Have you ever suffered a breakup, and bounced back like round ball? You know that feeling, that tonight’s gonna be a good night you can’t lose. You probably sulked or mourned for a few days/weeks, but soon after you were back on your feet. You got that new job or a raise, started hitting the [...]

The following chat was re-created with the assistance of one of my boys and is between him and one of his lady friends that hopefully doesn’t read this blog. Real names have been removed to protect the innocent and shady. Kat: Sooo, I may have ODed last weekend… Rich: Did you cheat on Leon? Kat: [...]

***Admin Note*** I’m still running around Europe. Get at me on twitter (twitter.com/SingleBlackMale). – SBM ***************** Shequanita Robins: Baby, I have something to tell you. Jamilerian Jenkins: Sure, anything. By the way, I got a sample of that new Fire & Ice condoms. SR: Well … that actually is a great segway into what I [...]

For a long time now, I’ve been the victim of assumption. I’ve noticed a trend that over the past few years, men have conveyed to female friends of mine, whom I’ve only have platonic relations, that they don’t really want/trust them around me. I’ve heard everything from “you can’t write on my facebook wall anymore” [...]

***Admin Note*** SBM is roaming around Europe right now with a backpack and minimal funds. So … don’t get mad if you don’t see me around.  I’m living life n sh*t. ***************** Ever broke up with someone? Did you do a good job of merging his/her friends and family with yours? Did you figure “there [...]

Men lie. Women lie. Numbers don’t. Unfortunately/fortunately, that’s not the point of today’s post. Miss Jenkins and I actually want to discuss the topic of lying and deceiving others as it relates to each gender. Yes, everyone lies, but we do it for different reasons at varying frequencies about different topics. We got into a [...]

Scenario 1 Baby Girl: Baby … I have something to tell you Tyrone: What’s up love? BG: Well, I know we have only been together a few weeks, but there is something about the past I wanted to tell you. Ty: Ok … but you got me a little scared now. BG: Don’t be scared. [...]

Depending on where you went to high school, college or where you currently live, you probably tend to see the same people of your ilk very often.  This logic would lend itself to the theory that you may have dated or slept with someone that has also dated/slept with someone else you know.  Like “they” [...]

This past Friday was like any other Friday. I was sitting at my desk doing work and counting down the minutes until the weekend. The iPod Touch was going strong and I think I may have been singing some Stylistics track as if nobody else was in my section of the office. Unfortunately for me, [...]

**The following conversation takes place between 3:45 and 3:49** Elliot: Honey, can you pass me a beer? Mercedes: Why don’t you get one of them b*tches to get you a beer… Elliot: Wha…what are you talkin’ about? Mercedes: Them b*tches that you had all up on you @ Joe’s BBQ gettin’ you beers…I saw all [...]