Have you ever suffered a breakup, and bounced back like round ball? You know that feeling, that tonight’s gonna be a good night you can’t lose. You probably sulked or mourned for a few days/weeks, but soon after you were back on your feet. You got that new job or a raise, started hitting the [...]

I don’t have a big intro today. Honestly, I’m just feeling like lately there are a lot of things that I’ve outgrown and I’m just getting too old to deal with. Here are a few things that come to mind since transitioning to the city that never sleeps: The Club Scene I learned this after [...]

I thought about saving this story for Rantings of a SBM. Then I knew I would write a venomous soliloquy that would bring me ridicule and abundant side-eyes, Then I thought about posting the bane of my current week on Eff Em Fridays, but a recent development which pissed me off exponentially has warranted me [...]

For a long time now, I’ve been the victim of assumption. I’ve noticed a trend that over the past few years, men have conveyed to female friends of mine, whom I’ve only have platonic relations, that they don’t really want/trust them around me. I’ve heard everything from “you can’t write on my facebook wall anymore” [...]

My homegirl Miss Jenkins wrote a post yesterday on Thirsty Chicks…and I ain’t talkin’ lack of H2O consumption. As I laughed heartily at her description of thirsty broads, I thought about my time here in NYC so far and the interactions I’ve had with women in the real world. When I lived in Boston for [...]

****Admin Note**** Go nominate us for a Black Weblog Award. And then go and cop you an official SingleBlackMale.org T-shirt at http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com.  You know you want one! So, I was on the phone with a friend, and after some uncontrollable background laughter … I suddenly found myself watching the BET Awards. ***disclaimer & note*** I [...]

Every now and then I sit down and realize that I suck. I don’t mean that in the depressing “I’ll never be anything!” type of way. I just realized there are some things I’m not good at and will never be good at or I’m already too good at.  SBM wrote a post a while [...]

I wrote a post a while ago on how I hated R&B. I used to feel like it put me to sleep and it was often for the emo. I could barely get through an album in Itunes without having to switch to some upbeat hip hop song with gunshots. Well, maybe not gunshots, but [...]

As many of you know from 3 Ways or my sporadic tweets, I’m in the process of transitioning to NYC for a new gig. This past weekend was spent sorting through piles of paper, clothing, electronics, and general clutter in an effort to prep before the move next weekend.  During the damn near 5 years [...]

**** In DC? Come meet Dr. J tonight! – SBM *** **I’ll be Vlogging/Co-Hosting the web stream of the Modern Day Matchmaker Live in NYC on June 3rd. For more information on who’ll be at the show and how to get tickets, click here. You get a discount if you use the code “3ways“…sans the [...]