Are Men Responsible For Round 2 in the Bedroom?

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Tweet Most times when I begin to write, I listen to a song or two just to get my mind right. Today the ipod was on shuffle and “Tap Out” comes on. How fitting, right? Maybe it’s more ironic considering today’s discussion. Last week I wrote a post entitled “Ladies, This Can be Why Round […]

Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2″ Doesn’t Happen

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Tweet Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s where a […]

Picky or Patient: What Type of Dater Are You?

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Tweet Nitpick- adj. Overly critical, esp. on trivial matters; focused on only trivial aspects Patient- adj. Quietly and steadily persevering or diligent, especially in detail or exactness Throughout the period of time that we date, we turn down many. Some people in our eyes are completely out of the question. Others might really be on […]

Have Blurred Gender Roles Pushed Men Away From Commitment?

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Tweet About four years ago, I took a gender psychology course in undergrad. My term paper was based on how gender roles of women have changed between the 1950′s and present day. During this period of time women have made amazing strides. They’ve grabbed the bull by the horns and fought for equal opportunity. This […]

What To Do When You Lose Your Old Faithful?

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Tweet   Today’s post is for the fellas. It’s for the guys who are single. It’s for men who have or had a rotation of women while single. A friend of mine said to me this weekend that one of the ladies he was messing with started falling back. He said that she was his […]

How Does a Man Approach a Newly Single Woman?

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Tweet I don’t know! How about we start off with that and let it be known. I am not perfect in the world of dating. Although I’ve experienced great successes, i sure have some weak points. One of my biggest weak points is my timing. With women I have the shittiest timing this side of […]

Why Some Men Fear A “Church” Woman

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Tweet   I tread on thin ice today. By the end of this post I am sure to ease the minds of all religious people. The title of this post isn’t exactly what you might think. Allow me to preface my post. I think if you’re a woman and you’re spiritual that’s great. I believe […]

What’s Up With Guys Women “Don’t Count?”

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Tweet   Many if not all guys have been there. We have gotten to know different women. In that process we learn about a lady’s history with men. The good, the bad, and hopefully not too ugly. Many times in speaking to  women they’ll allude to a man they wish they hadn’t met. On many […]

Why Men Hate Dates: The Dishonest Woman

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Tweet We’re finally past the lovey dovey hoopla that Valentine’s Day offers up. It’s well documented that I enjoy the vibe of the holiday. You all got a little look into some dates I’ve went on in past holidays. What we all witnessed last week were great acts of love. Instagram was overloaded with happy […]

The Valentine’s Day Chronicles: A Good Day To Be Black And Sexy

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Tweet   Today is all about part three. Valentine’s Day is tomorrow. If you celebrate it I hope your plans are coming together smoothly. If you are new to this series please read part one and part two respectively. When we last spoke yours truly was in bliss I just had a Valentine’s Day that […]