SBM: Man … sometimes I wonder if I will be able to keep the future Mrs. SBM happy.  Will I be a good husband? Old Black Barber: What you talking about young buck? SBM: I’m saying, even with all the information I’m dishing out, I still don’t understand women. They remain batsh*t crazy a mystery. [...]

So many men in life think to themselves that they live to provide for their seed. Whenever you ask a man about his future he always says, “I want to get married when I’m…” What they don’t tell you is, “I want to be a great husband.” Myself, I’ve always wanted to be a great [...]

**** Admin Note **** In order to try out different styles and try and put some people on … we have yet another hot and fresh guest post. Check him out … email me your thoughts or hit me on twitter. -SBM ************* Yohance Brown: I’m feeling you and I think we should make this [...]

I recently had a conversation with a friend of mine that recently got married and another friend that has been living with his fiance for a year.  As we stood in the mall holding our SO’s purses sat at a bar chopping it up about their new lives, both gentlemen expressed their sincere blissful happiness [...]

A few things you should know about SBM (me): I want to get married. I’ve always looked forward to hanging up the jersey and getting out of the game I currently have a girlfriend who is … well … the absolute f*ing greatest. I want to get married.  I know with a name like Single [...]

A symbol of your love.  A symbol of your commitment.  A symbol of the undying love that he holds for her.  Something to be adored … something to be cherished. A colossal waste of money. Yeah … I said it … and every single guy reading this, your dad, his dad, that guy at Kay’s [...]

I have heard people make tha argument that you are never supposed to take of your wedding ring … What! Never take off your wedding ring? Thats craziness. So as a young unmarried bachelor, I have looked into my future and come up with SBM’s list of: When you can take of your wedding ring! [...]

I’m 2X years old. All of my boys are within 1 to 2 years of me if not the same age. Ever since college, there have been jokes and polls on who would be the first to take the plunge into the wonderful world of scary marriage. A few of us have boos and are [...]

We will soon have a Black President.  Young Black Kids and others just in need of motivation … now all have a role model to look up to and emulate.  They can now can see a positive role model and think “Yes I can”. But that’s not all … there is more. The idea of [...]

Chivalry and the “old school way” of dating are hot topics here at SingleBlackMale.net.  Apparently there are a lot of women lurking in the comments section who yearn for the old school chivalry (which is dead) that used to be so prevalent.  They want to reminisce … Well … SBM wants to live in the [...]