Can You Upgrade from an Ex?


Is there ever really a such thing as an upgrade or downgrade in dating and if there is what is the criteria for an upgrade? Of course when you break up with an ex, most of us don’t want to see them move on with someone more attractive, more accomplished or with more money- that’s […]

Decriminalize Marijuana in the Bedroom: Which is Better Drunk or High Sex?


You know that most of us believe sex to be one of the greatest wonders this world has had to offer. However, the funny part is that as people we are always in the pursuit of making what we have better. Because we always believe there is a better, like “sex would better, if we tried […]

Part 2: 10 Other Things Black Men Look for in a Wife


 Here’s the second half to 10 Things Black Men Look for in a Wife. This was definitely a long list, but something that’s worth sharing and discussing. I would love for a woman to write a response to this with 20 Things Black Women Look for in a Husband. Sexually Satisfy Does he have sex with […]

Part 1: 10 Things Black Men Look for in a Wife

Happy Newlyweds in Front of Mansion

Are You Wife Material or a Wifey happens to be my third most read post to date on Not only do women want to be successful in their careers, but ultimately they want to be boo’d up, to find a man, get married, have great sex and have beautiful children. The last post was said to be vague, and it left some readers more […]

Don’t Sweat Her Over Dessert: Why Women Think Men are Cheap- [Revisited]


*This is a great time to revisit this post, since last Friday Dr. J is advocated taking women you’ve just met for $200 dates. I think you should put more effort into the planning more so than the spending. Read this old goodie about how I think men should view dates.* A few nights ago I was […]

5 PDA Moments You Should’ve Had with Your Valentine This Past VDay


I don’t always talk about myself personally on SBM, most of the time I keep the topics objective. Well, today is about me. I am a very sexual person, most of us are. I am becoming more romantic the older I get. I also do not have a problem with PDA, but my PDA is […]

The Best Grammy Memes: Iggy Azaela Challah Bread Braid, Rihanna’s Pink Prom Dress, Etc


Last night at the Grammy’s there were plenty of things to make memes out of, like Iggy’s atrocious braid-do, Rihanna’s huge pink dress and few other bad fashion choices. Here are some of the best Grammy memes from the weekend:   Iggy OH Iggy…  

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5 Cities I’ve Always Wanted to Visit


I figured today I’d depart from the usual talks about sex and dating. It dawned on me that Mardi Gras is quickly approaching, it was definitely something I planned on experiencing. Last month, I searched feverishly on hotel apps and Airbnb for a place to stay, I even convinced a few friends to tag along […]

Over 50 Women Confess Their Sex Deal Breakers


A couple weeks ago I read a very telling blog about what women consider deal breakers in the bedroom. Some were telling and others were just simply hilariously. Hopefully the fellas can comment some of their sexual deal breakers in the comment section. Here’s a few of the 50 sex deal breakers: 1. “I don’t […]

TheSUNK Isn’t Just a Blogger, He Photographs Beautiful Black Women Too

A photo posted by Lost Ones (@thesunk) on Jan 11, 2015 at 9:09am PST I think it’s time to share the other things I do outside of writing for SBM like keeping my site growing, trying to monetize my interests, looking fly, and critiquing food here in DC. Over the summer I started dabbling […]

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