The Problem with Black Men Accusing Their Women of Being “Crazy”

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Today’s post is a Guest Post from a good friend of mine, Ayanna Abrams, Psy. D.  She graduated from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, and is completing a postdoctoral fellowship as a Psychotherapist at Emory University Student Counseling Ctr.  I thought this would be a good way to present this post.  I had long thought about [...]

Street Love: Most and Reecie’s 5 Favorite Hip-Hop Love Songs

When I'm Alone in the Room Sometimes I Stare at the Wall

By its nature, rap music is direct and to the point. Never in the history of recorded music has a genre sprouted up that allowed its artists to speak so concisely their feelings and emotions. This is one of the many reasons why I love rap. While its directness allows rappers the liberty to be [...]

Ugly Girl Swag (Guest Post by NC-17)

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Every man wants the prettiest girl in the room, no one wants the “she’s okay” chick and we damn sure don’t want the ugly chick. The thing about the okay chick is that she’s subjective; some guys may think she’s at the higher end of the Smash spectrum, while more picky guys may put her [...]

For Those Who Think Young [Guest Post by @8plus9]

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My boy hit me up last week, excited that he spent the day chilling with two 20 year old girls who blew his mind. “Yo, they were mad fun, and it was just so easy to talk to them, they weren’t on some fake LA ish”. I asked if he got her number, he replied, [...]

Are you ready for an open relationship? by @Maxfab

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Ever since Mo’Nique started airing her business all over the talk show circuit, the open relationship has been the blogosphere’s most misunderstood and maligned topic. Whenever the subject comes up, the general sentiment is that open relationships are nothing more than a #swindle and a euphemism for “ I have a cheating man”. That men [...]

What makes a man commit?

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**** Admin Note **** The boy Wisdom is Misery is back to supply yet another hot blog.  Be sure to check him out at his blogging home WisdomIsMisery.com. – Streetz ***************** Good morning/afternoon/evening ladies and gentlemen. The last time I wrote for SBM, I talked about Why Men Don’t Commit. Naturally the question I heard most was, [...]

Light-Skinned Girls: The Black Man’s Kryptonite

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***ADMIN NOTE**** Today we got a guest post by the homie @williamhstrafe of SevenEighteen. A funny yet introspective look into black men’s preferences Also, for those of you on Facebook, join/like the SBM Fan Page! An easy way to keep up with our posts, and we will also have exclusive content strictly for Facebook! Sign [...]

Let it burn

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    ******** ADMIN NOTE *********************** #1 Today I step aside to allow for another guest post! So sit back, relax, and enjoy the smooth typings of the kid Tunde! Great blogging perspective on this one! #2 please download my bro @DrJayJack new eBook Free Ass Laundry – The Dr. J mixtape http://bit.ly/D4Z03 Our very own [...]

Fact or Fiction: Do Men drive women crazy?

But baby, it's only a plane ticket. It's not that serious!

For years I’ve heard from various female friends, my sisters, and other family members that men drive women insane. That we, through our thoughts, words and actions, can cause a brain hemorrhage and force an unsuspecting innocent female to go estupido loco on a dude. To this I yell Shenanigans and Poppycock! In fact, I [...]

Post Sex Etiquette

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*****Admin Note**** So today, as Slim aka the “Sandals wearin Bruhz” continues to search the meaning of life through internetial interaction (yes I just made that up), we are blessed to have my current ex gf whom I call for an occasional roll-in-the-hay in my mind, Miss Jenkins from the award-winning threewaystotakeit.com! Enjoy. One Love. [...]