You date someone. You break up (on Facebook). You continue to have sex. You get back together (on Facebook). You keep havin sex. You break up again (on Facebook). The sex stops. This time it’s for good. A few weeks months go by and both of yall are on to your next relationships (on Facebook). [...]

***Admin Note*** I want everyone to welcome back the one and only, Wisdom Is Misery for yet another banger … enjoy. -SBM ************ There is nothing complicated about a man, NOTHING. We are not the cold, calculating, robot-like machines some women seem to think we are and if you happen to fall into that group [...]

As with 75% of my posts, this post was inspired by interactions between me and a female friend of mine. ***sidenote*** Female Friends (that is a female friend of a heterosexual male that you aren’t trying to sleep with and *heres the kicker* wouldn’t sleep with even if given the chance, unless your both drunk [...]

As we celebrate Cinco De Mayo,  I think about patron, cerveza, coronas, and SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS!! Nationwide observance of Mexican heritage.   I know everyone some people like to observe this day with an alcoholic beverage or 2, so I dedicate this post to everyone who likes having a good time with the homie LQ! We all have situations where we’ve had [...]

  “And promoters trying to get me out to they club, And say I have fun but I can’t imagine how, Cause I just see my ex-girl, Standing with my next girl, Standing with the girl that I’m f*ckin right now, And sh*t could get weird unless they all down, And so I stay clear, [...]

The following is a scenario that took place between Shemar and Bernadette over the phone. It is important to note that these 2 have been “talking” for a couple months now. One day, Shemar is driving from Boston to New York and decides to call Bernadette since he hasn’t spoken to her in a couple [...]

The following is the story of an event that transpired between one of my boys and his boo. Hopefully his boo doesn’t read this website. If she does, my bad homie. You told me that I could write about it. Larry lays in bed next to his boo, Estefania, while she reads an urban magazine. [...]

I’ve been told I can be harsh at times.  Apparently there are some people (particularly women) who think that I am hard on the fairer sex. Well I must say … this is simply not true. SBM is a true romantic at heart and loves women.  And I don’t mean that “I’m a playa so [...]

There are plenty of fish in the sea and with a big enough net, you still probably won’t catch them all. If in your travels you come across a school of fish and aren’t able to catch all the fish in your net, do yourself and others a favor, pass that assist. Passing out assists [...]

SBM: “So, I  know you want me to come up stairs with you.” Pretty Young Thang: “You know I can’t do that. Let’s end this night on a positive note.” SBM: “If you let me come up, I promise it will be very positive.” PYT: “It’s only our second date, and your not the type [...]