Some people say that honesty is the best policy. I completely disagree…usually. Sometimes you really just need to lie your a$$ off. There’s no ifs, ands, or buts about this one. We often make the mistake of asking questions that we really don’t wanna know the answer to. I’ve done it before and ended up [...]

Life is not fair. I mean, bad things happen to good people.  George W got elected to office twice.  Katrina went ahead and f*’d up all kinds of folks for now good reason.  Tsunami’s, war’s in Africa, and children without hands for blood diamonds.  If you think about it … the world is kind of [...]

Noreinne: Hey, I think Marcus from last night is feeling you. Joshilindisha: Who? Nor: You know, the tall dark skin brother from last night? Jo: Girl please? He probably got a kid! Nor: Nope. He has no kids. Jo: Please, so he knows how to use a condom. He probably has commitment issues! Nor: Naw.  [...]

For years I’ve heard from various female friends, my sisters, and other family members that men drive women insane. That we, through our thoughts, words and actions, can cause a brain hemorrhage and force an unsuspecting innocent female to go estupido loco on a dude. To this I yell Shenanigans and Poppycock! In fact, I [...]

Sheronishaquan Jenkins: Um, what are you wearing? Jamal Jenkins: Excuse me? SJ: What is it that you think you are wearing to bed? JJ: The same thing I wear to bed every night. What are you talking about? SJ: Please say out loud what you have on. JJ: Uhhhh … boxers SJ: And what color [...]

As I perused the internets and some of my favorite blogs sites, I saw a recurring theme. Slim Jack spoke on dating down at his home-base.  Max wrote about great guys and how they date “regular chicks”. Seattle WA spoke on women who use their beauty to get ahead. No not THAT way, but maybe? [...]

The bible says that you should be equally yoke with the people you associate with. Most people don’t date outside their race, but that’s changing in 2010. However, are you more willing to date outside of your religion than you used to be? I think so. I think that as people are growing, or as [...]

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Today, I’m writing about a certain type of swindle that occurs between men and women. This swindle rears its head when men/women pursue an individual whom they want to beat those get to know better, but they are otherwise occupied or not interested. They seem to accept residence in the friendship zone, but this is [...]