The Hot vs. Emotional Unavailability Matrix – Women’s Guide to Men

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Not that there’s anything wrong with women taking a crack at the matrix. I’m sure most have seen the Hot vs. Crazy Matrix by the genius who posted in it late July. This is a version for women to evaluate men on a Hot and Emotional Unavailability Matrix. Thoughts?

Beware of the Ides of September! Cuffing Season Has Begun

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We are one weekend away from Labor Day. That’s right it’s all over. The fun that we had from Spring until now is ending. Soon the trees will change from green to brown. Galoshes will replace sandals. Boyfriend sweaters will replace summer dresses. And, rooftop rendezvouses will all but cease to exist. As the seasons […]

8 Things That Happen When Your Significant Other Finds Out You’re Still Friends With Your Ex

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Let’s be honest, many of us are friends with people we used to date. It’s a good thing and bad thing. If you’re not still emotional dependent on one another it can possibly work. Personally, I feel that if you can’t remain at least cordial with your exes then it speaks to the type of […]

Buzzfeed Says This Is “What Men Are Really Saying When Catcalling Women”

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The other day, I heard about this video but I didn’t watch it. Not that i’m not interested in the discussion around street harassment because I am. But because there’s a ton of videos from various sources coming out every other day and it’s a lot to keep up with. Without further adieu, here’s the […]

Should You Drink On The First Date?

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For the most part, having a drink or two is not a big issue. If it helps you feel more comfortable and it adds to the ambiance of your first encounter, why not? Drinking Can Become a Problem A couple of beverages are no big deal, but drinking can become a problem when you: Look […]

Why Everyone Doesn’t Have A Right To Know Your Personal Business

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We’ve reached the end of a tumultuous week that saw yet again gender relations in society pushed to the brink of an all-out war. Stephen A. Smith put his foot in his mouth and then spent much of the rest of the week trying to put two fingers in his mouth to vomit his foot […]

Melyssa Ford Says She May Have Provoked A Man To Punch Her

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Recently, model and actress Melyssa Ford sat down with The Brilliant Idiots podcast (hosted by Charlamagne Tha God and Andrew Schulz) , and  she was honest as she described a time where she knew she provoked a man to punch her in the face. She said he wasn’t the type of dude who hit women but she pushed him to […]

5 Questions To Lead You To Happiness In Love

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I believe that the secret to happiness is looking within. I received some advice from an old friend once that said, “You can’t ask anyone to love you if you don’t love yourself.” For a while, I tried to answer questions about why I couldn’t find something that clicked with me. I found that I […]

Foul or Fair? Trey Songz’s new song and music video ‘Foreign’

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  Trey Songz has a new single and music video and it’s poised to stir up some controversy. Not many of us are surprised to see Trey Songz surrounded in a music video by scantily clad racially ambiguous women but you may be surprised by the lyrics of the song. A friend of mine sent […]

5 Signs Your Summer Fling Is Ending

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If you’ve reached this point in the summer and your fling hasn’t turned into a relationship then it’s probably a sure tell sign that it’s ending. That’s nothing to worry about many of us didn’t want it to go any further anyway. However, for some of us we’re wondering what ways we can tell whether […]