SBM Exclusive: New Juicy Novel Preseason Love

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We are pleased to be the first to share with you the cover art for the novel Preseason Love, written by our very own SBM contributor, Ahyiana Angel The book is available now for pre-order and it hits shelves, notebooks, and kindles October 21, 2014. Ahyiana Angel is a former sports entertainment publicist for the NBA and based […]

Stay in Your Lane Relationship Insurance

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There are many people that could possibly benefit from Stay in Your Lane relationship insurance, because sometimes the people you’re casually seeing get a little ahead of themselves. They try to exercise rights or do things that weren’t covered in their primary relationship plan. -Like complain about what you’re doing, when you’re not with them. […]

Olivia Pope: The Sidechick Financial Plan

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Let me start with a simple yet important statement.  Ladies, we are financially responsible for ourselves at every  relationship stage no matter whether you’re married, separated, single or the “side chick”. *Thoughtful Pause* I should take this opportunity to discuss how you deserve to be so much more than some man’s getaway when he’s angry […]

8 Qualities Every Woman Looks for in a Man

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It’s not rocket science in knowing if you are date material, you just have to know your strengths and weaknesses and what your potential boo may want in you. Because there are just certain qualities every woman looks for in a man and here are just a few of them. She wants a go-getter All […]

We Need New Writers! Do You Want to Be One of Them?

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SBM is looking for new contributors to bring a fresh spin to some of our favorite topics: dating, relationships, and pop culture.  If you’re an aspiring or established writer trying to get your name and work in front of thousands of people across the world, this opportunity is for you. We ARE NOT looking for […]

How to Be a Great Girlfriend

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We’re not saying you suck at being a girlfriend, you’re probably a good old lady. But here are a few tips on how to be a great girlfriend: 1. Be present with him. When you are with your boyfriend, be with him. Turn your phone off. Put it in your purse, or put it in […]

4 Ways to Cheat Your Way Out The Friend Zone

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For those of you still suffering in a perpetual state of friend zone purgatory, here’s a few ways to break the funk- 1. Improve Yourself Sexual attraction is somewhat cruel in how much it focuses on physical appearance while ignoring your many other qualities, like how good of a coder you might be or how […]

Lessons Learned on Love and Friendship from ‘The Best Man Holiday’

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There were alot of mixed reviews about ‘The Best Man Holiday’, but like all things there is something to learn from them. These are a few hidden lessons we saw in, ‘The Best Man Holiday’- There Are No Good Secrets In a Marriage (or Friendship) In both films, Harper (Taye Diggs) made his share of […]

5 Reasons You Need to Stop Stalking Your Ex on Social Media

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Whether we want to admit it or not, we have all stalked our exes on social media. Though we’ve all done this, it’s never worth your time. Here are five significant reasons you need to stop doing this right now. 1. Don’t let yourself be defined by TLC’s ”Creep” “So I creep, yeah Just Keep […]

New Podcast Series: Two Guys One Show (Audio)

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Check out the new podcast series, Two Guys One Show, featuring Rich (The Freedom Chase) and WisdomIsMisery (read his past work on SBM here). The first episode was released on Friday. We’d have posted about it then…but you probably would’ve been eating leftovers or shopping..not at your computer with some headphones on. From Rich in […]