That Got Away: An Ode To Almost Love
- SBM Answers: Why do men love easy p***y?
- Single Black Mail - Baby mama stalker drama
- The People Who Read Your Blog
- Are Introverts Really Lame?
- 4 Reasons Not to Cheat on Your Wife
- Are Modern Men Too Lazy to Court
- Single Black Mail: Inner circle dating and the friends caught in the middle
- Because You Been Drinking...
- Debunking the Myths of Manliness
- How I Knew She Was the One
March 2011
- 6 Reasons I Got Out "The Game"
- Single Black Mail: Chasing relationships after relations
- Here’s Why I Wouldn’t Recommend a Black Man Date White Women
- Why Money Is More Important Than Sex
- Someone Else's Girl: Adulterers, Cheaters and You
- The Two Lists Every Unhappily Single Person Should Make
- Single Black Mail: I messed with my girl and her cousin!
- Why Black Men Prefer to Not Get Married
- 8 Things Women Don't Understand About Men
- 7 Reasons Eligible, Successful Black Men Aren't Married
- In Defense Of Marriage
- Perception vs. Reality: How online personas define real life people
- My Boy Got Married to his Baby Mama
- 3 Things About Groupies, Fans, and the Thirsty
- Top 5 Misconceptions Around Being Young, Black, Married and Male
- F* a diamond
- Too Pretty to Go Down: The Correlation Between Good Looks and Bad Brain
- Why Are All The Pretty Girls Married?
- Why I Just Can't Forgive Sometimes
- Women Love S*x, I Think...
- Are White Women Really That Easy?
- 5 signs that it's time to get a new job
- I Love You Tracy McMillan
February 2011
- Adventures in S*x and Relationship Panels Part 1
- Please Read: Updates and Changes at Single Black Male
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away – Righting Our Wrongs
- The three month warning: what you need to get in better shape before summer.
- I'm Good and Grown. You're Nuts.
- Wait: Was that Racist?
- Seriously, Please Read: Feedback Friday
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away – Leading By Example
- 5 secrets about women that men MUST know
- Full Disclosure: Should He Tell You It's Small?
- Stereotypical Strong Black Woman: #FAIL
- I'm Not Saying You're a Gold Digger
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away - Ignorance
- #TakeItToTheStreetz: No Country for vacations without your significant other?
- 5 Reasons I Hate Glasses
- When Bad Conversations Happen To Good People
- Girls Are Not Your Friend
- Hell of a [S*x] Life
- I'll be late for that - Slept on forms of entertainment that I need to experience
- Keep It in the Box
January 2011
- Getting a Woman vs. Keeping a Woman
- I Love Chelsea Handler
- Men Cant Handle The Truth
- Sharon the Nosey and Perpetually Single Woman
- You Picky Bastard!
- 2011 New Years Resolutions for Ladies
- A Man Only Has One Chance at True Love
- Take it to the Streetz: Significant Others and Strip Clubs
- Chivalry is Alive, But Accountability is Dying.
- Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!
- Is Church the New Dating Scene?
- Idris Elba vs. Kim Kardashian
- Women can't handle the truth
- Why Women Should Eat More Rejection Pie
- PSA: Stop stunting, blinging, ballin ... whatever the f* you call it!
- You're Never Getting Married
- The 2011 Brother’s New Year’s Resolutions
- Newsflash: Men think about things other than s e x!!
- C*ckblocking: When a Woman Can't Accept Defeat
- Do Natural Hair Women Get Hit On?
December 2010
- Happy New Year From SBM.ORG
- The Get Over It Series: The Wizard of Oz
- What makes men and women cry
- Bedroom Beef: Will You F**kin' Touch Me?!
- Curse of the Good Black Man
- Playing Your Position
- Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger
- #NoCountryFor Cuffing Season!
- Stop It. I Am Not That Dude and Your Girl's a Fool.
- When is s*x really a surprise?
- Truth Is, Men Are Scared of Women
- A Day In the Life of an SBM
- 5 words, phrases, and topics men should avoid saying to women
- I Won't Chase You. I'll Walk Away.
- Is he expecting s*x?
- 99.5% Of Long Distance Relationships Don't Work - But That Can Be EASILY Changed
- The Invisible Man
- They don't make em like they used to: The downfall of men in 2010
- Baby, I'm Gonna Hang with My Former S*x Buddy...
- How to spot an e-Pimp
- I Want To Have S*x With Your BFF
- Read This First, Do Not Delete: Email to this Jawn I Used to Talk to
- Researching Your Date: How Much Is Too Much?
November 2010
- Stop Frontin'. Women Are More Obsessed with S*x than Men
- How to use Relationship Blogs
- Happy Thanksgiving!
- Mood Music: Different Songs For Different Occasions
- Kissing. I Effin' Love It.
- Dumb Questions Women Ask
- Being Cruel to be Kind
- Looking Through the Window and Not the Mirror
- The SBM guide to talking good: Misused words/phrases that drive me crazy!
- I Hate Talking on the Phone. Stop Reading Into It.
- How to choose your "Dealbreakers"
- Breaking News: Men Are Always Looking for Serious Relationships
- How to Talk to Women and Get Anywhere: Part II
- Opinions and @ssholes - Negative People and what bloggers REALLY feel about e-negativity
- Does It Take A Man To Make A Family?
- The High-Maintenance Woman
- Ask The Staff: What turns a man off?
- Fools Rush In: Questions To Ask Before Falling In Love
- The Best Way To Find The Woman Of Your Dreams
- Raising a Gay or Lesbian Child Part 1
- The Eradication of The Angry Black Man
October 2010
- Let's Be Friends
- Black Women Are Perfectly Fine: An Editorial by Dr. J
- The evolution of me - Maturity with age
- Some Things Are Better Than S*x
- 7 Stereotypes of the Strong Black Woman
- Ask The Staff - When Does a man know you're that special one?
- You Are Really Dumb, For Real!
- Faking the big O: 8 questions men want to ask women, but fear the answers
- 6 Dating Reminders to Keep You Ahead of the Game
- The Club Mentality
- Are you ready for an open relationship? by @Maxfab
- Can’t We All Just Get Along?
- The unofficial SBMDOTORG guide to internet discretion: 2010
- A Black Male's Adventures in Dating: Part 1
- One thing women just don't know
- Ask The Staff 001: Readers Questions Answered
- Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas?
- The Tragic Flaw: Characteristics which lead to losing
- I Don't Work Out Because I'm Too S*xy
- 6 "Little" Things that Men DO Notice
- Watch Out For The Big Girl!!
September 2010
- Are Black Women Racists Towards Latinas?
- Failed relationships: A necessary evil
- How Heartbreak Changed 1 Black Man
- What makes a man commit?
- Light-Skinned Girls: The Black Man's Kryptonite
- Who Invited the Latinas?
- Chivalry for dummies: 5 basic chivalrous things men should do by habit
- Loving, Liking, and Lusting
- Quirks of a Black Man ... continued
- Rantings of a SBM
- Her: Do All Men Cheat?... Him: Define cheating
- Let it burn
- Men Have Egos...and Feelings
- Why you should get married
- Where? There.
- Letter To My Girlfriend About Football
- I hate popups!
- You Aren't the Only One
- Happy Labor Day
- "Unfair" Reasons He Stopped Calling
- Women Who Lie
- Top 5 Physical Appearance Deceptions Women Use #Everydayb
August 2010
- I'm Too Old for This Sh*t
- Stop Digging! He's Perfect!
- Baby...You Suck.
- The Argument for Fake Breasts
- Fact or Fiction: Do Men drive women crazy?
- When to Call It Quits
- They Still Make You?
- Rantings of a SBM
- Why Men Love Hairless Women
- I'm going postal!!!
- Post Sex Etiquette
- Controlling Women ... Ugh
- Rantings of a SBM
- When it’s best to keep it on the LOW
- 5 reasons why men are happy they are NOT women
- Eff Love!
- Husbands are punks?
- Now That It’s Over
- That Girl Is Bat Sh*t Crazy
- Ugly dudes STAY winnin!
- Is That the Best You Can Do?
- Misogyny: Why it's still a problem!
July 2010
- The Worst I Ever Had
- The Enablement of Thirsty Women
- The Claim Game Part Deux
- Touch It Whydontcha?
- I giveth the p***y ... and I taketh away
- Ten Things Men Wish You Did
- I'm not trying to take your girlfriend!
- Why Am I Suddenly So Hot?
- The Breakup: Family & Friends
- Why Men Don't Commit
- I Can Date An Atheist
- Oh you FANCY huh?!
- Battle of the Sexes: Lies and Deceit
- You dated *HIM* before me!!!
- The Other Person pt. 1
- Do you want to get married or do you want to be a husband? (Feat. The Most Interesting Man In The World)
- BPR: The Bad P Report
- Bedroom Shenanigans
- Happy Independence Day
- Don't Buy Girls Drinks in the Club ... PERIOD!
- How The Dark Skin Guys Took Back The Crown
June 2010
- The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness
- Men Don't Know How to Be Single? Bullsh*t!
- N*gga Sh*t
- Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
- No One Man Should Have All That Power
- Friend: A 4 letter word
- Things I Suck At
- Getting Better With Practice
- Book Review: B*tch Is The New Black
- I Love Who You Are, I Love Who You Ain’t
- Height aint nothin but a number
- Music is Changing My Life
- What makes Men and Woman Cry
- Are you on your period?
- What Your Man Does When You're Not Lookin'
- Sex & The City... and then there's You
- Age: Like fine wine for men, like kool-aid for women
- Another One Bites the Dust
- Yes ... I have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend
- She can do it ... but he can't!
- How to Talk to Women and Get Anywhere: Part I
- @Streetztalk 's reason #12345 why people remain single: BBM gone wild
- Men Speak ENGLISH ... Women Do Not!
May 2010
- Happy Memorial Day
- Wrappin' It Up
- Habitual Line-Steppers like Delonte West
- Hello Summer, Goodbye Wifey Season
- Applying the 80/20 Rule to Daily Life
- Great Relationship #Swindles
- Keep your woman ... Before I take her!
- He said, She said... Everybody Lying!
- The Hobby Chick
- I Guess I'm a Bit of a Hoarder...
- S*x vs. The Text Message
- Oral Lovemaking For Dummies
- Flashing Lights
- The Beauty Complex - One reason why women hate each other
- I'm Lazy and I Let a Woman Dress Me
- DC Blogger Happy Hour. Meet Dr. J
- Things you should never (ever) tell your significant other!
- The Pursuit of Foolishness
- I’m In Love with Myself. #LookieLooky
- 6 ways we blame it on the alcohol - Cinco De Mayo edition
- Women Do Not Get Along
- Yes ... I called you a b*tch!
April 2010
- The Ugly Truth
- Look At All These H*es: Examining the Motion Offense
- SBM.Org's Top 5 Relationship Dealbreakers
- Tragic Flaws that Destroy Relationships
- Women Don't Intimidate Good Black Men!
- Countdown to the ring
- Drunk & Hot Girls
- Work it out - 3 ways to get in shape before the summer
- Age vs. Maturity
- Relationship Makeovers - Don't Do It!
- The Sacrifices of Marriage
- Word of Advice for Men: Three Ways To Ruin Your Relationship
- 7 popular sexual myths
- Ladies Love Good D...or Face?
- Feed Me, F* Me, Shut the F* Up
- 7 Things I will Never Understand About Men
- Ten Things Men Find Unattractive in Women But Probably Won’t Tell You
- Pick and choose your battles
- You Wanna Take a Break? F*** That!
- What makes s*x good ... for a man?
- If She Ruled His World...
- If She Ruled His World...
- Jill Scott, Get Over It
March 2010
- 4 Things I don't understand about women
- Things I Won't Do for the Boo
- 7 Completely and Absolutely Un-Dateable Men
- Can You Make My Bed Rock?
- Woman, Buy Me A Drink
- Sisters vs. B*tches
- Women: Vengeful, Evil, and Mean
- F*** Chivalry
- Am I My Brother's Keeper?
- Say Ahh: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- Things That Make Me Go Soft
- If I Ruled the world ...
- SBM Answers: Should I buy the plane ticket?
- S***** Zealots: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- The Twitter Effect: The pros and cons of social media
- I Used to Love P*****
- Do you want to end this? ... Hell no!
- Degrees or Recipes?
- Bi-curiosity: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- Reader Email: Is the grass greener on the other side?
- Momma Said I Can Do Better Than You
- The Man Wh*re
February 2010
- SBM Answers: Am I being shallow?
- I’m So Self Conscious
- The side chick revolution - 5 reasons why a mistress will never be the houswife
- Do I Know God? How About Do You Know Me?
- "Do you miss me?" ... Not Really
- Let's Be Friends
- "Urban" Models aka Video Hoes
- Spider Sense - How do you know when somethings wrong?
- Things that Make Me Feel Insecure...Sorta.
- Way #5823 to Impress a Man: Be Cool
- 5 Things That All Men Like
- Got head?
- What the eff is a Valentines Day?
- Finding Love is Like Finding a Job
- I don't want to propose
- RCLS PSA: Super Bowl = Man Mental Outage
- Why He Can't Let the Game Go
- The Sinister 6
- What the Eff is Your Problem?!
- I Hate You
January 2010
- Men know Women, Women Don't
- Why I Will Never Play Matchmaker Again!
- What defines a "freak"?
- Things Men Shouldn't Say to Women
- I Hate Weaves!
- Don't You Trust Me?
- They're not lying, you are a h*
- With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility
- Bedroom Beef: It's Your Job Dammit!
- The Stupidity of Man
- Ways for every man to show his love
- The Assist: The Male Matchmaker
- SBM Email: When Do Men Wake Up?!
- Black Male Bloggers: Our Words Are Gospel
- The Curse of The Good Black Man
- The Root of All Evil
- Your Friend is Cheating?
- Mythbusters: The SBM Dating Edition
- Baby, You're Not S*xy Anymore
- Predictions for Dating in 2010
December 2009
- Happy New Years!!!
- Late Pass - Things I Discovered #in 2009
- Looking Back on The Decade. It's Been Crazy.
- Jingle These Bells: 12 Days of XXXmas
- It's Christmas Time!
- Battle of the sexes: The Power of the good good
- Christmas is Overrated. Yep. I Said It.
- Meeting the Parents
- The Engagement Ring
- Baby, Where You Learn To Do That?
- On to the next one - 5 ways to get over a break-up
- A Woman's View: Things Men Just Don't Get
- The Angry/Mean Single Black Woman
- How to get women by being "cool"
- Dr. J, How would you classify my friend?
- 4 Reasons Why Exes Should Remain Exes
- Good or Bad Questions: Where You At and Who You With?
- 5 Ways to know She AIN'T "the one"
- Enhancements
- Why You Don’t Want to be with THAT girl
- Club Tiger: The Domestic Abuse Double Standard #swindle
- Where to Find the Good Men
November 2009
- 6 signs that she is crazy ... for real
- Rekindling Old Flames with a Blast From the Past
- I Wanna Thank You...
- The Obligations of Holiday Dating
- Nerds don't fight?: The Alley Test
- The Claim Game: Revisited
- Is your friend obsessing over a guy?
- The Claim Game
- What's Your Love Language?
- Why men lead women on ... and vice versa
- Baby, I'm Tired...
- How to tell that she’s stringing you on?
- Its My Perrogative: Let a man want what he wants!
- SBM Answers: Should I tell him I'm celibate?
- Top 7 Reasons to take off your wedding ring
- Deny Everything
- I Can Transform Ya
- Why Won't You Just Say What You Mean?!
- Nurse!: Being sick and in a relationship
October 2009
- Fright Night - Beware!
- Nope, Doesn't Count
- We Off That
- Dating with Children
- Is your phone broke: Getting him on the phone
- 8 Signs She Might Be a Hoe ... 2009 edition
- One Night Only
- Don't judge me!
- Steps Before Marriage: Doing It the Right Way
- Male Birth Control ... FTW
- Keep the Fire Blazin': Reignite a boring relationship
- Stop Leaning on the G-Code
- The consequences of s*x and relationship blogging
- I Date for Convenience
- Best Paternity Reactions
- The 5 Worst First Dates
- Threesomes for Dummies
- The Magneto Complex: Getting dumped for the ex
- Ghosts of Relationships Past
- How to attract a man: Have Fun!
- 5 Reasons You Should Give Her (More) Face Time : The Love Below
- Single Black Male seeks Single Latina Female
September 2009
- Venus vs. Mars: The differences that men and women need to know
- Aw Hun. You Dated a Celebrity? It's Over.
- Why he didn't call: Reasons men don't call numbers they get
- Dating a Blogger
- Dr. J Answers the Mail: He’s Just Not That Into You
- Get Yourself Tested
- I Like Hair
- Friends with Benefits (FwB) to girlfriend (GF): Make the jump
- The Most Wonderful Time Of the Year
- Who let the Swiss Athlete into the 100M?
- The Designated Boyfriend
- Your Name Is What? That's a Fail.
- You ... SUCK!
- Girl ... I want you sooo bad right now ... and you don't even know it
- 15 Minutes of Shame
- Obama's speech on education: Indoctrination or Inspiration?
- Baby, Can I Borrow Some Money?
- The Truth In Advertising ... these fake a$$ chics
- Funny Moments of Love
- Guilty Pleasures
- Slim's Thoughts: Real Housewives of Atlanta
August 2009
- Yes ... Men do cook for women!
- Stop stunting, blinging, ballin ... whatever the f* you call it!
- The Get Over It Series: Get Over Yourself
- Who's Gonna Check Me Boo?!
- You're Dating My Ex?!
- Degrees don't make you sexy miss ... Sorry
- Reader Appreciation Week: A Deal Gone Wrong
- RAW: Sleeping With Who You Sleep With?
- RAW: Watch out for the BIG girl
- RAW: The S*xual Multitasker
- Reader Appreciation Week: How to get out of the friend zone?
- Jungle Fever
- The Get Over It Series: You're a Ho, and He's not
- Summertime pt.5: Where dey do that at?!
- Sabotage
- Why you don't have a man #4729: He just doesn't want a relationship!
- Reason #87432 You Can't Get A Man: Your Funky A$$ Attitude
- The Get Over It Series: The Garden of Eden
- Summertime Pt. 4: AYO Technology - 21st Century Pimpin
- After What Date Is that Man the Truth?
- The Low Maintenance Woman
July 2009
- The "Good" Man Test
- Dr. J Answers The Mail
- Summertime pt 3: Do men experience double standards?
- Another Day ... Another Year
- Get ya hands up out my pocket!!
- Do Light Skin Girls Have More Fun?
- Summertime part 2: The Men-Women Rosetta Stone
- You Doin' You? Nah Shorty, You Doin' Me.
- To Give it Up ... or not to Give it up
- Summertime pt 1: My Fave 5 Female Features
- Either she's the one or I'm caught in the Matrix
- I Hate R&B: The Slim Jackson Edition
- SBM Answers: Freaky Deaky Pictures
- The Independent Woman
- The Get Over It Series: Men are Judgmental
- "The Best I Ever Had" Video ... Drake ... I feel you
- Friendship is Essential...or Is It?
- No sweetheart ... that's not a date
- The Get Over It Series: You're single and it's your fault
- Can you love God and s*x?
June 2009
- Make or Break
- How to kill a "holla" ... with ease
- Tadow! How ya like me now?! - Maintenance Issues
- "I need you to slow down." How do you tell someone this without hurting their feelings?
- Tell me THAT aint insecure...
- Stop ... Think about it
- Funny is Sexy ... Right?
- Watch your girl homie
- Who you callin a ho?!
- Slim Answers: Sacrifice for Love?
- SBM Answers: The Problem With The Super Black Woman
- Where have all the good black men gone?
- Fight Club: Meet the Members
- No Wifing in the Club, Gimme 20 Dollars
- If at First You Don't Succeed...
- Unforgivable
- Just call my name and I'll be there: Why you'll never stop helping your ex
- Height aint nothin but a number
- Trust
- How to Spot a Good Girl
May 2009
- How to Impress a guy #1742: Be Cool
- Your friend is sprung, but you're not
- How do I love thee? Let me count the ways
- Benefit of the Doubt
- Black Week 2009
- Are your bags too heavy?
- I just want to be successful
- Throwing in the Towel
- Yes ... he counts: Determining your magic number
- The Nugget: The Magical Re-appearing ex
- How's it Going Down?: Who is she creeping with?
- The Prime Directive
- What's Wrong?
- Sex Slang for 2009 ... roll that newspaper
- Losing Yourself
- Make It Last Forever... and ever.
- BPR - The Bad P Report
- Work Out? Sh*t. I Already Look Good!
- Female Friends ... Like a part time job
April 2009
- Crash the Car
- True lies
- I'm Seeing Other People
- Quirks of an SBM ... Part Deux
- “I like the way you comb your hair and the stylish clothes you wear…”
- "I ain't going out like that." Really? Yes, you are.
- She Smashed The Homie!
- Slim's Signs of Craziness
- Gimme one more chance ... baby baby gimme one more chance
- Suck it or not
- Don't stop, get it get it.
- Her Boyfriend Hates Her Boy-friends
- Hi! My Name Is...
- Evolution of a Professional Single Black Male
- Rantings of SBM
- personal employees: seasonal, temps, part-time, full-time
- Propensity to Holla
- Spring is in the Air
- Let's be adult here
- Rantings of an SBM
- See you in my nightmares
- You, my friend, are a racist
March 2009
- Role Model? I Already Got a Day Job.
- Congratulations??? Did I win something?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Quick! Somebody get me Katt Williams!
- She has on shoes
- I Want What I Need
- The Enigma that is T.I.
- Rantings of an SBM
- It Does A Body Good
- SBM Answers: When we need to be even more clear!
- Fallin' Off
- Can I be any clearer?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Aiyyo! Tell me what you want from me!
- Status Check
- Don't Drop the Ball!
- Opposites Attract?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Once upon a time...
- She hate me
- You Want Me to Do What?!
- How to get women by being "cool"
February 2009
- Rantings of an SBM
- Meet the Parents
- A Woman Speaks: He's not that into you ...
- How Soon is Too Soon?
- I'm taking a personal day ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- "I'm so bad ..."
- So many people use your name in vain ...
- How to Become a Man's Best Friend
- Looking for the ... BEST ... advice!
- Rantings of an SBM
- Bah! Humbug!
- Time ... is NOT on my side
- Bourgeois or not Bourgeois ... That is the question
- Curiously Strong
- Rantings of an SBM
- Can I Get That In Writing
- Quirks of this Single Black Male
- Slim's Search Criteria
- Get A Life 101
January 2009
- Rantings of an SBM
- Recession Proof: The Cost of Being Single
- The Young Misogynist
- Snoopin'
- Do you really want me to answer that?
- Rantings of an SBM
- My President is Black, But I'll Be Got Damn If My Girl Ain't
- Obama ... The Father in Law
- The Ultimate Strong Black Woman
- Misogyny ... and "The Problem"
- Rantings of an SBM
- You Mighta Seen Me In The Streets
- Girl ... Ignore them roaches ...
- Men Really Are Dumb...Sometimes.
- The Art of Baselining
- Rantings of an SBM
- My Dick Has A Degree Requirement
- Freaks, Hoes, and Freaky Hoes ...
- Age Ain't Nuthin but a Number...Or Is It?
- To Swallow or Not to Swallow
- Rantings of an SBM
December 2008
- America's Online Love
- How The Grinch Stole P*ssy
- Cute for Her ... Not for Him
- Rantings of an SBM
- Tongue Rings
- Craptacular Gifts
- The "Performance"
- Rantings of An SBM
- Oh The Weather Outside Is Frightful
- Church is soooooo Good
- Bad Breath. Never a Good Look.
- Relationship Amnesia
- Rantings of an SBM
- Sike Your Life
- There's a Thin Line Between Love and Like
- Family History
- SBM Answers: Creepin ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Never Too Much
- FwB != Jump Off ... I need validation
- Can I Get a Lap Dance?
- It really is just me ...
November 2008
- Thankings of an SBM
- Males Aren't The Only Ones That Piss With Their Leg Up
- Real Chance of Love
- Rantings of an SBM
- Lola Luv (Angel) ... Real or Fake ... I care?
- Sorry Shorty. I Can't Help You.
- The New Leader of the Feminist Movement
- Rantings of an SBM
- Moment of Ignorance: Let me see your tongue ring
- The Obamas ... Perfect Family Role Model
- The Magic Ratio
- Rantings of an SBM
- Dating a weed head
- The Bad Part
- Life is Good
- What makes "it" good?
- I just don't know ... And you probably don't either
October 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: A Throwback ... FCF
- The Sex Cloud
- Prototypes of Beauty
- Shedding the lists ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Black Women & Sports Bars
- Moment of Ignorance: No Shoes for you ...
- I need a Hoody Hood Hood Rat
- Who needs a team?
- Michelle’ Orphalee McMullen ... Missing
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Freaky Deaky Ducks
- Dating & Poverty: Blog Action Day
- Romantic Comedies ... That bullsh*t
- SBM Answers: Now you see me ... now you don't
- Michelle’ Orphalee McMullen ... Missing
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: The Antidater Speaks ...
- The Shake Joint
- What makes a breast ... a breast
- SBM Answers: You want to chill with who?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Soft Guys
- You wanna do it where?
September 2008
- Love Goggles
- Divide And Conquer
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature:
- The Trench Coat Test
- The Coochie Crook
- Money Talks?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday's Feature: Gimme some head!
- Black Men's Appreciation Day
- Black Man's Appreciation Day Banter
- Where is my Dowry?!?!?!
- SBM Answers: No good ninja
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: It's Still Tricking If You Got It
- Preliminary Rounds
- They still make you?
- Dating Greek
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday's Feature: Them thirsty ninjas ...
- SBM College Fund
- The Black Goo
- Happy Labor Day
August 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursdays Feature: Mean Black Women
- White Girls [Video]
- You're not that hot ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Hands That Stand ...
- Beautiful Black Hair
- Online Dating: Wave of the future.
- SBM Answers: Disposable Black Women?
- Rantings of an SBM
- What do YOU have to say?
- Tig Ol' Bitties
- Chivalry ... this bullsh*t again
- Embracing Technology
- Rantings of an SBM
- Something New
- Making Love ...
- SBM Guide to Getting Head
- Rantings of an SBM
July 2008
- She made me do it!
- I can change ... right?
- Another Year
- Rantings of an SBM
- Throwback: The Club Mentality
- F*ck R&B!
- Beautiful Black Hair: SBM Answers
- Rantings of an SBM
- Black Love And Growing Up
- Skinny girl's scare me ...
- Work & Love
- Rantings of an SBM
- Butter-Face
- Flat Screen or Law Degree?
- Golddigger Justification
- Rhythm & Blues
- Cheating ...
June 2008
- Male Birth Control: Sign me up!
- Rantings of an SBM
- Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video]
- Women in different area codes
- Mr. Misogyny
- Rantings of an SBM
- Reasons to take of your ring
- Black Bike Week Madness: SBM Answers
- We want prenup!!!
- "Feed Me, F*ck Me, Shut the F*ck up"
- ***Commenter Peace Day***
- All she needs ... Two Things!
- "Gimme Gimme One More Chance": SBM Answers
- Moment of Clarity
- I'd rather get some head!
May 2008
- Did Text Messaging Ruin Romance? ... Naw
- Laffy Taffy [Video]
- Too Much ... Need Rest
- Black Bike Week 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- She Ugly [VIDEO]
- Homies Over Hoes
- Do I steal her man?: SBM Answers
- Sacrifices: I have to give up what!?
- Smell Yo Dick: Don't you trust me! [VIDEO]
- Why the Degree'd want the Degreed: Educated Black People Rule!
- "Girl ... He's Gay": Female Homophobia
- Want to be Pampered? [VIDEO]
- Single Young Male: That I am ...
- Rantings of a Single Black Male
April 2008
- In Love With My Money - Chamillionaire [VIDEO]
- "Too Freaky for Me": SBM Answers
- "I'm gonna buy you a drink" ... right
- Black from "Flavor of Love 3" ... Too Fine
- The Bold & Grimy Female ... A story
- SBM Answers Your Questions: "She says he's just a friend"
- Simp: A Definition
- The Fallacy of "The One": Love is Everywhere
- Rantings of an Single Black Male
- Relationship Age: Are you really ready for something real?
- Single Black Male Realities [Video]
- 5 Ways to Know She Likes You
March 2008
- Friends With Benefits Explained: More than just sex
- Flavor of Love 3: Will it ever work?
- When "Knowing What You Want" Goes Wrong!: Finding your soulmate
- Say Hello To The Bad Guy: Death of the "Nice Guy"
- Sickness: Taking care of your boyfriend/girlfriend
- The Throwback: Giving your ex one more chance
- Not Every Girl Likes You: Why Your Getting Rejected! [Video]
- Nerdy Women are Sexy: Talk code to me girl ...
- Older Women: The Best Thing for a Young SBM
- The Truth about SBM ... A Hopeless Romantic
- 10 Ways to Show Your Man You Love Him
February 2008
- Moving On ...
- Old Fashioned Wife ... Not HOT [LINK]
- Chivalry is DEAD ... well ... Mortally Wounded
- Valentine's Day: The Sham ... The Hustle ... The Greatest
- Rantings of an SBM
- 10 Questions to Ask Before Proposing
- You Might Be a Jumpoff [VIDEO]
- Stay At Home Wife ... Thats Bullsh*t!
- Economics & Dating: From Antidater
- Fake Ass Boyfriend (FAB): The Definition
- Indicators of Interest (IOI): Does she/he really like me?
January 2008
- Random Thoughts
- Relationship ADD: Why can't she keep my interest?
- The Lull
- Keep your legs closed ... just not forever
- The Club Mentality: Wife ... from the club ... NOT HAPPENING
- What Women Want From Men? ... That's Easy!
- The Prelude: The Husband Store
- One Thing Women Don't Know ... Women
- Ass Grabbing: Disrespectful to you ... Cute to your friend!
- INDEPEDENT by Webbie
- The B*tch Breaker: The Guy That Doesn't Get Turned Down
December 2007
- Happy Holidays
- Independence: Yeah ... thats sexy
- He's Not in Love ... He's a PIMP: The Truth of Ignorant Females
- Stop Playing Games ... Its OK to call him!
- The Essence: Female Swagger ... How to attract a Man
- Weapons in the War ... Advantage: Women
- Percentage of Quality ... Continued
- The Alley Test
- Honesty ... Its whats hot!
- 99% Failure Rate
- The Four Man Plan
- Fundamental Character Flaw
- Can't look at ass all day
- Living with Females
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