Why People Can’t Stand Relationship “Experts”


The man above is the well known Tony Gaskins. He recently sat down with Madame Noire for an interview. Madame Noire is a site that I frequent because of all the thought provoking content. This time around was no different as the subject matter got  the people buzzing. Feel free to watch the full interview […]

Does A Man Have To Plan Everything While Dating?


Boy do I have a doozy for you all today! I trust everyone had a safe and turnt Labor Day weekend. I personally took an extra day off. Upon waking up on Tuesday I did what any millennial does, I checked my twitter timeline. What I expected to see would have been videos of excessive […]

NetFlix And Chilling Tells A Small Story In The Book Of Dating


We are in 2015 and the world is as trendy as it has ever been. Everything seems to trend. The creation of memes and starter packs trend. The increase of people wearing joggers trend. The amount of grown men wearing wigs to impersonate women trends!! That’s who we are right now. Another trendy activity that […]

My Curiosity With A Single Mother Who Is Dating

Child with his mother eating a snack

Yes yes! It’s really me and I’ve missed you way more than you have missed me. But if you’ve missed me more I won’t complain. There are some things on my mind lately. Single mothers who actively date is a subject I don’t see enough written on. I have a fascination with the topic because I […]

I Have A Different Beef With Bill Cosby


You can feel free to call me a 90’s baby. I grew up in the 90’s. My early years consisted of Saturday afternoon wrestling on Fox 5 after “Life With Louie,” or Dionne Warwick’s Psychic Friends Network. I grew up knowing if I caught “Bobby’s World” after school it was a great day. Beeper gum? […]

Will He Wait In 2015?

Seattle Seahawks Quarterback Russell Wilson and entertainer Ciara Harris arrive for a state dinner for Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe, Tuesday, April 28, 2015, at the White House in Washington. (AP Photo/Andrew Harnik)

Yes would be the simple answer here. There’s more behind that yes, which is probably why you’re reading this currently. I figured that this was the perfect time to rehash one of those really good conversations on celibacy. You see, America’s Golden Boy Russel Wilson currently dates the “cute an ting” Ciara. In a recent […]

Why Sloppy Public Drunkenness Isn’t The Business


It’s been a while since I’ve written. I briefly want to express my sympathies to the nine families who were affected by the church shooting in South Carolina. I share my thoughts on this in the next episode of the Negro Please Podcast. We still have a ways to go. To the gay and lesbian […]

Why Being Fiscally Responsible Is Sexy

Studio Portrait Of Stressed Teenage Girl

It’s amazing how many layers to dating there are. The more time flies by, the more different things begin to matter more to me. These things aren’t usually things that you can see. They’re really ideas, attitudes, and philosophies I look for a potential prospect to have. In conversing with different people, I try to […]

Are Straight Men Confused By Transgender Women?


“Men are only upset at transgender women because they are confused as to if they should be attracted to them.” Talk about a mouth full right? It was only a week ago that I said the beauty of life is the ability to have great debates and discussions. In the interim, we now have a […]

Is God Responsible For Sexual Chemistry?


I think one of the greatest beauties in life is the fact that there is so much to debate. There is so much to discuss and so much room to gain more understanding. Once in a while I am lucky to be inspired to write about something that I think would make a great debate […]