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SBM: “Dawg, did you get 22″ rims on your car?” Jerome D: “Yeah son, I had to stunt on em.” SBM: “Stunt on who?” JD: “You know son … the haters!” SBM: *loud sigh* “What haters? Who is hating on you?” JD: “You know, the people who don’t wanna see me riding clean” SBM: “You [...]
****** Admin Note ****** As you can tell, I’ve changed the look and feel of the entire site. There are a lot of reasons for the change, but its not over. As always, I want to hear from any and everybody with thoughts, gripes, and complaints. My email box is always open at sbm@singleblackmale.net -SBM [...]
As men … we are faced with difficult decisions every single day of our existence. Most of them aren’t life changing decisions … but we must carefully navigates this labyrinth of choices in order to successfully make it through the day. Some that come to mind … Are these pants clean enough to wear again? [...]
The title of today’s post is the bullsh*t line most people hear during a break up in between the other bullsh*t lines of “It’s not you, it’s me” and “I’d rather have you as a friend than not in my life at all.” (I just threw up in my mouth a little bit.) Unless one [...]
I remember back in college actually having to convince some of my female friends the club wasn’t a good place to meet their boyfriend. To me … I was shocked that I had to actually argue this point. I thought it was clear to everyone that the club was for finding one night stands, jumpoffs, [...]
***Admin Note: This is a throwback, but I feel like saying this again. Copy this into an email and send to all of your boys and tell them to send to their girlfriends immediately. Football is back. Amen. I’m not even asking for women to comment about how they like football too, that’s cool, but [...]
There’s never an easy way to let someone down, which is why people classically tip toe around the truth to “let them down easy”. In the workplace, it’s never easy to criticize a co-worker/superior/employee, but in the interest of running a lucrative operation, you have to deliver the news. In between the sheets however, it’s [...]
I was sitting one night on my balcony enjoying the lake and sipping on a night cap. The exact thought process leading me to my next though is irrelevant … but I soon found myself reliving a memorable scene from college … SBM: “You don’t do what?” Anomaly: “I don’t give head” SBM: “You don’t [...]
It is no secret here that SBM loves “ignorant rap” music (I wish a mother f*****r would try to judge me too … lol). I have even decided to share my vast knowledge with the world in my “Moments Of Ignorance” posts … there is a dark side to all this … a very dark [...]
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