Jim: You think Jemima will like this digital picture frame? T-Bone: I’m sure she will…I don’t think her fiance will like that too much… Jim: Oh that…she’s just going through a phase.  She shot me a text the other day to congratulate me on passing the bar.  I know she still loves me. T-Bone: Son…you [...]

In DC, we currently have an epidemic where men are able to NOT talk to women just because there are so many here. If you walk with your hands out of your pocket, chances are you will pick up a woman at the club. Keep in mind, I haven’t said anything about if you want [...]

I didn’t want to make this post, but I had to. I’ve been inundated with so many guys talking about Modern Warfare 2: Call of Duty these days. It’s one of those first person shooter games, like Halo, that guys play for hours. It’s kind of cool because you can play online and play people [...]

***Jesus told me to be easy on Good Friday, so here’s a throwback. Happy Easter and what not…*** No warm and fuzzy intro, let’s sit right down and go to church.  Today’s message from my pulpit is about controlling women.  From my novice observations, there are two types of controlling women.  The first type of [...]

***** Admin Note ***** First and foremost … I want to point everyone to their local newstand where they can get a glimpse of SingleBlackMale.net in the January Issue of Essence Magazine (pg. 62).  Go tell your friends (Shout out to Demetria). Just finished another B-school application and my body is weary.  This is a [...]

We all have found ourselves in situations we didn’t want or need to be in. I’m not talking about the awkward moment when you accidentally talked about backshots in front of your girlfriend’s dad, or the time your boyfriend yelled at you about squirting all over the bedroom without knowing that your church group was [...]

As humans we are driven initially by our sense of vision. As much as some will try and have you believe that looks are a very small determining factor, they are a huge determining factor on if you will ever even approach or allow someone to approach you. I know myself, since I was an [...]

There are several things that men will have to realize women intentionally do and then lie about later. Most men will accept that a girl is naïve or that she is “going through somethings” as a valid excuse for inconsiderate and downright trifling behavior. Most guys need to get it through their thick skulls that [...]

I’m sorry, I am planning on completely switching the game up on y’all so I want to get a couple more oldies but goodies, while I stack the cannon.  This is a FaceBook note of mine from 2008.  I actually think that this holds true every day of a man’s life. Gchat Conversation Miss Jay, [...]

This is a post I wrote a long long time ago (over a year).  Its funny how much I changed in that short time.  I guess that how it goes when your “young” and still open to change n sh*.  Because people have still been commenting on the original, I decided to add in my [...]