“There’s a difference between telling the truth and being honest.” – My Dad. I’ll tell you a story.  You know I don’t normally do this, so don’t go retweeting this information to the world.  Basically there’s me, a chick I used to talk to, some random “pretty” chick, and… wait a minute I’m not [...]

Depending on where you went to high school, college or where you currently live, you probably tend to see the same people of your ilk very often.  This logic would lend itself to the theory that you may have dated or slept with someone that has also dated/slept with someone else you know.  Like “they” [...]

**** Admin Note **** Don’t forget to cop your official SBM t-shirt and merchandise.  Head on over to http://singleblackmale.spreadshirt.com/ and cop you one. Then go and nominate us for a Black Weblog Awards (right side of the site). – SBM ***************** I own a motorcycle. Many of you might know this already, its is no [...]

**** Admin Note **** I have today yet another great author who has caught the eye of SBM and provided us with something for us to enjoy.  “Wisdom is Misery” aka W.I.M can be found on his regular site, WisdomIsMisery.com.  Enjoy … – SBM ******************** Recently I came across an article on CNN titled, Texting [...]

Any sophisticated gentleman well versed in the art of the climax usually boasts a very strong face game.  They have to possess intangible skills that catapults them into the realm of making women believers and enthusiastic h*ad givers.  During the well publicized drought of good black men, having impeccable linguistic talents will make you more [...]

Urban legends about the sexual experience are as old as time. Ever since Adam tasted Eve’s apple, there have been myths and embellished stories that float around the world about sex. The worse part is some people still believe a lot of these myths! Me being, the man that I am, I decided to post [...]

*** Admin Note *** Today, Tuesday, April 13, 2010, from 530-10pm at Sutra Lounge in Adam’s Morgan at 2406 18th Street NW, Dr. J will be one of several DC-area bloggers hosting a happy hour organized by Elevated Entertainment and Usual Suspectz. Come and finally put a face to Dr. J, support the SBM family, [...]

Look across the great wide internet … and you will find women talking about the chexual capability of men to your left and right. Discussions of girth vs. length vs. “the motion in the ocean” have caused more beef than the Hutu’s and the Tutsi.  Women love to talk about who and what is good [...]

***Admin Note*** Today is the conclusion of our Venting Week.  I know for many of our female readers (and we love ya’ll in a let me get in them guts special way and had no desire to hurt you … but sometimes we gotta let it out.  Thanks for sticking it out … and I’ll [...]

“wanna pretend, like you Ms. Goodie, Four-Shoes, even Bo knew, that you got poked, like acupuncture patients while our nation is a boat, Straight sinkin, I hate thinkin that these the future mommas, of our chillun, they f***** a different n**** every time, they get the feelin to…” (Source: Outkast – Jazzy Belle) Gentlemen, we [...]