This is a throwback from earlier this year. It was a letter we received, in situations that we’ve all been through at some point. Enjoy and Happy Holidays! THE EMAIL Streetz, As we get older our networks continue to expand and there’s always a conversation among the fellas about dating inside or outside the circle. [...]
[Single Black Mail] Girlfriend Benefits Without The Girlfriend Title
September 29, 2011 By 157 Comments
The award winning Single Black Mail series returns. This week’s email: I recently ended a relationship with a pretty decent guy. In the months we dated, he has never flaked on a date; never late; introduced me to his core family and I attended most family functions. He was affectionate and always told me how [...]
[Single Black Mail] To have love and lost…
July 27, 2011 By 246 Comments
What’s good everyone, The award winning Single Black Mail series returns and returns in a BIG way! Today we have a classic email for you, one that I think we can all relate to or have heard before. So big, that we will drop the letter, and let the SBMassive assist in the comments, including [...]
[SINGLE BLACK MAIL] Fear of children hinders orgasms in men?!
June 22, 2011 By 105 Comments
What’s going on everyone! I had a post all lined up, but this email came across my desk (you’ll see what I did there soon), and I had to respond! SBM reader community, meet Confused: I have been dating this guy since last November, things are great, the only thing is when we are having [...]
So Your Girl Said My Name While Ya Was Sexin
June 21, 2011 By 77 Comments
“There are three things you need to know about me, One, I believe in God. Two, I ain’t shit without you. And three, most importantly … I ain’t shit without you.” – Lil’ Wayne. And every time, I start writing I think of all y’all who continue to support me and my projects on the [...]
Single Black Mail: Should I break up his marriage?
May 26, 2011 By 89 Comments
Today, we are lucky enough to have another concerned reader with a real world problem looking for guidance and assistance. And as always, my opinion is good … but the real gold and the real advice is going to come from the comments. All of you, what you feel, what you think, and what you [...]
Single Black Mail: How Do I Motivate My Man?
May 16, 2011 By 72 Comments
The Question: I have a question that I would like for you to address in your blog: What motivates a single black male in a relationship to continue to “do the work” besides sex and nagging? lol. Here are the basics of my situation: I am young, single in a 1-year relationship with a wonderful man. I [...]
Breaking Old Habits
May 5, 2011 By 61 Comments
Streetz normally handles the mail, but this letter ended up on my desk for some reason, so let’s see if I can’t shed some light on this situation, given my unique perspective and all: Hello, I would like your thoughts on this situation. Me and my boyfriend are in our mid-thirties. Our relationship is fairly [...]
Single Black Mail: The side chick struggle
April 27, 2011 By 130 Comments
The Email My boyfriend and I are having issues with his inability to be faithful. When he left for work a couple of months ago, I started seeing someone on the side, a jump off if you will. To me there was never any real feeling involved between me and J.O since we didn’t really do much except [...]
Single Black Mail – How to tell potential lovers that you’re a virgin
April 20, 2011 By 150 Comments
The Email Im a 21 year old college student in the South. I’m cute but I’m a virgin and I don’t know how to necessarily tell a guy about my virgin status. I haven’t been in many relationships, and I’m not saving my virginity for marriage just a real relationship no FWB bullshit. But I can’t convey that [...]
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