There’s never an easy way to let someone down, which is why people classically tip toe around the truth to “let them down easy”.  In the workplace, it’s never easy to criticize a co-worker/superior/employee, but in the interest of running a lucrative operation, you have to deliver the news. In between the sheets however, it’s [...]

The gentlemen here at SBM pride themselves on being able to give you honest, fresh and in-depth objective analysis and advice on some of life’s more interesting situations.  I, on the other hand happen to be a bit more sarcastic and shallow in my advice and analysis of the finer things in life.  (Yes, even [...]

Jim: You think Jemima will like this digital picture frame? T-Bone: I’m sure she will…I don’t think her fiance will like that too much… Jim: Oh that…she’s just going through a phase.  She shot me a text the other day to congratulate me on passing the bar.  I know she still loves me. T-Bone: Son…you [...]

Depending on where you went to high school, college or where you currently live, you probably tend to see the same people of your ilk very often.  This logic would lend itself to the theory that you may have dated or slept with someone that has also dated/slept with someone else you know.  Like “they” [...]

**The following conversation takes place between 3:45 and 3:49** Elliot: Honey, can you pass me a beer? Mercedes: Why don’t you get one of them b*tches to get you a beer… Elliot: Wha…what are you talkin’ about? Mercedes: Them b*tches that you had all up on you @ Joe’s BBQ gettin’ you beers…I saw all [...]

You’ve always wanted to know, haven’t you.  Probably not the foremost thing in your mind so much as an idle curiosity.  Don’t worry, it’s not as bad as you think…or maybe it is.  In any event, I’m going to give you an idea of some of things that happen when you’re not home/around or otherwise [...]

I know her hair isn’t wrapped but I couldn’t resist… The following conversation takes place between 11:47pm and 11:49pm: M’Likshawnquan: You gonna take that thing off? Jane: Damn baby, you getting straight the point tonight, huh?  ::Starts taking shirt off:: M’Likshawnquan: Not the shirt…well actually keep taking the shirt off…I was talkin’ about that scarf.  [...]

Any sophisticated gentleman well versed in the art of the climax usually boasts a very strong face game.  They have to possess intangible skills that catapults them into the realm of making women believers and enthusiastic h*ad givers.  During the well publicized drought of good black men, having impeccable linguistic talents will make you more [...]

As I was reading through the comments of the good Dr.’s post yesterday, there was a general sentiment expressed by the ladies that maybe men should be more forth right in their dealings instead of running intricate schemes in order to “win”.  Which is fine.  In the same breath, it was also revealed that women [...]

I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine that recently got married and another friend that has been living with his fiance for a year.  As we stood in the mall holding our SO’s purses sat at a bar chopping it up about their new lives, both gentlemen expressed their sincere blissful happiness [...]