Admit it, You Hate Iggy Azalea

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Now that the Grammys are over and she didn’t win everyone can now breathe a sigh of relief. We can all go back to our regularly scheduled lives because there’s a good chance that by this time next year Iggy Azalea will be as relevant as Macklemore is right now. Let the cheering begin. However, […]

Do You Post Your Relationship Status on Facebook?

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It’s a controversial topic. Do you have the desire for public affirmation in your relationship? I think deep down that the need to publicly announce your relationship is rooted in insecurity. I’ve been in very public relationships and very private ones too. What I can say is that keeping your private life private is probably […]

The Reason You Should Love Less Than More About Them

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I recently read an article that spoke to the amount of things you can love about a person. I can’t remember the exact wording but it came to mind when I readied myself to pen this post. In this article the exercise was to write down everything you love about the person you’re with. You […]

Are Non-Threatening Women More Attractive to Women?

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Before you read this post it’s important that you understand that I find everything that Lil’ Duval says to be ridiculous. I haven’t heard everything he’s said but he made some jokes once about domestic violence and I placed him a box from which he will never return. The name of that box is called, […]

Is The Goal Of A Relationship Marriage?

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Over the last few weeks I’ve been asked a lot about marriage and my responses have caught a few people off guard. I thought that would make for interesting conversation on SBM and many other outlets. Simply put, is there really a reason why we should all set our relationship goals on marriage? My answer […]

The New Marriage Model

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Tomorrow’s post is going to be about my belief that people should no longer feel pressure to marry. I think marriage has it’s place in society but I also think that it’s time that we start accepting other paths to happiness. Before I jump into that tomorrow I want to share a recent post on Elite […]

Why Has He Given You the Crazy Chick Title?

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Strolling the streets of the Internet and I ran across a short list of reasons that men like to title women… “crazy.” I’ve made a personal challenge and commitment to not use this terminology because I think it’s lazy and men should just articulate themselves better. Nonetheless, these eight  things are actually spot on for […]

Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

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The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you really don’t move […]

Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life in and out […]

What The Failure to Indict Darren Wilson Means to Us

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Over the past few months there has not been a lot of discussion on the Michael Brown case in Ferguson but today I wanted to put something out to provide a forum for discussion. Also to inform our readers where we as blog, bloggers and most of all Black men stand on this issue. I […]