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May 2013
- It Ain't All That Deep: Kanye West, New Slaves, And Race Matters In Cultural Criticism
- Why can't HE just be my Friend With Benefits?
- Is It Easier For Men To Say No Than It Is For Women?
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/22/2013)- Fried Chicken Jokes Aimed at Tiger Woods
- #MiguelMania: The Best Miguel Leg Drop Memes
- A "Better" Diet
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/21/2013)- Oklahoma 24
- Being With Someone But Your Heart Is Elsewhere
- The 20 Best Drake Memes (Dada Supreme Edition)
- SBM Sports: Catching Up on the 2013 Baseball Season
- Men Fall In Love Faster Than Women
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/17/2013)- IRS Scandals and the Scandal Finale
- Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women?
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/16/2013)- Legal Alcohol Limit to Be Lowered?
- 10 Jay-Z Quotes Applicable On The Street Or In The Boardroom
- Day 1...Again? Three Ways To Avoid Falling Off The Workout Bandwagon
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/15/2013)- Justice Dept. Subpoenas Associated Press Phone Records
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/14/2013)- Mother's Day Shooting UPDATE
- Six Lessons: Advice for Fathers to Be
- SBM Sports: The Four Headlines From the NBA Playoffs So Far
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/13/2013)- Kobe Bryant Sues His Mother
- I Never Stopped Loving Her
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/10/2013)- Malcolm X's Grandson Killed
- Eight Signs of an Impending Breakup
- 5 Things Good Writing Can Teach You About Your Job Search via @IAmRichJones
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/9/2013)- Who is Ariel Castro?
- Why do men just disappear?
- An Oversimplification of Her Beauty And The Problem With Black Cinema
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/8/2013)- Charles Ramsey Interview with Anderson Cooper
- Procrastination: The Trojan Horse Of Productivity
- Is The Time He Takes To Reply An Indication Of His Level Of Interest?
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/7/2013)- Charles Ramsey Rescues Amanda Berry & Gina DeJesus
- SBM Sports: Russell Westbrook's Injury, Bad News for...the Heat?
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/6/2013)- Mayweather Beats Guerrero Easily
- 5 Lessons Learned from Failed Relationships that Made Me a Better Man
- 20 Ways Black People Act When They Go Out Versus Their Counterparts
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/2/2013)- Kris Kross Star Dies
- Five Things Every Expectant Father Needs To Know
- Five Things You Need to Know (5/1/2013)- PA Judge Sold Teens to Private Prisons
- The Game of Life: Winning Time
April 2013
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/30/2013)- The Right to Know Act
- SBM Sports: Did ESPN Have it Right in Looking Past Jason Collins?
- Chris Broussard, Political Correctness, and Staying True to Your Beliefs
- Why It's Easier To Support Someone Coming Out of the Closet When You're Not Close To Them
- Brandy's Brother Drops Official Video: I Hit It First
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/29/2013)- Michael Jackson Wrongful Death
- Confession Session: I Don’t Like Babies and Neither Should You
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/26/2013)- Skylar Diggins Signs to Roc Nation
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/25/2013)- Parents of the Boston Bombers
- Moving with Memories...Except from Exes
- Marriage For All
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/24/2013)- AP's Twitter Fiasco
- Five Lessons Learned in Five Years of Writing
- Sports Is Life: Playing To The Level Of Your Competition
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/23/2013)- Who is Ginger Howard?
- 15 Reasons Your Relationships Keep Failing
- Are They All Playing for Second? The NBA Playoff Rundown
- Nobody Cares: Men Get Rejected All The Time
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/22/2013)- Silence in Boston
- While You Were Sleeping: CISPA and the Forfeiture of On-Line Privacy
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/19/2013)
- Why the Media Is More Tragic Than the Tragedies
- Commentary: Preacher’s Daughters
- Don't Embarrass Yourself: Simping goes social
- What You Need to Know About Changing Careers and Starting Over
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/18/2013)
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/17/2013)
- Have Women Become Too Expensive to Date?
- The Sensitive Side: 5 Reasons Why Men and Women Cry
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/16/2013)
- Why We Can Forget About the Lakers (For Now)
- I Lost My Job: Why You Should Pay Attention to Politics
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/15/2013)
- Raising Someone Else's Child: Advice for Step Parents
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/12/2013)
- Why Chris Brown and Rihanna’s Relationship Intrigues Us All
- Why Telling Your Ex 'I Just Want You To Be Happy" Is A Lie
- Five Things About Men I'll Teach My Son #TBT
- An Open Letter to Employers with Ridiculous Requirements
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/11/2013)
- LL Cool J and Brad Paisley Spark Controversy with 'Accidental Racist'
- Five Things You Need to Know (4/10/2013)
- SBM Reacts: Ray-J's "I Hit It First" Kim Kardashian Diss
- Five Things You Need to Know(4/9/2013)
- Rutgers Is Not Alone: The Culture of Hazing in Sports
- Why Do Good Men Become Dogs?
- Five Things You Need to Know(4/8/2013)
- The Power of ‘We’ – A Fresh Perspective on an Old Tradition
- It’s Never Ok to Compliment a Woman
- 5 Reasons Why Tyler Perry's Movie 'Temptation' is Just Bad
- Five Things You Need to Know(4/5/2013)
- My Boyfriend Hates My Best Friend ... Why?
- Five Things You Need to Know(4/4/2013)
- How Can Women Escape the Friend Zone?
- The Curious Case Of The Disappearing Love Interest
- Five Things You Need to Know(4/3/2013)
- 15 Tips on Cheating and Managing Your Mistresses
- Do Women Really Value Sex More than Men?
March 2013
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/29/2013)
- Why Teaching Men Not To Rape Isn't Going To Cut It Either
- Men Don't Have The Monopoly on Effing Up
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/28/2013)
- Size Matters: 5 Reasons Why Being Well Endowed Is Way Overrated
- The Government, Child Support, and Backwards Thinking
- Top 11 Qualities Men Love About Women
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/27/2013)
- 5 Lessons My Mother Taught Me About Women
- Why Rappers Can't Stop Rapping About Violence, Women, and Money
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/26/2013)
- March Madness True Life: I'm A Bracket Snob
- Misogyny and Sexual Harassment: How "Small Jokes" Cause Big Problems
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/25/2013)
- Women Don’t Have a Monopoly on Heartbreak
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/22/2013)
- 5 Things Men Do To Ruin Their Sex Lives
- Why You Don’t Mind Interracial Dating Until You Have To See It
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/21/2013)
- What Is Success: Five Things I've Learned While Chasing My Dreams
- 5 Reasons He Doesn't Want To Be Your “Friend"
- 5 Fitness Tips To Get In Better Shape Before Summer
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/20/2013)
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/19/2013)
- The Five Unofficial Rules of Filling Out Your NCAA Bracket
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/18/2013)
- Conflicts of Interest: Child Support - The Man's Point of View
- Conflicts of Interest: Child Support - The Woman's Point of View
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/15/2013)
- Why Men Need Dating Standards Too
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/14/2013)
- I'm Having A Boy: Fear, Excitement and Anxiousness as Fatherhood Approaches
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/13/2013)
- Like, Love, or Lust: How Does Body Language Communicate Your Feelings?
- Dating in the Workplace
- Dating in the Digital Age: A Panel Discussion and Social Mixer in DC w/ Dr. J as panelist
- Five Things You Need to Know (3/12/2013)
- Did the Other NBA Contenders Clear the way for a Miami Heat Title?
- You Have Overcome: The End Of The Voting Rights Act?
- R.I.P. Brandon Knight, DeAndre Jordan Sought for Questioning
- The Male Ego and Unfaithful Women
- 5 Things All Men Should Lose By Age 30
- The Inaugural March Movie Madness Hood Classics Bracket #MMMHC Presented by seveneighteen
- 5 "Interview-Like" Questions Worth Asking Your Lover
- New NYC Teen Pregnancy Prevention Ads Got People Mad
- The First Time I Worshipped at a White Church
- Zimmerman Waives "Stand Your Ground" Hearing Right In Trial
- Relationships and White Lies: Brooklyn Man Fakes Kidnapping To Avoid Girlfriend
- Co-parenting: When One Of The Parents is Gay
- Why Sports Matter: Lessons From My Dad
- Why Does He Ask "Do You Love Me?"
- Child Born with HIV "functionally cured"
- Is Foreplay Only for Women?
- Black Friday: What Do The Pending Budget Cuts Mean for You?
- Where Do Black Men and Spirituality Meet?
February 2013
- 10 Things Every Woman Should Know About Her Man
- Why is Our Generation Refusing To Grow Up?
- President Obama Unveils Statue of Rosa Parks
- Instant Gratification: We want what we want, when we want it!
- Do Guys Care If You've Slept with Their Friend?
- Is It Harder To Date Women In Their Late 20s And Early 30s?
- SBM Sports: What Sunday's Game Said About the Lakers' Playoff Chances
- Examining The Onion's Tweet, Quvenzhane Wallis, and Comedic Tact - How Do You Know When Your Joke Has Gone Too Far?
- Male Birth Control: Coming Soon But Will Men and Women Use It?
- Why Do Men Love Women In Yoga Pants?
- Malcolm X Eulogy By Ossie Davis: Our Own Black Shining Prince
- What You Need to Know About (Male) Relationship Experts
- Why You Need to Ask More Questions
- {EVENT} Is It Love: Fashion Meets Music to Raise Awareness of HIV/AIDS
- Winners and Losers from NBA All-Star Weekend
- Married Sex Is Great...For Men
- Mean Girls: The Many Factions of Black Twitter
- It Doesn’t Pay to Be Single
- Where Do The Young Professional and Hipster Meet?
- How To Escape Emotional Purgatory
- 16 Couples We All Know and Hate
- A Letter to Emotionally Unavailable Men
- How History Informs My View on Dating White Women
- The Pressure of St. Valentine's Day
- Why the NFL's Popularity May Be at Risk of a Collapse
- Do Single Women Hold Any Responsibility for Not Pursuing Committed Men?
- 10 Quick, Yet Hilarious Observations from Last Night’s Grammys
- Bittersweet Memories: My Five Favorite Whitney Houston Live Performances
- 5 Reasons Every Man Should Support Girls Night Out
- Earth to Chris Brown & Rick Ross: This is Not A Fairy Tale
- Doggone Shame: Couple Shot Dead by Elderly Neighbor Over Dog Poop?!
- Understanding How HIV Affects Us All
- Everything Is Not Ok in Black America, But What's Next?
- Tip Drill: 5 Lessons In Tipping From A Fired Applebees Waitress And A Cheap Pastor
- Are You Cool With Your Boyfriend Frequenting the Strip Club?
- Five Things the Super Bowl Commercials Told You About the Actual Game
- SBM Is Taking on the Black History Month Challenge on Facebook!
- Should You Ever Delete Facebook for Your Relationship?
- Do You Keep Track of Everyone You’ve Slept With?
January 2013
- Is VW's Superbowl Commercial Racist or Not? [See For Yourself]
- 8 Things The NFL Can Teach You About Love
- Three Months After Sandy: A Father Struggles to Provide for his Daughters
- Do Men Really Want Their Women With Six-Pack Abs?
- A Man Complains: We Only Communicate Through Text
- Five Reasons Why The 49ers Will Win Super Bowl XLVII via @SevenEighteen_
- The Importance of Accepting Personal Responsibility
- Four Reasons the Celtics Can Win Without Rajon Rondo
- Chris Brown and Frank Ocean Get Into a Cat Fight
- The Absence of Black People is not the Evidence of Racism
- Your Relationship Is Just Not That Complicated
- Could Your Friends Be Holding You Back?
- Girls Season 2 On HBO: Hannah's Black Boyfriend - Token Or Tableau
- Feeling Unfulfilled? Read This.
- Beyonce and the Lip Sync Controversy: Is it REALLY that serious?!
- [Webisode] BlogXilla's Friends With Benefits: Putting Effort In Your Relationship (Featuring @JoeBudden)
- Communication Is the Key. Why Do You Keep Losing It?
- He Said He Wasn't "Looking for Commitment" But Then He Got Married
- End of An Era: Is the Window Closed for Matt Ryan and Tom Brady?
- Can What You Watch on TV Determine Who You'll Love?
- History in the Making: Barack Obama’s Second Inauguration and MLK Day
- Tiger Woods Wants His Ex-Wife Back. She Wants an Anti-Cheating Clause.
- Podcast: Django Unchained, The N-Word, White People and Punching Samuel L. Jackson in the Throat
- It’s Hard For Someone to Accept Love When They Don't Love Themselves
- Confessions of a Cerebral Dater: Learning to Trust Your Partner
- Scandal On ABC: Seven Things I Hate About Olivia Pope And Her Gladiators
- Why Men Don't Call After a Great Conversation
- Is "Fat" A Slur?
- Know When To Say When: Relationship Inconsistencies
- Cliff Hanger: The Fiscal Cliff Debacle & Where We Must Go From Here
- Response Post: That's Not Why Men Don't Like Scandal
- SBM Sports: Five Things I Learned From the NFL Playoffs
- Why Men Lie When They Could Easily Tell the Truth
- 9 Men to Watch Out For
- Is it Ok for Committed Men to LIKE Other Women?
- Confessions of a Cerebral Dater: Unspoken Expectations of Partners
- Quvenzhané Wallis Best Actress: Beasts Of The Southern Wild Star Becomes Youngest Person Ever Nominated For Best Actress At The Academy Awards
- Why We Shouldn't Worry About Black Women Who Date White Men
- The Key to Staying in Love
- Love at First Sight: The Beautiful Black Woman
- Is Django Racist: A Look At The Conundrum Tarantino's Latest Created In Progressive Black America
- How One Man Became Jaded: The Final Chapter
- 5 Things We Can Look Forward To With KimYe’s Love Child
- 10 Marriage Tips From Happily Married Men
- SBM Sports: Of Course Mike Shanahan Decided to Play Robert Griffin III!
- Young Man Sets Out to Walk Cross Country for Diabetes Awareness
- War On Men: Should Women Avoid Dating an Older Man?
- Do Men Fake Orgasms?
- The Case Against Leaking Nude Pictures On Social Media
- 20 Tips for a Positive 2013
- Why Being Selfish About Your New Year's Resolutions Works
- Leave Them Behind: 10 Things to Avoid on Social Media in 2013
- Wrapping Up the 2012 NFL Football Regular Season
December 2012
- SBM Reflects on 2012
- 5 Reasons You Should Be Dating an Older Woman
- From Her, 6 Post-Breakup Behaviors to Avoid
- How One Man Became Jaded: Part 5
- Does A Man's Credit Score Really Define Him?
- Why Does It Take So Much Work For Men Not To Cheat?
- The Morning After: The Dos and Don'ts of Christmas Gift Returning
- SBM Sports - Your Guide to an NBA Christmas
- Sandy Hook: What You Should Be Thinking a Week Later
- Christmas Music, Christmas Memories - Remembering What Makes This Time of Year So Special
- I Have Too Many Kids
- From Her Perspective: 4 Dating Mistakes We Make
- Video: What Men Think During Relationships
- Something's Missing: How to Cure Your Emptiness
- How to Know He's Mad at You: 10 Signs
- Relationship Advice for Women: Please Consider the Source
- Barack Obama Selected as the 2012 Time Magazine Person of the Year
- A Few Things That Love Is Not
- Who Hurt You?! - Why You Should Stop Caring Who (S)He Dates
- Instagram's New Terms Of Use: 3 Reasons Why I'll Probably Quit IG
- How One Man Became Jaded: Part 4
- Time to Face Facts: The New York Knicks are For Real
- A Few Days Later: So About the Cornball Brother...
- The 13 Qualities that Define a Man
- Groups of Women: Are They Too Big to Succeed?
- 4 Things We Love About #Scandal
- Her Words: Confessions of a Crazy Chick
- 5 Reasons Why Break Ups Suck
- Could You Wait Until Marriage for Sex with a Non-Virgin?
- I Don't Know No Kionna: When You Run Into Your Ex with Your Current
- An Open Letter: My Response to "Stop Calling Sh*t Fatherless"
- New Superman Movie Trailer: Man of Steel
- A Few Relationship Truths You Need to Know
- How One Man Became Jaded: Part 3
- The State of Black Marriage: Whose fault is it?
- Who Is Trinidad James? The Man Behind All Gold Everything
- Robert Griffin III: The First Post-Racial Quarterback in the NFL
- Why Some Men Are Afraid of Women
- The 8 Funniest Manny Pacquiao Memes from the Marquez Fight
- The Real Truth Behind Fairy Tale Relationships
- Can Men Really Be Alone?
- How to Find a Good Relationship Partner
- Author Compares Legalization of Marijuana to Gay Marriage
- Why the Engagement Ring Isn't as Big a Deal as You Think
- For the Ladies and Gents: Bump Patrol Holiday Giveaway
- One of the Worst Music Videos Ever: Spartan High School Style
- Blacklisted: Why Are There No African Americans In The US Senate?
- A Money Conversation Every Couple Should Have
- Why Do Men Ignore Women Then Call Them Crazy?
- Do Men Prefer Models Over the Everyday Girl?
- A Month After the Election: The Obama Conundrum
- Wow: Woman Texts "How's Life LOL" to Ex After Driving Over His Mom
- How One Man Became Jaded Part II
- The Un-winnable Game Black College Football Coaches Play
- Are You in a Co-Dependent Relationship?
- The Best Black Blogs and Websites to Read in 2013
- Breaking News: The Woman You Love Has a Past!
November 2012
- 10 Black Actresses from the 80s and 90s That We Loved
- Her Mouth, Not Ours: Why You Should Never Assume with Men
- Revisiting a Classic: What's Your Love Language?
- A Post for the Men Who Want to "Save" Women
- Do Holidays Really Define Your Relationship?
- The Dating Middle Class: Are We Ignoring the 47 Percent?
- How One Man Became Jaded Part I
- Hilarious Video: The Elevator Ghost Prank
- What's on A Black Man's Wishlist?
- 30 Things All Men Should Experience by Age 30
- 3 Ridiculous NBA Topics That Come Up at the Barber Shop
- Single Parents: Do You Need the Approval of Your Child's Mother or Father?
- Rise of the Lazy Man: Courtship, Dating, and Commitment in the Modern World
- The Five Essential Questions You Need to Know About Your Relationship
- Happy Thanksgiving from SBM and Eddie Murphy's Delirious
- Her Mouth, Not Ours: Top 5 Reasons You’re Not Dating
- Don't Get Catfished: How to Avoid the Online Dating Swindle
- Taken for Granted: 4 Things Boyfriends Do That Need to Stop
- Are Black Women Right to Blame Black Men for Their Personal Insecurities?
- Sports Hate: The Teams and Players That Make Me Sick
- Tis The Season: Time to Define Your Relationship
- Uncommon Goods Equals Uncommon Fun
- In Search of Amber Rose: A Man's Quest For Companionship
- Four Questions to Ask a Hiring Manager During an Interview
- Identity Crisis: Where Does the Grand OLD Party Go From Here?
- Five Awkward Ways Men “Show They Care”
- Is it easier for a man to find a wife?
- How to Request an Informational Interview and Get Results
- 4 Reasons the Lakers Firing Mike Brown was a Dumb Decision
- Veterans Day
- 5 Ridiculous Things Women Expect from Men
- Is the Internet Creating a New Generation of Racist?
- 10 Things About Life I'll Teach My Daughter
- Til Death Do Us Part: But, I'm no longer physically attracted to my partner
- Informational Interviews: 4 Mistakes to Avoid
- Did Chris Rock Tell the Wrong Jokes to the White Audience?
- And The Winner Is, America?
- I Voted Today, Will You? - It's Time To Vote America
- Dream Crushing: Is It Ever For the Win? Let's Discuss...
- The Definitive Guide to the 2013 NCAA Basketball Season
- You, Him and Her: How To Handle The Pre-Exclusive Zone
- Hurricane Sandy: Requiem
- 9 Things Men Should Never Say To Women
- Thank You for The Biggest Month in History
October 2012
- How to Meet Women While Avoiding Girls and the Friend Zone
- How To Survive a Hurricane with Your Significant Other
- When Should a Man Move for the Relationship?
- How the Thunder Chose Doodle Jump Over James Harden
- Illegal Search and Seizure: Stay Out of His (or Her) Things!
- Five Things About Women I'll Teach My Son
- Why Didn't It Work Out? Was it Him or Me?
- Eating Healthy: The #BeTheBetter Grocery List
- 6 Ways the Black Male Scarcity Myth Hurts Men
- This Is It! Recap of NFL Week 7 (and 6!) by @WilliamHStrafe
- The Top Five Obama Quotes from the Last Presidential Debate
- Talking Trash: An Analysis Of The One Track Conversational Skills Of Men
- SBM Sports - Who's in the Running for the 2013 NBA Championship?
- Dating Women With Kids
- 12 Surprising Facts About Unfaithful Men
- An Unfaithful Man Explains: Why Men Cheat
- Double Standards in Relationships: The 90-Day Sex Rule
- Domestic Violence: Imperfections of a Seemingly Perfect Girl
- It's Just Hair: 5 Thoughts on this Natural vs. Creamy Crack Stuff
- Reverse Discrimination: Affirmative Action From the Other Side
- Don't Call Me A Female!
- President Obama's New Campaign Ad ... Featuring Jay-Z
- The Blogger Life: 5 Ways Being a Blogger Can Really Screw Up Your Private Life
- SBM Sports: What Derek Jeter Taught Me About Sports Guilt
- Can You Really Have Sex Too Soon If You're Both Looking for a Relationship?
- The Journey to Becoming a Good Man and the Women We Encounter Along the Way
- What Makes Men Consider a Woman Too Needy?
- Can A Man Ever Be Justified In Putting His Hands On A Woman?
- Thoughts of a Twenty-Something Turning a Year Closer To 30
- Do Men Judge Women By Their Hair?
- Biggest First Date Turn Offs
- SBM Sports: Spending Week 5 of the NFL Season In Vegas, at the Sportsbook
- The New Battle of the Sexes: Do Men Prefer Dumber Women?
- The 10 Real Reasons Nicki Minaj and Mariah Carey Are Beefing
- Who Cheers For the Other Woman: Olivia Pope, Kitty O’Neil and Ornamental Women
- Living in a Bubble: A Conversation on Culture
- Pans Will Get Her Bands: Is A Woman's Cooking Ability Important To Men?
- Strange Fruition: Finding My Own Truth in Lupe Fiasco's Lyrics
- Why Do Women Get Angry At Men For No Reason?
- How Committed Are You in Relationships? Maybe Not as Much as You Think.
- SBM Sports: The Highs (and Lows) of the NFL Season So Far
- Do Men Settle Too?
- Children Raising Parents: The Land Before Retirement
September 2012
- How Shedding Self-Doubt Can Help Women Achieve Greatness
- Cuffin’ Season Tips: 5 Ways To Know Your Situation Is Not Exclusive
- Domestic Violence - An Indiscriminate Social Affair
- The 10 Best Jay-Z Features of All Time
- Michelle Obama and Ann Romney: The Women Beside the Men
- Can You Love God and Gays - The Black Church and 'Stay At Home' Theology In the 2012 Election
- From His Mother to You: How Men Learn to Treat Women
- Lupe Fiasco’s Surprisingly Dope Food & Liquor 2
- SBM Sports: What's the Point of College Athletics Anyway?
- College is Pointless, but You Can Change That
- Why He Married the Regular Girl
- Cuffin’ Season Tips: Phone Etiquette
- How to Get Your Michelle Obama On in Relationships
- Things That Make Relationships Work Vol. 2
- Are You Better?
- The Thrill of The Chase: 6 Reasons Why Men Love The Single Life
- A Real Hero - Redefining American Exceptionalism
- The Newest Form of Exploitation in College Football
- Sex Is Better Than Love?
- Why The Hell Doesn’t Jay-Z Understand The Importance Of Occupy Wall Street?
- 11 Things I’ve Learned About Relationships, Dating, Love and All That Other Stuff
- From A Married Man: Wifey vs. Wife: Which Are You?
- Dating a Married Woman
- The Submissive Woman Debate
- Does Social Media Make THE THIRST Worse?
- SBM Sports: Reigning in the wildest storylines from Week One in the NFL
- Do men respect abstinent women?
- SBM Sports: A Look Ahead To The College Football Season feat. @MrGetItOnJones
- How Do You Stay True To The Game And Your Friends Of The Opposite Sex?
- 5 Steps to Approaching a Woman
- Things That Make Relationships Work: Volume 1
- How Do Women Intimidate Men?
- 90210: How A High School Mentality Can Ruin A Relationship
- The SBM Sports 2012 NFL Season Preview
- Happy Labor Day! Crack some crabs or crash a BBQ!
- I Told You! Women Go To Stadium Nightclub Too!
August 2012
- Black CNN Camerawoman Speaks on Peanut-Throwing Incident at RNC
- Where Do You Draw The Line Between God’s Blessings and Personal Achievements?
- Who Built It? Rice and Ryan Deliver Blows at the GOP Convention
- Every Dream Has A Price: Three Black Men. One Common Goal.
- 10 Things Women Find Unattractive About Men but Won't Tell Them
- What's the point of dating?
- Chivalry in the 21st Century
- SBM Sports: Do Tony Farmer, Tyrann Mathieu, or Dez Bryant deserve our sympathy?
- 20 Awkward Moments for Black People at Work
- Defending a Woman's Honor: Should disrespect always be addressed?
- The Good Man vs Bad Husband Syndrome
- Should The N-Word Go Away, Or Is It Here To Stay? Byron Thomas, Donald Glover And Dr. J Share Thoughts
- Are There Not Enough Black Men for Women, Or Is That Just an Excuse?
- Urban Male Chronicles: Why Should I Give You My Money?
- Rihanna's Oprah Interview Backlash And Keeping It Real With Your Own Emotions
- The Intersection of Pete Rock & CL Smooth's T.R.O.Y and Drake's YOLO
- Style vs. Substance: How Andrew Luck and RG3 are Portrayed in the Media
- Three Relationship Topics People Don’t Discuss Until It’s Too Late
- SBM Review: Wahl Baldfader Clippers
- Please Support: DC Lady Bloggers Presents…The Artist Hour
- Why Are So Many Black Men Single: A Different Take on an Old Topic
- Five Relationship Flaws Nobody Ever Talks About
- Must Read: A Conversation Between Greatness, Compromise, and Sacrifice
- Hip Hop Is for Lovers: Reflections on Being Kanye West’s “Perfect B*tch”
- One of the Best Decisions of My Life
- How to Get in Shape Fast So You Can Live Your Life
- Jay-Z, Beyonce, and Lolo Jones: An Analysis Of The Thirst To Know What Celebrities Do With Their Own Money
- Stephen A Smith and Skip Bayless Debate: Would You Want Chad 'Ocho Cinco' Johnson?
- A Rational Fan's View of the Dwight Howard Trade to the Lakers
- For the Fellas: Discounted Tickets to the It's Complicated Tour
- Do Men Mislead Women Accidentally or on Purpose?
- Men Are Not Perfect Vol 5: The Faux Relationship Expert
- Interested in Writing for SBM? Here's How...
- My Twenties Will Be The Best Years of My Life, or Will They?
- Does Hip Hop Ruin Black America's Spotlight?
- Were Dawn Harper and Kellie Wells Justified in Their Lolo Jones Comments?
- Should Black People Vote for Obama Off GP?
- The One Before The One: Analyzing Failed Relationships
- Byron Thomas Wants African Athletes to Represent Africa and Black American Athletes to Represent America
- 10 Things Every Single Man Needs to Know
- The Top 3 Biggest Stars at the Olympics So Far
- SBM Asks: Why are more women unfaithful?
- Men Are Not Perfect Vol 4: A Threesome Gone Wrong
- [VIDEO] Dominique Dawes Speaks About Gabby Douglas And Her Olympic Victory
- How Do You Balance Love and Ambition?
- Five Things You Should Never Say to Kids
- 5 Signs You Might Be in a Same-Sex Relationship with Your Man
- 5 Ways To Track Your Fitness Progress
- Gay Marriage and the 2012 DNC Platform
- Around the Web: Bored Moms Turn to Drugs & Affairs
- Around the Web: Robin Roberts Takes Immediate Medical Leave
- It's Time to Talk About Gun Control Laws in the United States
- Be the Better: How to Choose the Best Exercise for Your Workout
July 2012
- What's Your Name, What's Your Sign: Why I Can't Stand Astrology and Those Who Swear By It
- A Lesson From Big Brother: Why He Should Want What You Want
- The New Olympic Games: Country-Switching Like the Pros
- Should You Worry If Your Man’s Friends Hate You?
- Men Are Not Perfect Vol 3: The One that Got Away
- [VIDEO] Budweiser #MadeInAmerica Festival Commercial Featuring Jay-Z
- 5 Things You Should Never Do When You First Start Dating
- Are Women No Longer Afraid Of Men "On The Low?"
- What You Need to Watch in The 2012 Olympic Games
- SBM Review & Giveaway: Solo Noir Skin Care for Men
- SBM Inspiration: Samyr Laine Discusses Haiti and His Journey to the 2012 Olympics
- Do This or Else: 5 Reasons Men Hate Ultimatums in Relationships
- Should Women Date Men Who Pay For Dates With Coupons?
- SBM Participates in EBONY's MANIFEST Discussion Series
- SBM Sports: The Biggest Losers of the NFL Offseason
- James Holmes and the Aurora, Colorado Massacre
- In Case You Missed It: Are Modern Men Too Lazy to Court?
- 8 Things We Blow Money Fast On
- Will Hip Hop Die If We Don't Purchase "Good" Music?
- On My Struggle With Weight Loss: Challenges and Change
- Aggressive Networking and Self-Promotion: Good Hustle or Bad Practice?
- Why You Should Use LinkedIn
- 3 Reasons Why Men Send Women Unwarranted Pictures Of Their Junk
- SBM and BadOnLineDates Want to Know: Is Your Date Made for TV?
- Joe Paterno, Penn State, and the Hypocrisy of the Stop Snitching Mentality
- SBM Giveaway: Free Tickets to The Dark Knight Rises!
- Urban Life: Immune to the City. Nothing Can Phase Me.
- Sports Fans: Are the Knicks Losing Their Hold of NYC?
- Should Women Help Pay for Dates?
- AskMen: 6 Ways to Determine How Much Your Relationship is Worth
- Open Letter to Nancy Grace Highlights a Dark Side of Success
- Kyrie Irving Challenges Kobe Bryant to One-on-One
- 10 Signs You’re Too Old for The Club
- Out in the Open: A New Understanding of Frank Ocean's Novacane
- Why Black Men Take Longer to Get Married
- Editor's Note: For New Bloggers, When Copying Snippets Isn't Enuf
- Revenge Of The Scorned Lovers: 5 Reasons Why Destroying A Cheater's Possessions Is Wrong
- The SBM #BeTheBetter Series: 5 Gym Machines To Avoid Like The Plague
- Jerry Sandusky and Child Molestation - Some Personal Reflections
- Is Ray Allen Jesus or Judas Shuttlesworth?
- Recap: Essence Music Festival July 2012
- Free or Foolish Speech: Chris Rock and the July 4th Tweet Controversy
- Protecting Our Image: Why Should We Stop Watching Trashy Reality TV?
- Is Anybody Real in Hip Hop Anymore?
- Chicago: A City On The Brink
- Get Your Hands Out Of My Pockets: The Debate On Borrowing Money In Relationships
- 4 People Who Should Never Play Pickup Ball Again
- Men Are Not Perfect Vol 2: Everything I Need to Know About Love
June 2012
- Why Do Some Women Enjoy Breaking Up Happy Homes?
- Looking Back At Summers Of My Youth: The 80's Baby's Version of Summer
- Urban Male Chronicles: Representing Your Race
- LeBron James, The Media, and The Perception Of Black Males In America
- Who Wants Abs? 5 Ways To Get The Core That You Desire
- A Look Back at the 2012 NBA Season
- To Be Young, Black, and Inspired
- Men Are Not Perfect Vol 1: Are Men Less Moral than Women?
- SBM Opportunity: Help Us on Social Media!
- Are Male Bloggers Helping or Hurting Women?
- 20 Signs That “You Not Bout That Life”
- Urban Male Chronicles: What Are We Supposed to Do? What Are We Supposed to Say?
- When Keeping It Real Goes Right: An Honest First Date
- 5 Nutritional Adjustments That Can Help You Reach Your Fitness Goals
- Could Having a Cuddle Buddy Actually Be Good For Your Sleep?
- Stop & Frisk: Racial Profiling Or Keeping Us Safe?
- What's a Point Guard Anyway: The Curious Case of Russell Westbrook
- What the Hell Is "Overweight" Anyway?
- Women Should Have a Gang of Men
- Twenty Cheap or Free Summer Dates
- Ten Acts of Desperation Women Perform to Keep Mr. Right
- Is Tracey Edmonds The Hottest On The Block or Just Been Around It?
- Generation Y: Why We Rent When We Could Buy
- Check Out Brothers With No Game - The Web Series
- We Invented The Remix - The 4 Hip-Hop Phrases Most Prevalent In Corporate America
- How to Dress Fresh For the Workplace
- The Age and Careers of Men Most Likely to Cheat
- [VIDEO] The Majors - Pilot Episode
- Does the Hatred of the Miami Heat Represent a Generational Debate?
- RMDG $100 Giveaway
- Relationships: Where Female Insecurity and Male Insensitivity Collide
- Relationship Survival Kit: The Five Tools of Highly Successful Summer Flings
- Fifty Shades of Grey from a Man’s Point of View
- Bedroom Beef: Who Should Initiate "The Love?"
- Nicki Minaj vs. FunkMaster Flex: The Different Methods Men And Women Use To Win Arguments
- [VIDEO] The Majors: Where Hip Hop Meets Fantasy Sports (Trailer)
- Fail Blog: When Sexting Goes Wrong
- Hold Up! Could Boston Really Beat the Heat?
- Christianity and Islam in Separation of Church and State
- Five Ways Men Contribute To Female Insecurity
- 15 Things Black People Love about the Summer
May 2012
- You Share That Girl: Why Claiming Ownership Over Former Lovers Is Idiotic
- The Residual Self Image and How “Ironically Ratchet” Became the New Thing
- [VIDEO] The Majors (Trailer)
- Two Women at the Same Time
- SBM Sports: The (Slightly Late) Western Conference Finals Preview
- The Twenty Step Guide to Drunk Texting
- Defending a Man’s Right to Choose: Combating the Female Fear of Rejection
- Can Lebron James Be the Greatest of All Time WITHOUT an NBA Championship?
- Excuse Me Miss, What's Your Name? I Forgot. Twice.
- The Curious Case Of The Fragile Male Ego
- Black and Single Episode 3: Black and Booty Calls
- Three Reasons to Care About the San Antonio Spurs
- Deion Sanders, Pilar, Domestic Violence and Me
- Lupe Fiasco Samples T.R.O.Y. With Latest Single, Pete Rock Not Pleased
- The Perfect Woman: An Argument for Commitment
- Ten Ways to Spot Creepers, Clingers and Weirdos at Happy Hour
- The Cyclical Relationships Men Have With Their Fathers and the Lessons Learned
- The Diary of a Mad Blogger Pt. 1
- SBM Sports: Round 2 NBA Playoff Predictions – Eastern Conference
- Think Like A Man, Fail Like A Man
- Don't Say Gay: Civil Liberties and Right Wing Legislation
- Must Watch Comedy: The Black & Single Video Series
- Why Black Women Should Date White Men
- SBM Sports: Round 2 NBA Playoff Predictions - Western Conference
- Basketball Wives Drama: Tami Roman's Twitter Apology To Kesha Nichols
- Four Reasons Why I Can't Stand Folks Who Don't Root For The Home Team
- SBM Wishes: Happy Mother's Day
- SBM Music: Career vs. Love - @RahzelJr (son of Rahzel from the Roots)
- It's Not Black Women's Fault, Or Is It? New Clutch Article Seems To Think So
- Why Success and True Love Always Seem to Misalign
- How Can Women Avoid The Friend Zone?
- Barack Obama Becomes First Sitting President to Back Gay Marriage
- The Dream Act ... A Dream Deferred?
- SBM Sports: What to Do with the New York Knicks?
- Single Black Male Featured on BlackEnterprise.Com
- Single Black Style Featuring @FreshChrisLaw
- Can Women Be Bad in Bed?
- Ten Relationship Fails Men and Women Do That Make Absolutely No Sense
- Five Ways to Just Be Friends with the Opposite Sex
- Quick Glance at ABC’s New Show, Scandal with Kerry Washington
- SBM Sports: Is Mayweather's Mind In It to Win It This Weekend?
- Five Pseudo "Crazy" Things Men Have Done That They Won't Admit
- Secret Service: Why Men Always Pay For Sex
- SBM Music: The Uber-Talented Shanelle Gabriel Performs Her New Song/Poem, Aim High
- The Six Most Annoying Trends on Black Twitter
April 2012
- Women Have Less Good Men to Choose From
- SBM Sports: NBA Eastern Conference Playoffs Preview
- SBM Sports: NBA Playoffs Western Conference Preview
- Typical Mistakes All Men Make In Dating: Part II
- Five Reasons Why You Can’t Be Michelle Obama
- New Nas Joint "Daughters" - SBM Approves
- SingleBlackMale.org is Hosting Happy Hour in Washington, DC!
- SBM Sports: Four NFL Teams That Could Draft Their Way to the Super Bowl Tonight
- Beyonce Named World's Most Beautiful Woman: What does that mean to you?
- Concession Stand: A Discussion On The Compromises Men Make In Relationships
- SBM Music: Daily Math by @True2LifeMusic
- Three Interesting Things About Think Like A Man
- Do Men Ever Step Up Without A Woman's Expectations?
- Brian McKnight's Raunchy New Record: "If You're Ready To Learn"
- The 15 Most Intriguing People in Black America
- When is a One Night Stand Not a One Night Stand?
- My Little Brother And The Prison Industrial Complex
- Why Are White People So Happy?
- Does The "Power Of No” Really Work?
- Typical Mistakes All Men Make In Dating: Part I
- Why Going to See "Think Like A Man" is a Good Idea
- Why Men Don't Attend Anything That Smells Like a Singles Event
- Let Me Clear This Up: Five Myths About Introverts
- The 15 Most Annoying People in Black America
- The Idiocy of Reverse Racism and Why Al Sharpton Won’t STFU
- The Weekly ‘You Need to Chill’ Awards: Rihanna, Cold Weather, Drake, Howard U, Beyonce and Obama
- How To Pick Up Women at Happy Hour
- The Black Folks Enrollment Form: For Non-Black Folks
- The 2012 SBM Men's Goto Guide: The 7 resources that men need to know
- Trial by Media: George Zimmerman to be charged in Trayvon Martin shooting
- The Pros and Cons of the Facebook Acquisiton of Instagram
- SBM Sports: Jay Cooke's 2012 NBA MVP Predictions
- Five Things About Men I'll Teach My Son
- SBM Sports: The Tumultuous Relationships Between Players & Coaches
- 5 Tips for Dating a Married Man
- Single Black Mail: How Long Do I Wait For Her To Get Over Her Ex?
- SBM ON AIR Tuesday Night: The Naked Radio Show
- Why Black People Need 'The Talk' and John Derbyshire and His Non-Black Children Don't
- Study: Your Happiest Age Revealed
- Single Black Mail: Where Do Men Meet Quality Women?
- SBM Video Series: WisdomIsMisery Discovers the Wonderful World of Oven Baked Pizza
- The Weekly 'You Need to Chill' Awards: Kim K., Kanye, Beyonce, Women Who Snoop and more
- The Dating Questionnaire 2: How to Avoid Ratchets and Maneaters
- Three Humorous Thoughts About Threesomes
- See You in Your Nightmares: Blake Griffin Dunks on Pau Gasol...Twice
- You've Got Some Splainin' to Do: How Social Media Complicates Relationships
- SBM Writers Feature - @Streetztalk on the Madamenoire #AskABlackMan Series
- Trayvon Martin, MLK and The Mountaintop 44 Years Later
- Don't Call Me Sexy! A Discussion On How Men Should Express Affection To Women
- Top 10 Instagram Rules for New Users
- Mary J. Blige Sings About Burger King's Crispy Chicken
- Recapping Single Sam: A Few Random Thoughts I Had Along The Way
- Real Men Don't Gossip
- Married Men Are Lame
- Help Us Be Great: Take the SBM Reader Survey
March 2012
- SBM Sports - March Madness: Final Four Edition
- The Dating Questionnaire: How To Rid Yourself of Losers and Lames
- New Video Shows George Zimmerman Unharmed on Night of Trayvon Martin Killing
- Single Sam's Episodes in Love Part 5: All It Takes Is One
- Barack Obama, Trayvon Martin, and Coded Communication Amongst People of Color
- The Hunger Games Brings All the Racists to the Yard
- SBM Sports: The Five NBA Teams that Could Win It All in 2012
- 5 Reasons New Divorce Laws Aren’t Unfair to Women
- Whose Cause Is This: Trayvon Martin, Occupy Wall Street, and White Privilege at The Million Hoodie March
- Must Watch: Animated Reconstruction of #TrayvonMartin Tragedy
- Barbershop Fridays at SBM: 15 Thoughts about Drake, Diddy, Rick Ross and the Current State of Hip-Hop
- Single Sam's Episodes in Love Part 4: The Butcher
- Photo: This Says It All. #Trayvon #MillionHoodies
- Amber Rose, Kim Kardashian and The Truth About Men And Groupies
- 7 Reasons Why Men Can't Do Nice Things
- Tough Times Across the Nation: 10 Dead, At Least 40 Wounded in Chicago and more...
- Are Women Using Their Men Wrong?
- Update: George Zimmerman and Trayvon Martin 911 Police Tapes Released
- Barbershop Fridays at SBM: 25 Ways Men and Women Get Out Of Dates
- Video - @BlogXilla vs @SinnamonLove, Tank, and Yancy: The Pros And Cons Of Rebounds
- Five Reasons Why Drake Can't Be Great
- Single Sam's Episodes in Love Part 3: No More Mr. Nice Guy
- SBM Sports: Tis the Season of March Madness Experts!
- SBMusic Spotlight: @TimVocals - Definition of Rhythm and Gangsta
- Trayvon Martin Case Sent To State Attorney's Office
- Aftermath: Post Relationship Rules Of Engagement
- SBM Sports: The Only Thing Wrong With March Madness
- Calling All Men: Wanna Be on TV? This is Your Chance!
- Couples Quarrel: Business Dinners with the Opposite Sex
- Women Are Right: Men are the New Ball and Chain
- Arrest George Zimmerman
- 30 Things Black People Do When Nobody’s Watching
- Video: Jay-Z Performs Public Service Announcement At Carnegie Hall
- Employers and Colleges Want to Deebo You Out of Your Passwords
- Single Sam's Episodes in Love Part 2: The Proposition
- SBM Update: We're Free!
- Sleeping In My Bed - Three Reasons to Stay Away From Taken Women
- For The Woman I'll Love: Thinking About You
- Infographic: Is Your Information Safe Online?
- Dating the Right Person: Who They Are vs. Who They Could Be
- Black Women Heavier but Happier and SBM Couldn't Be More Proud...Sort of
- Eighties Babies and How Crack Cocaine and Dope Changed Us Forever
- WisdomIsMisery Official Trailer
- Wiz Khalifa & Amber Rose are engaged, and Dr. J reacts...
- Single Sam's Episodes in Love Part 1: An Officer and a Gentleman
February 2012
- Welcome to Post Racial America Where Black History Month Is Obsolete
- Dope Memories: 5 Things I Miss About the Good Old Days
- House of Lies: An Analysis of The Multiple Lives We Lead
- Unimportant Questions We Ask Friends and Potential Lovers
- 5 Simple Tips to Stay in Shape
- The Curious Case of the Subconsciously Apologetic Negro
- The Children of Divorce: How Divorce Influences Our Relationships
- Die Kobe Die: Are We Cheering for Love Not To Work?
- Check This Out: The Whitney Houston Obituary Pamphlet
- Why Men Need Women with a Future and a Past: Deciding to Take Care of the Damaged Girl
- Resting on a legacy: where are the next black leaders?
- Engaged Black Male: Sh*t Engaged Men Say
- Video - Family Feud answer to "Something A Pilot Holds"
- Top 100 First World Problems
- Right vs Wrong: Black, White, and How We Poorly Assess Our Failed Relationships
- Chris Brown Can Beat Me
- Video - Jimmy Kimmel Super Bowl "Unplug the TV" Challenge
- Whitney Houston's 5 Best Live Performances
- Bittersweet Memories: Reflecting On the Incomparable Whitney Houston
- SBM Video Series: Why Is It So Difficult for Black Men to Commit
- In NYC on Valentine's Day? Come Mix and Mingle with NYC's Finest
- 5 Valentine's Day Struggles Men Should Avoid
- A Man and His Many Vices: How Men Cope with Stress and Unwanted Pressure
- Stories That Make You Think: Never Judge Anyone
- Lessons in Love: The One Thing She Really Wanted
- Be Easy Bruh: Roland Martin Under Fire for Super Bowl Tweets
- Career Pathways in Love: Girlfriends versus Wives
- Video - Avengers Movie Trailer
- The Space Between: The Help, Red Tails, An Oversimplification of Her Beauty and the Problem With Black Cinema
- Great Video: Soul Train Flash Mob Takes Over Times Square
- Forreal: Antoine Dodson Releases "Lovesick Lullaby" Video
- SBM Video Series: Approaching Women and The Three Foot Rule
- Super Bowl 2012: What's Your Prediction?
- Men Should Not Attend Baby Showers
- A Match Made in Heaven
- Why Sometimes Perfection Fails
- Floyd Mayweather to Fight Miguel Cotto May 5, 2012
- Rest In Peace: Don Cornelius
- Do Men Think About Their Wedding Day?
January 2012
- Must Read: Letter From Escaped Slave To His Former Master
- Video - Key and Peele: "Obama loses his sh*t"
- Video - Blake Griffin Baptizes Kendrick Perkins in Poster Dunk of 2012!
- The Curious Case of Amber Cole and How I'd Respond Were I a Father
- Presidential Fist Bumps Through The Years
- Idris Elba's Luther and My Love For Damaged Souls
- 5 Things That Make Sexy Moments Unsexy
- #Kobesystem: Why We Shouldn't Feel Sorry for Kobe's Divorce Case
- We Made Love at Midnight: My 10 Favorite Artists from BET's Midnight Love
- SBM Video Series: Let Sleeping Men Lie
- Stuff Black Bloggers Say
- Five Unimportant But Important Things Men and Women Look For In Each Other
- Red Tails: Expecting the Worst or Supporting the Best?
- How to Know He Loves You: Stress Him Out
- Love & Hip Hop: Why You Should Never Mix Business with Pleasure
- Learning the True Meaning of the Serenity Prayer
- New From SBM: The "Week in Review" Video Series
- The Truth About New York: How Big City Dating "Corrupts" Single Men
- The Key to a Happy and Successful Relationship: Let Your Man Cheat
- The SBM Staff Presents: Unconventional Resolutions for 2012
- Adulthood, Maturity, and Etiquette: What Your Mother Never Told You About How to Behave
- Jay-Z, Beyonce, Blue Ivy and the Importance of Timing in Love
- When Keeping it Real Goes Wrong: Relationship Edition
- Still Single? Maybe You Should Settle
- 2012 is NOT Your Year - A Different Take on New Year's Resolutions
- Five Movies That Changed Our Lives Forever
December 2011
- Wrapping It Up: 9 Lessons Learned From the Black Blogosphere in 2011
- Women Don't Want Men to Have Fun
- Inner Circle Dating and the friends caught in the crossfire
- The Problem with Black Men Accusing Their Women of Being “Crazy”
- Engaged Black Male: 5 Signs Your Marriage Will Fail
- How Many is Too Many: What’s Your Number?
- Friends vs. Associates: How Do You Know Who's Who?
- Love Changes ... and Best Friends Become Strangers: Four Relationships Destined to Fail
- The Music and Memories That Make This Time Of Year Special
- A Few Ideas To Make Her Christmas Great
- You Don't Need Jordans, Bro
- Will You Compromise What You Believe for Who You Love?
- Five Things Every Man Should Have in His Closet this Winter
- She's Not You, He's Not Me, But We're Not Together
- Engaged Black Male: How men get married
- The Man’s Burden: 5 Ways Men Break Up With Women and Why
- 5 Things Men Need To Do To Keep Women Happy
- 5 Things Men Say That You Can Take With a Grain of Salt
- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly of a Man's Ability to Compartmentalize
- Why We Get Mad at Our Wives
November 2011
- Defending Her Honor: When a Man Disrespects a Woman
- Black Girl Lost: The Fallacy That Unmarried Women Over 30 Are Losing
- Has Technology Made Us Lazy?
- Is This The End: Six Subtle Signs You're On The Verge Of Breaking Up
- Happy Thanksgiving! Team SBM is Very Thankful!
- We Be Grubbin: My Top 5 Thanksgiving Dishes
- Has Emo Rap Gone a Little Too Far?
- Four Lessons In Love We Always Learn The Hard Way
- Engaged Black Male: Quirks of an Engaged Black Male
- #ToughLove: 7 Questions Men Ask Women Without Asking Women
- When Keeping It Real Goes Wrong: Slandering Your Exes Through Social Media
- When America Turns Its Back on Black Boys
- Till Death Do Us Part: Some Thoughts On Wedding Vows
- Why Nice Guys Finish Last & How They Can Win
- Relationships in Debt: My Money, Her Money, Our Money
- Conrad Murray: killer or scapegoat?
- If I Was Elected President: Eight Things America Needs From Its POTUS
- 5 Things Women Need to Do to Keep Men Happy
- Engaged Black Male: 6 Reasons Marriage is Scary as #@*$
- Have Women Removed Men’s Need to Put A Ring on It?
- How Do You Stay in Love?
- Why Don't Rich People Believe in God?
October 2011
- Tipping Points In Love: How To Know When It's Time To Take The Next Step
- A Man's Dream: Can You Get to the Damn Point?
- Four Reasons I Don’t Want a Daughter
- No Means Yes
- Five Reasons for Herman Cain to Win the GOP Nomination
- Five Things About Men I'll Teach My Daughter
- SingleBlackMale.org Hot Topic: Barbie Gets Tattoos Before Cam Newton
- Engaged Black Male: Why do men get married?
- The 10 #ManLaw Commandments: He Said, She Said
- How Do Men Feel About Hairy Women
- How to Spot a Bridezilla
- The Words We Never Said
- SingleBlackMale.org Reacts to The McDonald's Incident
- Why Women Should Stop Caring What Men Think
- Everybody Doesn't Need a Degree to Succeed
- What you need to do, so I know it's real
- SingleBlackMale Stumbles on SlutWalk
- Five Things About Women I'll Teach My Son
- SingleBlackMale.org Reacts to #OccupyWallStreet
- Street Love: Most and Reecie's 5 Favorite Hip-Hop Love Songs
- The Friend Zone: Where Good Men Are Punished for Being Good Men
- The Stepping Stone Relationship
- I Guess That Means I'm the Angry Black Man at Work
- Five Women I Adore But Could Never Be With
- Special Sunday Edition: The Modern Day Black Male Athlete
September 2011
- Why Men Don't & Won't Support Other Men
- [Single Black Mail] Girlfriend Benefits Without The Girlfriend Title
- Girlfriend Zero: The one that ruined him
- Is the N-Word a Treasure to Behold?
- When Great Sexual Chemistry Isn't Such a Great Thing
- Yes, Chivalry is Really Dead!
- Open Letter: We Confess, Men Are Afraid of Love
- 14 week fitness challenge - was it worth it?
- Troy Davis and the Twitter Black Out Conspiracy
- Why Do Black People Tweet So Much?
- The G-Code: Unwritten Rules That Separate Men From Boys
- S*x Ed for Adults & Old S*x in New Relationships
- The Dark Side of Fairy Tales: Influence on Men’s Perception of Women and Themselves
- Cuffing Season: from Marvin's Room to Honeymoon in 7 easy steps!
- 5 Things Every Man Should Have in His Closet this Fall
- Lesson Learned At The End Of The Affair
- SBM remembers 9/11, Football is back, True Blood season finale and Entourage ends
- Cuffing Season Part 1: Songs and Albums to Get You Through Cold Winter Nights
- Letter To My Girlfriend About Football
- She's Out Of My League
- I Could Probably Never Blog About My Wife
- Sunglasses and Advil: Happy Hour Was Mad Real
- The Male Marrying Age ... Explained
- Commit or Die: Even Good Relationships Should Have An Expiration Date
August 2011
- What's a King to a Non-Believer? The Argument Against the MLK Monument
- Five Biggest Misconceptions about Black Greek Life
- So Don't You Fall In Love: A Thesis for Emotionally Unavailable Men
- Will & Jada: Don't Cry. This Is Not Your Life.
- If Black Men Win, Do Black Women Lose?
- SBM Exclusive: Let's Help @OriginalNajeema Be Great
- 5 Things About Evelyn Lozada You Don't Need To Know
- How Do You Love?
- News Flash: Black Men Still Winning
- I Want a Girl When I Want a Girl, But When I Don't...
- A Man's Opinion Doesn't Matter to Women
- Dating the Damaged Girl
- The Five Relationships You Have Before You Find the One
- Wrappin' It Up
- The Beautiful Black Women
- 5 words or phrases that if women say, #reallymeans you're in trouble
- Seven Things I Thought Watching The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl
- Double Standards 101
- 5 Lessons Learned From Dating
- Eff a blog dog, cause one day we gonna MEET [RUH]
- Misandry: Will Women Ever Admit They Hate Men?
- The Not So Tall Man’s Guide to Gaining Friends, Influencing People and … Winning
July 2011
- Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
- Do cheaters have the right to remain silent?
- [Single Black Mail] To have love and lost...
- Not All Booty Is Made Equal
- Is Being Self-Employed a Red Flag for Dating?
- How do you know it's Love?
- The Break Up: How Projecting Ruined a Relationship
- The Hyphen Issue - Should She Change Her Last Name?
- Things You Should Know and People You Should Meet
- Stay In Your Lane Please
- When is it OK to Deny Him S*x?
- The Derek Jeter relationship model: Lessons that we can learn from Mr 3000
- Ten Reasons to Hate Being Skinny
- Ugly Girl Swag (Guest Post by NC-17)
- I Hate Weaves - Part Deaux
- The Reappearing Man: 4 Reasons Why Exes Almost Always Come Back
- The Women's Beauty Recognition Paradox
- Hustle Hard by The Doctor and Slim
- Happy Independence Day!
- 30?!?!?!
June 2011
- From Elegant to Elephant: When Your Woman Gains Weight
- The Cost Benefit Analysis - How to properly rate the physical attractiveness of women
- That Kid Ain’t Mine: Why Men Deny Fatherhood
- It's Okay to Feel What You Feel.
- Deep into the heart of the strip club
- Celibacy and the Single Woman
- [SINGLE BLACK MAIL] Fear of children hinders orgasms in men?!
- So Your Girl Said My Name While Ya Was Sexin
- 3 Increasingly Lame Blog Rebuttals
- Who's Responsible For Bad S*x?
- Last Day to Make It Happen
- Abortion: Does the Man's Opinion Even Matter
- I'm just saying, you can do better...
- I Need My Personal Space (Only Child Syndrome and More) feat. The Most Interesting Man in the World
- Good Dads, Bad Dads, Headaches, and Enlightenment
- The Good Girl Dilemma
- Your baby's daddy name DOES NOT need to live on
- Don't call me sweetheart!
- Why is the Black Girl A H*e and not the White Girl?
- Does Having a Significant Other Make You Better?
- Help SBM Be Great. Do Your Part.
- Should Women Carry Condoms
- Don't Be Trifling at the BBQ
- 3 excuses against working out that women need to overcome
May 2011
- Can You Love God & Sex?
- 6 Questions To Ask on a First Date
- Single Black Mail: Should I break up his marriage?
- Double Standards in Media: Psych Today, Joakim Noah, and blacktags
- You Must Respect Dude's Night Out
- Why My Kid Will Only Go to a Top 50 School
- SBM Announcements Before the Rapture
- You Can’t Always Save the Damsel
- Change You Can Believe In
- Damn homie, in high school you were the MAN homie...
- Why Are Educated Black Men Obsessed with Being Thugs?
- Single Black Mail: How Do I Motivate My Man?
- SBM Comments of the Week 5/9-5/13
- There Goes My Hero
- For Those Who Think Young [Guest Post by @8plus9]
- Friends don't let friends cut their hair
- Why Are Black Men So Rude?
- Looking For Closure: Why Wasn't I Good Enough?
- SBM Comments of the Week 5/2-5/6
- How to Survive Dating a Crazy Woman
- Breaking Old Habits
- Sentimental Value
- Your Man is Gay, Now What?
- Stop Bodying Yourself on Twitter!
April 2011
- SBM Comments of the Week 4/25-4/29
- In My Time of Villainy
- The Bald Kitty Movement: Part 2
- Single Black Mail: The side chick struggle
- Eff Rihanna
- Monogamy, Cheating, and Side Pieces
- SBM Comments of the Week for 4/18-4/22
- Welcome to Wedding Season
- Who Men Pursue: Sexy vs Beautiful
- Single Black Mail - How to tell potential lovers that you're a virgin
- Angry Birds: An analysis of the term, “Bird”
- How Being Tactful Helps and Hinders Life
- SBM Staff to Meet the President
- The One That Got Away: An Ode To Almost Love
- SBM Answers: Why do men love easy p***y?
- Single Black Mail - Baby mama stalker drama
- The People Who Read Your Blog
- Are Introverts Really Lame?
- 4 Reasons Not to Cheat on Your Wife
- Are Modern Men Too Lazy to Court
- Single Black Mail: Inner circle dating and the friends caught in the middle
- Because You Been Drinking...
- Debunking the Myths of Manliness
- How I Knew She Was the One
March 2011
- 6 Reasons I Got Out "The Game"
- Single Black Mail: Chasing relationships after relations
- Here’s Why I Wouldn’t Recommend a Black Man Date White Women
- Why Money Is More Important Than Sex
- Someone Else's Girl: Adulterers, Cheaters and You
- The Two Lists Every Unhappily Single Person Should Make
- Single Black Mail: I messed with my girl and her cousin!
- Why Black Men Prefer to Not Get Married
- 8 Things Women Don't Understand About Men
- 7 Reasons Black Men Don't Get Married
- In Defense Of Marriage
- Perception vs. Reality: How online personas define real life people
- My Boy Got Married to his Baby Mama
- 3 Things About Groupies, Fans, and the Thirsty
- Top 5 Misconceptions Around Being Young, Black, Married and Male
- F* a diamond
- Too Pretty to Go Down: The Correlation Between Good Looks and Bad Brain
- Why Are All The Pretty Girls Married?
- Why I Just Can't Forgive Sometimes
- Women Love S*x, I Think...
- Are White Women Really That Easy?
- 5 signs that it's time to get a new job
- I Love You Tracy McMillan
February 2011
- Adventures in S*x and Relationship Panels Part 1
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away – Righting Our Wrongs
- The three month warning: what you need to get in better shape before summer.
- I'm Good and Grown. You're Nuts.
- Wait: Was that Racist?
- Seriously, Please Read: Feedback Friday
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away – Leading By Example
- 5 secrets about women that men MUST know
- Full Disclosure: Should He Tell You It's Small?
- Stereotypical Strong Black Woman: #FAIL
- I'm Not Saying You're a Gold Digger
- Ten Things Black Folk Need To Change Right Away - Ignorance
- #TakeItToTheStreetz: No Country for vacations without your significant other?
- 5 Reasons I Hate Glasses
- When Bad Conversations Happen To Good People
- Girls Are Not Your Friend
- Hell of a [S*x] Life
- I'll be late for that - Slept on forms of entertainment that I need to experience
- Keep It in the Box
January 2011
- Getting a Woman vs. Keeping a Woman
- I Love Chelsea Handler
- Men Cant Handle The Truth
- Sharon the Nosey and Perpetually Single Woman
- You Picky Bastard!
- 2011 New Years Resolutions for Ladies
- A Man Only Has One Chance at True Love
- Take it to the Streetz: Significant Others and Strip Clubs
- Chivalry is Alive, But Accountability is Dying.
- Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!
- Is Church the New Dating Scene?
- Idris Elba vs. Kim Kardashian
- Women can't handle the truth
- Why Women Should Eat More Rejection Pie
- PSA: Stop stunting, blinging, ballin ... whatever the f* you call it!
- You're Never Getting Married
- The 2011 Brother’s New Year’s Resolutions
- Newsflash: Men think about things other than s e x!!
- C*ckblocking: When a Woman Can't Accept Defeat
- Do Natural Hair Women Get Hit On?
December 2010
- Happy New Year From SBM.ORG
- The Get Over It Series: The Wizard of Oz
- What makes men and women cry
- Curse of the Good Black Man
- Playing Your Position
- Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger
- #NoCountryFor Cuffing Season!
- Stop It. I Am Not That Dude and Your Girl's a Fool.
- When is s*x really a surprise?
- Truth Is, Men Are Scared of Women
- A Day In the Life of an SBM
- 5 words, phrases, and topics men should avoid saying to women
- I Won't Chase You. I'll Walk Away.
- Is he expecting s*x?
- 99.5% Of Long Distance Relationships Don't Work - But That Can Be EASILY Changed
- The Invisible Man
- They don't make em like they used to: The downfall of men in 2010
- Baby, I'm Gonna Hang with My Former S*x Buddy...
- How to spot an e-Pimp
- I Want To Have S*x With Your BFF
- Read This First, Do Not Delete: Email to this Jawn I Used to Talk to
- Researching Your Date: How Much Is Too Much?
November 2010
- Stop Frontin'. Women Are More Obsessed with S*x than Men
- How to use Relationship Blogs
- Happy Thanksgiving!
- Mood Music: Different Songs For Different Occasions
- Kissing. I Effin' Love It.
- Dumb Questions Women Ask
- Being Cruel to be Kind
- Looking Through the Window and Not the Mirror
- The SBM guide to talking good: Misused words/phrases that drive me crazy!
- Why Men Don't Answer the Phone
- How to choose your "Dealbreakers"
- Breaking News: Men Are Always Looking for Serious Relationships
- How to Talk to Women and Get Anywhere: Part II
- Opinions and @ssholes - Negative People and what bloggers REALLY feel about e-negativity
- Does It Take A Man To Make A Family?
- The High-Maintenance Woman
- Ask The Staff: What turns a man off?
- Fools Rush In: Questions To Ask Before Falling In Love
- The Best Way To Find The Woman Of Your Dreams
- Raising a Gay or Lesbian Child Part 1
- The Eradication of The Angry Black Man
October 2010
- Let's Be Friends
- Black Women Are Perfectly Fine: An Editorial by Dr. J
- The evolution of me - Maturity with age
- Some Things Are Better Than S*x
- 7 Stereotypes of the Strong Black Woman
- Ask The Staff - When Does a man know you're that special one?
- You Are Really Dumb, For Real!
- Faking the big O: 8 questions men want to ask women, but fear the answers
- 6 Dating Reminders to Keep You Ahead of the Game
- The Club Mentality
- Are you ready for an open relationship? by @Maxfab
- Can’t We All Just Get Along?
- The unofficial SBMDOTORG guide to internet discretion: 2010
- A Black Male's Adventures in Dating: Part 1
- One thing women just don't know
- Ask The Staff 001: Readers Questions Answered
- Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas?
- The Tragic Flaw: Characteristics which lead to losing
- I Don't Work Out Because I'm Too S*xy
- 6 "Little" Things that Men DO Notice
- Watch Out For The Big Girl!!
September 2010
- Are Black Women Racists Towards Latinas?
- Failed relationships: A necessary evil
- How Heartbreak Changed 1 Black Man
- What makes a man commit?
- Light-Skinned Girls: The Black Man's Kryptonite
- Who Invited the Latinas?
- Chivalry for dummies: 5 basic chivalrous things men should do by habit
- Loving, Liking, and Lusting
- Quirks of a Black Man ... continued
- Rantings of a SBM
- Her: Do All Men Cheat?... Him: Define cheating
- Let it burn
- Men Have Egos...and Feelings
- Why you should get married
- Where? There.
- Letter To My Girlfriend About Football
- I hate popups!
- You Aren't the Only One
- Happy Labor Day
- "Unfair" Reasons He Stopped Calling
- Women Who Lie
- Top 5 Physical Appearance Deceptions Women Use #Everydayb
August 2010
- I'm Too Old for This Sh*t
- Stop Digging! He's Perfect!
- Baby...You Suck.
- The Argument for Fake Breasts
- Fact or Fiction: Do Men drive women crazy?
- When to Call It Quits
- They Still Make You?
- Rantings of a SBM
- Why Men Love Hairless Women
- I'm going postal!!!
- Post Sex Etiquette
- Controlling Women ... Ugh
- Rantings of a SBM
- When it’s best to keep it on the LOW
- 5 reasons why men are happy they are NOT women
- Eff Love!
- Husbands are punks?
- Now That It’s Over
- That Girl Is Bat Sh*t Crazy
- Ugly dudes STAY winnin!
- Is That the Best You Can Do?
- Misogyny: Why it's still a problem!
July 2010
- The Worst I Ever Had
- The Enablement of Thirsty Women
- The Claim Game Part Deux
- Touch It Whydontcha?
- I giveth the p***y ... and I taketh away
- Ten Things Men Wish You Did
- I'm not trying to take your girlfriend!
- Why Am I Suddenly So Hot?
- The Breakup: Family & Friends
- Why Men Don't Commit
- I Can Date An Atheist
- Oh you FANCY huh?!
- Battle of the Sexes: Lies and Deceit
- You dated *HIM* before me!!!
- The Other Person pt. 1
- Do you want to get married or do you want to be a husband? (Feat. The Most Interesting Man In The World)
- BPR: The Bad P Report
- Bedroom Shenanigans
- Happy Independence Day
- Don't Buy Girls Drinks in the Club ... PERIOD!
- How The Dark Skin Guys Took Back The Crown
June 2010
- The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness
- Men Don't Know How to Be Single? Bullsh*t!
- Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace
- No One Man Should Have All That Power
- Friend: A 4 letter word
- Things I Suck At
- Getting Better With Practice
- Book Review: B*tch Is The New Black
- I Love Who You Are, I Love Who You Ain’t
- Height aint nothin but a number
- Music is Changing My Life
- What makes Men and Woman Cry
- Are you on your period?
- What Your Man Does When You're Not Lookin'
- Sex & The City... and then there's You
- Age: Like fine wine for men, like kool-aid for women
- Another One Bites the Dust
- Yes ... I have a Boyfriend/Girlfriend
- She can do it ... but he can't!
- How to Talk to Women and Get Anywhere: Part I
- @Streetztalk 's reason #12345 why people remain single: BBM gone wild
- Men Speak ENGLISH ... Women Do Not!
May 2010
- Happy Memorial Day
- Wrappin' It Up
- Habitual Line-Steppers like Delonte West
- Hello Summer, Goodbye Wifey Season
- Applying the 80/20 Rule to Daily Life
- Great Relationship #Swindles
- Keep your woman ... Before I take her!
- He said, She said... Everybody Lying!
- The Hobby Chick
- I Guess I'm a Bit of a Hoarder...
- S*x vs. The Text Message
- Oral Lovemaking For Dummies
- Flashing Lights
- The Beauty Complex - One reason why women hate each other
- I'm Lazy and I Let a Woman Dress Me
- DC Blogger Happy Hour. Meet Dr. J
- Things you should never (ever) tell your significant other!
- The Pursuit of Foolishness
- I’m In Love with Myself. #LookieLooky
- 6 ways we blame it on the alcohol - Cinco De Mayo edition
- Women Do Not Get Along
- Yes ... I called you a b*tch!
April 2010
- The Ugly Truth
- Look At All These H*es: Examining the Motion Offense
- SBM.Org's Top 5 Relationship Dealbreakers
- Tragic Flaws that Destroy Relationships
- Women Don't Intimidate Good Black Men!
- Countdown to the ring
- Drunk & Hot Girls
- Work it out - 3 ways to get in shape before the summer
- Age vs. Maturity
- Relationship Makeovers - Don't Do It!
- The Sacrifices of Marriage
- Word of Advice for Men: Three Ways To Ruin Your Relationship
- 7 popular sexual myths
- Ladies Love Good D...or Face?
- Feed Me, F* Me, Shut the F* Up
- 7 Things I will Never Understand About Men
- Ten Things Men Find Unattractive in Women But Probably Won’t Tell You
- Pick and choose your battles
- You Wanna Take a Break? F*** That!
- What makes s*x good ... for a man?
- If She Ruled His World...
- If She Ruled His World...
- Jill Scott, Get Over It
March 2010
- 4 Things I don't understand about women
- Things I Won't Do for the Boo
- 7 Completely and Absolutely Un-Dateable Men
- Can You Make My Bed Rock?
- Woman, Buy Me A Drink
- Sisters vs. B*tches
- Women: Vengeful, Evil, and Mean
- F*** Chivalry
- Am I My Brother's Keeper?
- Say Ahh: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- Things That Make Me Go Soft
- If I Ruled the world ...
- SBM Answers: Should I buy the plane ticket?
- S***** Zealots: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- The Twitter Effect: The pros and cons of social media
- I Used to Love P*****
- Do you want to end this? ... Hell no!
- Degrees or Recipes?
- Bi-curiosity: Girls Just Want To Have Fun
- Reader Email: Is the grass greener on the other side?
- Momma Said I Can Do Better Than You
- The Man Wh*re
February 2010
- SBM Answers: Am I being shallow?
- I’m So Self Conscious
- The side chick revolution - 5 reasons why a mistress will never be the houswife
- Do I Know God? How About Do You Know Me?
- "Do you miss me?" ... Not Really
- Let's Be Friends
- "Urban" Models aka Video Hoes
- Spider Sense - How do you know when somethings wrong?
- Things that Make Me Feel Insecure...Sorta.
- Way #5823 to Impress a Man: Be Cool
- 5 Things That All Men Like
- Got head?
- What the eff is a Valentines Day?
- Finding Love is Like Finding a Job
- I don't want to propose
- RCLS PSA: Super Bowl = Man Mental Outage
- Why He Can't Let the Game Go
- The Sinister 6
- What the Eff is Your Problem?!
- I Hate You
January 2010
- Men know Women, Women Don't
- Why I Will Never Play Matchmaker Again!
- What defines a "freak"?
- Things Men Shouldn't Say to Women
- I Hate Weaves!
- Don't You Trust Me?
- They're not lying, you are a h*
- With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility
- The Stupidity of Man
- Ways for every man to show his love
- The Assist: The Male Matchmaker
- SBM Email: When Do Men Wake Up?!
- Black Male Bloggers: Our Words Are Gospel
- The Curse of The Good Black Man
- The Root of All Evil
- Your Friend is Cheating?
- Mythbusters: The SBM Dating Edition
- Baby, You're Not S*xy Anymore
- Predictions for Dating in 2010
December 2009
- Happy New Years!!!
- Late Pass - Things I Discovered #in 2009
- Looking Back on The Decade. It's Been Crazy.
- Jingle These Bells: 12 Days of XXXmas
- It's Christmas Time!
- Battle of the sexes: The Power of the good good
- Christmas is Overrated. Yep. I Said It.
- Meeting the Parents
- The Engagement Ring
- Baby, Where You Learn To Do That?
- On to the next one - 5 ways to get over a break-up
- A Woman's View: Things Men Just Don't Get
- The Angry/Mean Single Black Woman
- How to get women by being "cool"
- Dr. J, How would you classify my friend?
- 4 Reasons Why Exes Should Remain Exes
- Good or Bad Questions: Where You At and Who You With?
- 5 Ways to know She AIN'T "the one"
- Enhancements
- Why You Don’t Want to be with THAT girl
- Club Tiger: The Domestic Abuse Double Standard #swindle
- Where to Find the Good Men
November 2009
- 6 signs that she is crazy ... for real
- Rekindling Old Flames with a Blast From the Past
- I Wanna Thank You...
- The Obligations of Holiday Dating
- Nerds don't fight?: The Alley Test
- The Claim Game: Revisited
- Is your friend obsessing over a guy?
- The Claim Game
- What's Your Love Language?
- Why men lead women on ... and vice versa
- Baby, I'm Tired...
- How to tell that she’s stringing you on?
- Its My Perrogative: Let a man want what he wants!
- SBM Answers: Should I tell him I'm celibate?
- Top 7 Reasons to take off your wedding ring
- Deny Everything
- I Can Transform Ya
- Why Won't You Just Say What You Mean?!
- Nurse!: Being sick and in a relationship
October 2009
- Fright Night - Beware!
- Nope, Doesn't Count
- We Off That
- Dating with Children
- Is your phone broke: Getting him on the phone
- 8 Signs She Might Be a Hoe ... 2009 edition
- One Night Only
- Don't judge me!
- Steps Before Marriage: Doing It the Right Way
- Male Birth Control ... FTW
- Keep the Fire Blazin': Reignite a boring relationship
- Stop Leaning on the G-Code
- The consequences of s*x and relationship blogging
- I Date for Convenience
- Best Paternity Reactions
- The 5 Worst First Dates
- Threesomes for Dummies
- The Magneto Complex: Getting dumped for the ex
- Ghosts of Relationships Past
- How to attract a man: Have Fun!
- 5 Reasons You Should Give Her (More) Face Time : The Love Below
- Single Black Male seeks Single Latina Female
September 2009
- Venus vs. Mars: The differences that men and women need to know
- Aw Hun. You Dated a Celebrity? It's Over.
- Why he didn't call: Reasons men don't call numbers they get
- Dating a Blogger
- Dr. J Answers the Mail: He’s Just Not That Into You
- Get Yourself Tested
- I Like Hair
- Friends with Benefits (FwB) to girlfriend (GF): Make the jump
- The Most Wonderful Time Of the Year
- Who let the Swiss Athlete into the 100M?
- The Designated Boyfriend
- Your Name Is What? That's a Fail.
- You ... SUCK!
- Girl ... I want you sooo bad right now ... and you don't even know it
- 15 Minutes of Shame
- Obama's speech on education: Indoctrination or Inspiration?
- Baby, Can I Borrow Some Money?
- The Truth In Advertising ... these fake a$$ chics
- Funny Moments of Love
- Guilty Pleasures
- Slim's Thoughts: Real Housewives of Atlanta
August 2009
- Yes ... Men do cook for women!
- Stop stunting, blinging, ballin ... whatever the f* you call it!
- The Get Over It Series: Get Over Yourself
- Who's Gonna Check Me Boo?!
- You're Dating My Ex?!
- Degrees don't make you sexy miss ... Sorry
- Reader Appreciation Week: A Deal Gone Wrong
- RAW: Sleeping With Who You Sleep With?
- RAW: Watch out for the BIG girl
- RAW: The S*xual Multitasker
- Reader Appreciation Week: How to get out of the friend zone?
- Jungle Fever
- The Get Over It Series: You're a Ho, and He's not
- Summertime pt.5: Where dey do that at?!
- Sabotage
- Why you don't have a man #4729: He just doesn't want a relationship!
- Reason #87432 You Can't Get A Man: Your Funky A$$ Attitude
- The Get Over It Series: The Garden of Eden
- Summertime Pt. 4: AYO Technology - 21st Century Pimpin
- After What Date Is that Man the Truth?
- The Low Maintenance Woman
July 2009
- The "Good" Man Test
- Dr. J Answers The Mail
- Summertime pt 3: Do men experience double standards?
- Another Day ... Another Year
- Get ya hands up out my pocket!!
- Do Light Skin Girls Have More Fun?
- Summertime part 2: The Men-Women Rosetta Stone
- You Doin' You? Nah Shorty, You Doin' Me.
- To Give it Up ... or not to Give it up
- Summertime pt 1: My Fave 5 Female Features
- Either she's the one or I'm caught in the Matrix
- I Hate R&B: The Slim Jackson Edition
- SBM Answers: Freaky Deaky Pictures
- The Independent Woman
- The Get Over It Series: Men are Judgmental
- "The Best I Ever Had" Video ... Drake ... I feel you
- Friendship is Essential...or Is It?
- No sweetheart ... that's not a date
- The Get Over It Series: You're single and it's your fault
- Can you love God and s*x?
June 2009
- Make or Break
- How to kill a "holla" ... with ease
- Tadow! How ya like me now?! - Maintenance Issues
- "I need you to slow down." How do you tell someone this without hurting their feelings?
- Tell me THAT aint insecure...
- Stop ... Think about it
- Funny is Sexy ... Right?
- Watch your girl homie
- Who you callin a ho?!
- Slim Answers: Sacrifice for Love?
- SBM Answers: The Problem With The Super Black Woman
- Where have all the good black men gone?
- Fight Club: Meet the Members
- No Wifing in the Club, Gimme 20 Dollars
- If at First You Don't Succeed...
- Unforgivable
- Just call my name and I'll be there: Why you'll never stop helping your ex
- Height aint nothin but a number
- Trust
- How to Spot a Good Girl
May 2009
- How to Impress a guy #1742: Be Cool
- Your friend is sprung, but you're not
- How do I love thee? Let me count the ways
- Benefit of the Doubt
- Black Week 2009
- Are your bags too heavy?
- I just want to be successful
- Throwing in the Towel
- Yes ... he counts: Determining your magic number
- The Nugget: The Magical Re-appearing ex
- How's it Going Down?: Who is she creeping with?
- The Prime Directive
- What's Wrong?
- Sex Slang for 2009 ... roll that newspaper
- Losing Yourself
- Make It Last Forever... and ever.
- BPR - The Bad P Report
- Work Out? Sh*t. I Already Look Good!
- Female Friends ... Like a part time job
April 2009
- Crash the Car
- True lies
- I'm Seeing Other People
- Quirks of an SBM ... Part Deux
- “I like the way you comb your hair and the stylish clothes you wear…”
- "I ain't going out like that." Really? Yes, you are.
- She Smashed The Homie!
- Slim's Signs of Craziness
- Gimme one more chance ... baby baby gimme one more chance
- Suck it or not
- Don't stop, get it get it.
- Her Boyfriend Hates Her Boy-friends
- Hi! My Name Is...
- Evolution of a Professional Single Black Male
- Rantings of SBM
- personal employees: seasonal, temps, part-time, full-time
- Propensity to Holla
- Spring is in the Air
- Let's be adult here
- Rantings of an SBM
- See you in my nightmares
- You, my friend, are a racist
March 2009
- Role Model? I Already Got a Day Job.
- Congratulations??? Did I win something?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Quick! Somebody get me Katt Williams!
- She has on shoes
- I Want What I Need
- The Enigma that is T.I.
- Rantings of an SBM
- It Does A Body Good
- SBM Answers: When we need to be even more clear!
- Fallin' Off
- Can I be any clearer?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Aiyyo! Tell me what you want from me!
- Status Check
- Don't Drop the Ball!
- Opposites Attract?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Once upon a time...
- She hate me
- You Want Me to Do What?!
- How to get women by being "cool"
February 2009
- Rantings of an SBM
- Meet the Parents
- A Woman Speaks: He's not that into you ...
- How Soon is Too Soon?
- I'm taking a personal day ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- "I'm so bad ..."
- So many people use your name in vain ...
- How to Become a Man's Best Friend
- Looking for the ... BEST ... advice!
- Rantings of an SBM
- Bah! Humbug!
- Time ... is NOT on my side
- Bourgeois or not Bourgeois ... That is the question
- Curiously Strong
- Rantings of an SBM
- Can I Get That In Writing
- Quirks of this Single Black Male
- Slim's Search Criteria
- Get A Life 101
January 2009
- Rantings of an SBM
- Recession Proof: The Cost of Being Single
- The Young Misogynist
- Snoopin'
- Do you really want me to answer that?
- Rantings of an SBM
- My President is Black, But I'll Be Got Damn If My Girl Ain't
- Obama ... The Father in Law
- The Ultimate Strong Black Woman
- Misogyny ... and "The Problem"
- Rantings of an SBM
- You Mighta Seen Me In The Streets
- Girl ... Ignore them roaches ...
- Men Really Are Dumb...Sometimes.
- The Art of Baselining
- Rantings of an SBM
- My Dick Has A Degree Requirement
- Freaks, Hoes, and Freaky Hoes ...
- Age Ain't Nuthin but a Number...Or Is It?
- To Swallow or Not to Swallow
- Rantings of an SBM
December 2008
- America's Online Love
- How The Grinch Stole P*ssy
- Cute for Her ... Not for Him
- Rantings of an SBM
- Tongue Rings
- Craptacular Gifts
- The "Performance"
- Rantings of An SBM
- Oh The Weather Outside Is Frightful
- Church is soooooo Good
- Bad Breath. Never a Good Look.
- Relationship Amnesia
- Rantings of an SBM
- Sike Your Life
- There's a Thin Line Between Love and Like
- Family History
- SBM Answers: Creepin ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Never Too Much
- FwB != Jump Off ... I need validation
- Can I Get a Lap Dance?
- It really is just me ...
November 2008
- Thankings of an SBM
- Males Aren't The Only Ones That Piss With Their Leg Up
- Real Chance of Love
- Rantings of an SBM
- Lola Luv (Angel) ... Real or Fake ... I care?
- Sorry Shorty. I Can't Help You.
- The New Leader of the Feminist Movement
- Rantings of an SBM
- Moment of Ignorance: Let me see your tongue ring
- The Obamas ... Perfect Family Role Model
- The Magic Ratio
- Rantings of an SBM
- Dating a weed head
- The Bad Part
- Life is Good
- What makes "it" good?
- I just don't know ... And you probably don't either
October 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: A Throwback ... FCF
- The Sex Cloud
- Prototypes of Beauty
- Shedding the lists ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Black Women & Sports Bars
- Moment of Ignorance: No Shoes for you ...
- I need a Hoody Hood Hood Rat
- Who needs a team?
- Michelle’ Orphalee McMullen ... Missing
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Freaky Deaky Ducks
- Dating & Poverty: Blog Action Day
- Romantic Comedies ... That bullsh*t
- SBM Answers: Now you see me ... now you don't
- Michelle’ Orphalee McMullen ... Missing
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: The Antidater Speaks ...
- The Shake Joint
- What makes a breast ... a breast
- SBM Answers: You want to chill with who?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Soft Guys
- You wanna do it where?
September 2008
- Love Goggles
- Divide And Conquer
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature:
- The Trench Coat Test
- The Coochie Crook
- Money Talks?
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday's Feature: Gimme some head!
- Black Men's Appreciation Day
- Black Man's Appreciation Day Banter
- Where is my Dowry?!?!?!
- SBM Answers: No good ninja
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: It's Still Tricking If You Got It
- Preliminary Rounds
- They still make you?
- Dating Greek
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday's Feature: Them thirsty ninjas ...
- SBM College Fund
- The Black Goo
- Happy Labor Day
August 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursdays Feature: Mean Black Women
- White Girls [Video]
- You're not that hot ...
- Rantings of an SBM
- Thursday Feature: Hands That Stand ...
- Beautiful Black Hair
- Online Dating: Wave of the future.
- SBM Answers: Disposable Black Women?
- Rantings of an SBM
- What do YOU have to say?
- Tig Ol' Bitties
- Chivalry ... this bullsh*t again
- Embracing Technology
- Rantings of an SBM
- Something New
- Making Love ...
- SBM Guide to Getting Head
- Rantings of an SBM
July 2008
- She made me do it!
- I can change ... right?
- Another Year
- Rantings of an SBM
- Throwback: The Club Mentality
- F*ck R&B!
- Beautiful Black Hair: SBM Answers
- Rantings of an SBM
- Black Love And Growing Up
- Skinny girl's scare me ...
- Work & Love
- Rantings of an SBM
- Butter-Face
- Flat Screen or Law Degree?
- Golddigger Justification
- Rhythm & Blues
- Cheating ...
June 2008
- Male Birth Control: Sign me up!
- Rantings of an SBM
- Angry Black Woman or Tired Black Man? [Video]
- Women in different area codes
- Mr. Misogyny
- Rantings of an SBM
- Reasons to take of your ring
- Black Bike Week Madness: SBM Answers
- We want prenup!!!
- "Feed Me, F*ck Me, Shut the F*ck up"
- ***Commenter Peace Day***
- All she needs ... Two Things!
- "Gimme Gimme One More Chance": SBM Answers
- Moment of Clarity
- I'd rather get some head!
May 2008
- Did Text Messaging Ruin Romance? ... Naw
- Laffy Taffy [Video]
- Too Much ... Need Rest
- Black Bike Week 2008
- Rantings of an SBM
- She Ugly [VIDEO]
- Homies Over Hoes
- Do I steal her man?: SBM Answers
- Sacrifices: I have to give up what!?
- Smell Yo Dick: Don't you trust me! [VIDEO]
- Why the Degree'd want the Degreed: Educated Black People Rule!
- "Girl ... He's Gay": Female Homophobia
- Want to be Pampered? [VIDEO]
- Single Young Male: That I am ...
- Rantings of a Single Black Male
April 2008
- In Love With My Money - Chamillionaire [VIDEO]
- "Too Freaky for Me": SBM Answers
- "I'm gonna buy you a drink" ... right
- Black from "Flavor of Love 3" ... Too Fine
- The Bold & Grimy Female ... A story
- SBM Answers Your Questions: "She says he's just a friend"
- Simp: A Definition
- The Fallacy of "The One": Love is Everywhere
- Rantings of an Single Black Male
- Relationship Age: Are you really ready for something real?
- Single Black Male Realities [Video]
- 5 Ways to Know She Likes You
March 2008
- Friends With Benefits Explained: More than just sex
- Flavor of Love 3: Will it ever work?
- When "Knowing What You Want" Goes Wrong!: Finding your soulmate
- Say Hello To The Bad Guy: Death of the "Nice Guy"
- Sickness: Taking care of your boyfriend/girlfriend
- The Throwback: Giving your ex one more chance
- Not Every Girl Likes You: Why Your Getting Rejected! [Video]
- Nerdy Women are Sexy: Talk code to me girl ...
- Older Women: The Best Thing for a Young SBM
- The Truth about SBM ... A Hopeless Romantic
- 10 Ways to Show Your Man You Love Him
February 2008
- Moving On ...
- Old Fashioned Wife ... Not HOT [LINK]
- Chivalry is DEAD ... well ... Mortally Wounded
- Valentine's Day: The Sham ... The Hustle ... The Greatest
- Rantings of an SBM
- 10 Questions to Ask Before Proposing
- You Might Be a Jumpoff [VIDEO]
- Stay At Home Wife ... Thats Bullsh*t!
- Economics & Dating: From Antidater
- Fake Ass Boyfriend (FAB): The Definition
- Indicators of Interest (IOI): Does she/he really like me?
January 2008
- Random Thoughts
- Relationship ADD: Why can't she keep my interest?
- The Lull
- Keep your legs closed ... just not forever
- The Club Mentality: Wife ... from the club ... NOT HAPPENING
- What Women Want From Men? ... That's Easy!
- The Prelude: The Husband Store
- One Thing Women Don't Know ... Women
- Ass Grabbing: Disrespectful to you ... Cute to your friend!
- INDEPEDENT by Webbie
- The B*tch Breaker: The Guy That Doesn't Get Turned Down
December 2007
- Happy Holidays
- Independence: Yeah ... thats sexy
- He's Not in Love ... He's a PIMP: The Truth of Ignorant Females
- Stop Playing Games ... Its OK to call him!
- The Essence: Female Swagger ... How to attract a Man
- Weapons in the War ... Advantage: Women
- Percentage of Quality ... Continued
- The Alley Test
- Honesty ... Its whats hot!
- 99% Failure Rate
- The Four Man Plan
- Fundamental Character Flaw
- Can't look at ass all day
- Living with Females
