We Need New Writers! Do You Want to Be One of Them?

SBM is looking for new contributors to bring a fresh spin to some of our favorite topics: dating, relationships, and pop culture.  If you’re an aspiring or established writer trying to get your name and work in front of thousands of people across the world, this opportunity is for you. We ARE NOT looking for […]

How to Be a Great Girlfriend

We’re not saying you suck at being a girlfriend, you’re probably a good old lady. But here are a few tips on how to be a great girlfriend: 1. Be present with him. When you are with your boyfriend, be with him. Turn your phone off. Put it in your purse, or put it in […]

4 Ways to Cheat Your Way Out The Friend Zone

For those of you still suffering in a perpetual state of friend zone purgatory, here’s a few ways to break the funk- 1. Improve Yourself Sexual attraction is somewhat cruel in how much it focuses on physical appearance while ignoring your many other qualities, like how good of a coder you might be or how […]

Lessons Learned on Love and Friendship from ‘The Best Man Holiday’

There were alot of mixed reviews about ‘The Best Man Holiday’, but like all things there is something to learn from them. These are a few hidden lessons we saw in, ‘The Best Man Holiday’- There Are No Good Secrets In a Marriage (or Friendship) In both films, Harper (Taye Diggs) made his share of […]

5 Reasons You Need to Stop Stalking Your Ex on Social Media

Whether we want to admit it or not, we have all stalked our exes on social media. Though we’ve all done this, it’s never worth your time. Here are five significant reasons you need to stop doing this right now. 1. Don’t let yourself be defined by TLC’s ”Creep” “So I creep, yeah Just Keep […]

New Podcast Series: Two Guys One Show (Audio)

Check out the new podcast series, Two Guys One Show, featuring Rich (The Freedom Chase) and WisdomIsMisery (read his past work on SBM here). The first episode was released on Friday. We’d have posted about it then…but you probably would’ve been eating leftovers or shopping..not at your computer with some headphones on. From Rich in […]

How to Take a Woman Out on a Proper Date

A woman tells men how to take a woman out on a proper date, since it seems alot of fellas have lost their way with the romanticism, you need a fresh reminder every once and awhile. It starts by actually asking me out. Please call me up on the phone, or if we are talking […]

Casting Call for Singles in the New York Tri-State Area

Hey #SBMFam we got an email from a friend… A New Docu-series that will explore the ups & downs of dating, is looking for NY & Tri-State-area singles who feel like they’ve exhausted all dating possibilities! Does this sound like you? Do you want to find your perfect match? Do you feel like giving up? […]

Good Pick-Up Idea or Wishful Thinking?

We posted this to our Facebook page earlier and saw an enthusiastic response, so wanted to see what you thought here on the blog. What do you think of this idea? Fellas, feel free to chime in too.

9 Clear Signs a Guy Is Blowing You Off

Is he not interested? These signs will tell you: 1. Never Answers His Phone One clear sign a guy is blowing you off that a lot of women actually overlook is when a man never, ever answers his phone. Do you constantly find yourself getting his voicemail? Have you gone to voicemail directly without the […]