How Many is Too Many: What’s Your Number?

Whats Your Number

I meant to write about this movie when I first saw it but life happens. In order to keep my G-status intact I will provide a brief explanation on how I came to see this movie in the first place: I set out on my date to watch Killer Elite with Jason Statham, Clive Owens, [...]

When Great Sexual Chemistry Isn’t Such a Great Thing

Is Better Than 12 Steps

  I don’t often write about sex on the blog. For me, it’s the most personal way two people can communicate their feelings to one another and because it’s so personal, I don’t think it’s a topic that should be broached lightly. But as I reflect on my relationship history and how I got where [...]

S*x Ed for Adults & Old S*x in New Relationships

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A few weeks ago I was at this Together Apart event called S*x Ed for Adults. It wasn’t one of those things where I sat there learning how to put on a condom or that babies don’t come from storks. It was real talk amongst experts, panelists, and the audience about sex, the female body, [...]

Should Women Carry Condoms

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Source: National Survey of S*xual & Health Behavior – Indiana University A couple quick statistics before we begin: 1 in 4 people in monogamous relationships reported using condoms 1 in 3 singles reported using condoms So, should women carry condoms? Or do they already? Whose responsibility is it to provide the protection? Why the hell are [...]

Can You Love God & Sex?

I have been trying to figure out what this was billboard was advertising for over a week.

I have a confession to make, the readers really drive content on the site.  As a writer at SingleBlackMale.org, I can tell you most people read a post one time, but they’ll read the comments many times over.  And in our minds we’re able to classify our readers into several categories, so it’s no surprise [...]

Too Pretty to Go Down: The Correlation Between Good Looks and Bad Brain

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This week we had some great posts from the Jacksons (Slim and Dr J). While Slim spoke on the propensity to forgive, Jay pontificated on the marriage rates of the attractively affluent women in this world. So we get to Wednesday and Young Streetz is up to bat. So much material to build upon, and [...]

Women Love S*x, I Think…

Website: http://www.WisdomIsMisery Twitter: @WisdomIsMisery Women put a lot of emphasis on s*x. I’m not here to debate about who thinks about s*x more but I know for a fact that women think more about the intimacy of s*x WAAAY more. For example, I’ve never had a discussion with one of my homeboys about “making love” [...]

Hell of a [S*x] Life

Technically, it *is* Black History Month

Technically, it is Black History Month… **Admin Note – SingleBlackMale.org is all over today, if you are in the D.C. area, Dr. J will be at Park at 14th today for Happy Hour, the event is free before 10PM, details here: http://www.singleblackmale.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/TheBlogSpot_II.jpg.  For those of you in the NYC area, Slim Jackson is at Turtle [...]

Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger

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Everyone wants to talk about how to make sex better.  Four words, in this order, but don’t feel married to it.  Harder, better, faster, stronger.  Trust me, send the person you’re having sex with this article and see how they react.  Their face lights up, woooooooooooooo! Hit it a little harder next time, don’t be [...]

When is s*x really a surprise?

"Really, I just wanted to play crazy eights"

Jolinda Frank: “Wow. That was amazing. I mean … I … I … I am at a loss for words. I think I saw God.” Shawn B. Marks: “Yeah … I know.” JF: *ignores his arrogance because it is so well deserved* “I really wasn’t expecting that.” SM: “Well, I’ve been working on some new [...]