Are Non-Threatening Women More Attractive to Women?

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Before you read this post it’s important that you understand that I find everything that Lil’ Duval says to be ridiculous. I haven’t heard everything he’s said but he made some jokes once about domestic violence and I placed him a box from which he will never return. The name of that box is called, […]

Is The Goal Of A Relationship Marriage?

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Over the last few weeks I’ve been asked a lot about marriage and my responses have caught a few people off guard. I thought that would make for interesting conversation on SBM and many other outlets. Simply put, is there really a reason why we should all set our relationship goals on marriage? My answer […]

The New Marriage Model

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Tomorrow’s post is going to be about my belief that people should no longer feel pressure to marry. I think marriage has it’s place in society but I also think that it’s time that we start accepting other paths to happiness. Before I jump into that tomorrow I want to share a recent post on Elite […]

Why Has He Given You the Crazy Chick Title?

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Strolling the streets of the Internet and I ran across a short list of reasons that men like to title women… “crazy.” I’ve made a personal challenge and commitment to not use this terminology because I think it’s lazy and men should just articulate themselves better. Nonetheless, these eight  things are actually spot on for […]

Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

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The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you really don’t move […]

Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life in and out […]

What The Failure to Indict Darren Wilson Means to Us

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Over the past few months there has not been a lot of discussion on the Michael Brown case in Ferguson but today I wanted to put something out to provide a forum for discussion. Also to inform our readers where we as blog, bloggers and most of all Black men stand on this issue. I […]

The Ten Worst Things BET Got Rid Off

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This weekend BET announced that 106 & Park would be cancelled after this season. Shad Moss’s career is essentially over as a host and actor. Well, damn. Today I’m going to take a look at the shows and people over the years that BET either cancelled or lost. All I can say is, “It’s a […]

The Last of a Dying Breed: The Fall of Generation Y and the Rise of the Millennial

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We all have to get used to the fact that our time as Gen Y and our prime is in its sunset. Moreover, that the Millennial’s time has come; it’s their time to lead now. I realize that my mindset about loyalty to traditional roles of employment and being focused on making as much wealth […]

7 Reasons Why You Can’t Let Go of Your Past

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It’s been a long week and Friday is here. All of us can breathe a sigh of relief because we know that in the morning, Saturday is here. I didn’t know what I wanted to post on today because at this point I’m tired of talking about what everyone else is talking about. I can […]