7 Things I Learned From Shameless, Girls and House of Lies


I don’t expect anyone to have noticed my absence from the internet over the last few days. This week for the most part, I’ve been on a deathbed. It may have had something to do with being in Syracuse last weekend to watch my alma mater beat Duke (Go Orange!) or it may have something […]

Stop Google’ing The People You Date


There was a ton of stuff I wanted to talk about this week; don’t worry, I’m not going anywhere soon. I’ll get around to it pretty soon. Faced with the decision to do a post on why I don’t think watching adult entertainment is a bad thing, that poor white-Asian girl in the yoga class […]

40 Questions Women In New Relationships Have – Answered


I love answering questions from readers and women. I can’t say that I’m an expert at anything or even qualified to offer an opinion. All I can say is that I don’t mind answering questions. I was roaming the internet the other day looking for inspiration for a post when I found myself reading a […]

5 Names You Should Never Call a Black Woman


There’s a long list of names, words, or phrases that women don’t like being called or associated with at all. Much like other words, it doesn’t mean that women haven’t owned their fair share of them and started to use them as terms of endearment. What it does mean is that a man would be […]

10 Silly But Relevant Deal Breakers for Relationships


I’ve been compiling this list of reasons to breakup with a person that while they may seem absolutely silly is actually telling of deeper and relevant information for a relationship. You may be thinking well if it’s silly how could it be any deeper than you found a reason early on to flee the scene […]

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Ten Things To Remember About Love in 2014


I’m not a big fan of New Year’s posts because I truly don’t believe there’s a difference between the 31st and the 1st of any month. Therefore if you didn’t get a Happy New Year from me on twitter or facebook or any other social media medium, charge it to the game. However, if someone […]

How To Make Her Christmas Great


If you haven’t noticed we’re posting a lot of some of the best content that SBM has published over the years this week. If you’re new to the site or just want to take a trip down memory lane you can read contributions by clicking their names below: Site founder: @SingleBlackMale aka SBM aka EngagedBlackMale aka […]

5 Pitfalls to Avoid When You First Start Dating


“No, please explain it to me, what’s wrong with using this LivingSocial deal for Nobu?” The embryonic stage of your courtship, relationship or whatever you call it when you first start dating is quintessentially the most important time. While you’re excited to have met someone new or actually moving on to a new part of […]

Is It Easier For Pretty Women To Get Married?


I catch the Metro everyday to work.  There are a few things that I typically spend my time doing; reading everyone’s new blog on my phone, listening to hype music to get me through the day, and people watching.  For some reason, I always notice the pretty women on the train.  Why?  Because there’s typically […]

Can You Really Do Better Than Your Ex?


  A little over a week ago I participated in a panel discussion about Love, Cheating and #Scandal. There was a great crowd and the conversation was enjoyable. I’m not going to rehash that because truth be told, y’all should have came to the event; I even posted about it on the blog. Anyway… there […]