5 Tips on Choosing the Right Music for Sex

Couple Cuddling in Bed --- Image by © Dann Tardif/LWA/Corbis

Compile a playlist, add a song or two every day. It’s hard to think about 50 songs on the spot, but if you compile songs consistently when the time presents itself, you’ll already be set. Your playlist is a feeling process, so when you hear songs that put you in the mood add them immediately. […]

5 Things Every Artist Needs to Know About Themselves

Photo by theSUNK; Model JamiaLakita

I haven’t penned a post for you guys in awhile. During my time away from the keyboard, I’ve realized a few things about myself and others- I believe we are all artists in our own ways, because every human being is expressive. Coming to the realization or recognizing how we express ourselves is a different topic […]

Can You Upgrade from an Ex?


Is there ever really a such thing as an upgrade or downgrade in dating and if there is what is the criteria for an upgrade? Of course when you break up with an ex, most of us don’t want to see them move on with someone more attractive, more accomplished or with more money- that’s […]

Decriminalize Marijuana in the Bedroom: Which is Better Drunk or High Sex?


You know that most of us believe sex to be one of the greatest wonders this world has had to offer. However, the funny part is that as people we are always in the pursuit of making what we have better. Because we always believe there is a better, like “sex would better, if we tried […]

Part 2: 10 Other Things Black Men Look for in a Wife


 Here’s the second half to 10 Things Black Men Look for in a Wife. This was definitely a long list, but something that’s worth sharing and discussing. I would love for a woman to write a response to this with 20 Things Black Women Look for in a Husband. Sexually Satisfy Does he have sex with […]

Part 1: 10 Things Black Men Look for in a Wife

Happy Newlyweds in Front of Mansion

Are You Wife Material or a Wifey happens to be my third most read post to date on theSUNK.com. Not only do women want to be successful in their careers, but ultimately they want to be boo’d up, to find a man, get married, have great sex and have beautiful children. The last post was said to be vague, and it left some readers more […]

Don’t Sweat Her Over Dessert: Why Women Think Men are Cheap- [Revisited]


*This is a great time to revisit this post, since last Friday Dr. J is advocated taking women you’ve just met for $200 dates. I think you should put more effort into the planning more so than the spending. Read this old goodie about how I think men should view dates.* A few nights ago I was […]

5 PDA Moments You Should’ve Had with Your Valentine This Past VDay


I don’t always talk about myself personally on SBM, most of the time I keep the topics objective. Well, today is about me. I am a very sexual person, most of us are. I am becoming more romantic the older I get. I also do not have a problem with PDA, but my PDA is […]

The Best Grammy Memes: Iggy Azaela Challah Bread Braid, Rihanna’s Pink Prom Dress, Etc


Last night at the Grammy’s there were plenty of things to make memes out of, like Iggy’s atrocious braid-do, Rihanna’s huge pink dress and few other bad fashion choices. Here are some of the best Grammy memes from the weekend:   Iggy OH Iggy…

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5 Cities I’ve Always Wanted to Visit


I figured today I’d depart from the usual talks about sex and dating. It dawned on me that Mardi Gras is quickly approaching, it was definitely something I planned on experiencing. Last month, I searched feverishly on hotel apps and Airbnb for a place to stay, I even convinced a few friends to tag along […]