3 Things About Groupies, Fans, and the Thirsty

Even when they don't know it.

  I was reading the post that my e-cousin, Panama Jackson, wrote for VSB last week on the similarities between the rap and blog hustles. If you haven’t read the post, you should take a look. A reader suggested in the comments that one of the perks of being a male blogger is one that’s [...]

Oh you FANCY huh?!

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***Admin Note: New to our speadshirt site is the offical “Fancy” women tees! If you want to let the world know how fancy you are, or question the next heaux’s fancy style, this shirt is for you! www.singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com – Tell a friend to tell a friend!! – Streetz *** If you’ve heard both The-Dream and [...]

The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness

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So many of us watched the BET Awards. I have to first tip my cap and say it’s probably the best one since the last one with  MJ and James Brown. Speaking of Brown, it was definitely the comeback show, as Chris Brown performed and the THE MJ tribute we all wanted to see. The [...]

Friend: A 4 letter word

Don't you DARE judge me!

Definitions of friend on the Web: a person you know well and regard with affection and trust; ally: an associate who provides assistance; acquaintance: a person with whom you are acquainted The word friend is a term that many of us use very loosely. It seems nowadays that ANYONE can attain that label with a simple “hello”. It [...]

What’s Your Love Language?

This past weekend I got the book thrown at me. No, I didn’t get arrested this time. I’m talking about that “The 5 Love Languages for Singles” book by Gary Chapman. In my perusal of blog world and even this here website, I’ve seen women repeatedly mention these golden scriptures. I guess that would make [...]

The Independent Woman

***** Admin Note ***** Remember … we’re trying to get this award … so take 30 seconds and bless us with a vote … pretty please. And don’t forget to also vote on the new poll.  This is America … exercise your rights! – SBM *********************** Whether it was by circumstance or by choice, we’ve [...]

Propensity to Holla

**** Admin Note **** I am pleased to say the response to my call for writers was greater than expected.  So, starting tomorrow, and lasting probably 2 weeks, I will be having about 3 guest posts a week.  I want criticism, comments, and feedback from all to see who people like.  Email me, comment, be [...]

Freaks, Hoes, and Freaky Hoes …

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Something I have noticed for years and it has annoyed me for all of those years.  Two terms that are often used interchangeably … when they really speak to two different aspects of sexuality. I am here to discuss the difference between a (sexual) freak … and a hoe. *Flashback* SBM: Man … did you [...]

Age Ain’t Nuthin but a Number…Or Is It?

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As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on this earth. In certain areas of life, I feel like I’ve matured at a quicker rate than a lot of the peeps around me. On [...]

Relationship Amnesia

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Jamal: “Uh … hello” Keisha: “Hey baby … how was your day” J: “Why are you calling me?” K: “Your silly … what kind of girlfriend would I be if I didn’t call my man.” J: *silence* K: “So are you gonna tell me about your day?” J: “You have got to be kidding me! [...]