Married Man Talk: What I Hate About Being Married

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Tweet Before you read the title and get confused, I love being married. I mean I really really love being married. I could easily spend the rest of the post talking about how nice it is to always have someone to go to the movies with, how I still look forward to coming home and […]

10 Secrets To Showing Him You Love Him

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Tweet Over the past few days I have been asking for someone to indicate to me the types of things that women must do in order to make a relationship work and keep their man happy. While the initial person never responded, Young Belizean Lady helped give me a little insight over at her blog. I decided I would […]

Male Entitlement: A Man’s RIGHT to Holla

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Tweet Men have a large and difficult burden placed upon us. We are the ones given the responsibility of “starting the mating process” aka … the holla. The fact is, most s*xual encounters, marriages, and relationships all started when a guy decided to make a move and let his intentions be known. There are some […]

The Booty Text: Because Who Needs to Talk Anymore?

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Tweet SBM hasn’t been single for a very long time, but I have my memories. Back in the day, I called women. I would get their number, eventually set some time aside, and finally I would call them (usually multiple times). Generally at night, up to an hour for the first call. If things went […]

The Problem of the Inflated Black Male Ego

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Tweet Becoming A Good Black Man is a Great Accomplishment. As one, I think about it every once in a while. My public schools were all below average; I was more likely to turn to a life of crime; I was more likely to acquire less education (even compared to my female counterparts); I was less […]

5 Things I Love About Being Married – From a Man

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Tweet Ask a woman about being married, the response will be the same 90% of the time. “It’s wonderful” or “My Husband is my best friend” or even “I hate that cheating lying sumb*tch … but it’s better than being single”.  For the most part, it’s understood that married women love being married. Ask a […]

The Re-Appearing Ex

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Tweet Another reader looking for information and enlightenment. While I can get it started, we all know the truth will come out in the comments. Make sure to pitch in. Don’t forget to email your questions to [email protected] and check out our responses to all of our reader questions by clicking here. Hello Single Black Male, […]

She Wants A Strong Black Man! Is That Weird?

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Tweet Keep the letters coming. Well written, relationship & dating focused, and in need of advice. Why wait? Send your question to [email protected] We’ll say something, but the SBM family will say more. Hey Single Black Male, How are you? I’m a 25 year old woman, who has a great job as an engineer. I […]

Why can’t HE just be my Friend With Benefits?

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Tweet Don’t forget that you too can have your question answered by one of the SBM staff, in addition to several thousand readers by sending a short, well written and explanative question to [email protected] Hey Single Black Male, I am going to get straight to the point. I have known this guy since 2011 and […]

Why do men just disappear?

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Tweet When you have spent years talking, thinking, and doing relationships … you get asked a lot of questions. A LOT!  Very soon you realize something … most people have the same problems.  Today, we re-visit one of the classics … Dear SBM, I recently discovered your website and became an instant fan, I am […]