There’s No Middle Ground In Relationships, Either Yes or No

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 Share on Tumblr Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. […]

Practicing The Art of Karrueche

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s talk about the cyclical relationships that women have in a man’s life. The main chick is annoyed at the side piece for trying to steal her man. The side piece is mad at the main chick for actually thinking that she can fully satisfy her man. The main chick and the […]

Is Nick Cannon Right to Rant on Twitter about His Marriage?

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 Share on Tumblr Nick Cannon took to Twitter to address rumors about his marriage. He says he’s never made a statement to anyone or any news source about his marriage. Which is confusing because this Twitter rant is addressing the rumors about his marriage which makes that a little contradictory. Anyway, read the rant for […]

Do We Even Need To Date Anymore?

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 Share on Tumblr Perusing the internet searching for a topic for this week’s blog I found a lot of the topics were all about the same thing. I think that most blog sites are always trying to convince people that something is missing or something went away that used to be here. Now at times […]

The Hot vs. Emotional Unavailability Matrix – Women’s Guide to Men

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 Share on Tumblr Not that there’s anything wrong with women taking a crack at the matrix. I’m sure most have seen the Hot vs. Crazy Matrix by the genius who posted in it late July. This is a version for women to evaluate men on a Hot and Emotional Unavailability Matrix. Thoughts?  Share on Tumblr

Beware of the Ides of September! Cuffing Season Has Begun

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 Share on Tumblr We are one weekend away from Labor Day. That’s right it’s all over. The fun that we had from Spring until now is ending. Soon the trees will change from green to brown. Galoshes will replace sandals. Boyfriend sweaters will replace summer dresses. And, rooftop rendezvouses will all but cease to exist. […]

8 Things That Happen When Your Significant Other Finds Out You’re Still Friends With Your Ex

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s be honest, many of us are friends with people we used to date. It’s a good thing and bad thing. If you’re not still emotional dependent on one another it can possibly work. Personally, I feel that if you can’t remain at least cordial with your exes then it speaks to […]

Buzzfeed Says This Is “What Men Are Really Saying When Catcalling Women”

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 Share on Tumblr The other day, I heard about this video but I didn’t watch it. Not that i’m not interested in the discussion around street harassment because I am. But because there’s a ton of videos from various sources coming out every other day and it’s a lot to keep up with. Without further […]

Should You Drink On The First Date?

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 Share on Tumblr For the most part, having a drink or two is not a big issue. If it helps you feel more comfortable and it adds to the ambiance of your first encounter, why not? Drinking Can Become a Problem A couple of beverages are no big deal, but drinking can become a problem […]

Why Everyone Doesn’t Have A Right To Know Your Personal Business

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 Share on Tumblr We’ve reached the end of a tumultuous week that saw yet again gender relations in society pushed to the brink of an all-out war. Stephen A. Smith put his foot in his mouth and then spent much of the rest of the week trying to put two fingers in his mouth to […]