Why Sloppy Public Drunkenness Isn’t The Business

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It’s been a while since I’ve written. I briefly want to express my sympathies to the nine families who were affected by the church shooting in South Carolina. I share my thoughts on this in the next episode of the Negro Please Podcast. We still have a ways to go. To the gay and lesbian […]

Why Being Fiscally Responsible Is Sexy

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It’s amazing how many layers to dating there are. The more time flies by, the more different things begin to matter more to me. These things aren’t usually things that you can see. They’re really ideas, attitudes, and philosophies I look for a potential prospect to have. In conversing with different people, I try to […]

Are Straight Men Confused By Transgender Women?

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“Men are only upset at transgender women because they are confused as to if they should be attracted to them.” Talk about a mouth full right? It was only a week ago that I said the beauty of life is the ability to have great debates and discussions. In the interim, we now have a […]

Is God Responsible For Sexual Chemistry?

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I think one of the greatest beauties in life is the fact that there is so much to debate. There is so much to discuss and so much room to gain more understanding. Once in a while I am lucky to be inspired to write about something that I think would make a great debate […]

Is College As Necessary As It Once Was? (Podcast)

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Negro Please is back for Episode 2! In this episode the  guys continue their discussion from episode one. They cover their personal college experiences as well as discuss whether or not college is still a prudent decision heading into the real world. Was/Is it really worth it? Find out what these guys think. DamnPops is […]

How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

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This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. […]

The Negro Please Podcast: Cool, New, Necessary

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SBM fam, I’m back and I bring some cool news. If you aren’t aware  my good friend Lejorne (@GreatLeys) and myself  have launched our new podcast site over at negropleasepodcast.com. It’s a new endeavor for the both of us but one that we’re both immensely excited about. As you visit the site you’ll learn more about […]

Ask A Black Man: The Experience

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  We are in full swing of the second season of Ask A Black Man on Madame Noire. I had the opportunity to participate and was glad to. I was a fan of the first season and appreciated what the series was striving for. There’s nothing like seeing guys come together and speak candidly on […]

Are You Worthy Of Being Committed To?

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There’s a funny irony when you’re a writer who enjoys writing about relationships and dating. How could someone with all these wide perspectives still be a “single black male?” I’ve always thought that if you’re in the business of sharing perspective then it’s all good. Like Charles Barkley says, “There are no experts, only God […]

She Got Body Part 3: Is There A Line Between Thick And “Fat?”

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So about two months ago I was heavily into a reality show on Lifetime called “Big Women, Big Love.” I was fascinated by it and many of you who follow my work know my interest in alternative reality shows. This show examined the plight of plus sized women which the world would label “fat.”  The […]