“There must be more good women than men percentage-wise, So her chance of having a husband just minimized, Thats why a lot of girls claim they aren’t into guys, And mess with other girls part time to improvise”  (Source: Kanye West – Doing Girls Wrong)
Girl-on-Girl action, made from the best stuff on earth. Most men [...]

For about four months of my life I’ve been planning to attend the Urban Model Awards in Atlanta, GA. I have a friend down in Atlanta who continues to tell me that my excitement over attending this event is just a sign of the ignorance of my youth.
Child please.
I have been conditioned from birth to [...]

The one thing that bothers me in the Blogworld is Female Conspiracy Theorists, women who believe that everything is some game or that every man is out for something. Quite frankly, we’re not, we don’t care that much and we don’t have time for games. Experience tells us that if it walks like a duck, [...]

To date, the terms; Gold Digger, Groupie and Jumpoff have been thrown around local nightclubs and social circles way too loosely. It would surprise you that most people can’t really define any of the terms. Most people say that it’s like porno, “I can’t tell you what it is, but I know when I see [...]

It can be extremely difficult to find the man of your dreams these days. And even still, finding him is the easy part, you’ve got to win him over too. It was once said, “You need to look in the mirror, maybe you’re not your type’s type.” Your friends may not be helpful either. I [...]

I was chatting with a few of my peoples recently about relationship dynamics and the importance of communication. A lot of folks out there would say that communication is one of the top three most important aspects of a relationship, if not the most important of all. I place communication right behind sex as most [...]

Let it be known that this is the fourth draft of my Latino Heritage Month post. It’s so many things I could write. I first wrote a post that had a lot to do with history and things, but I squeezed that one. Then I wrote a post about why Latina over Black, I didn’t [...]

I fux with this…and not cuz of her complexion.

I tend to think that I’m a simple man. I don’t ask for or look for too much when it comes to the appearance of women. Like most of you, I just want to date someone that I find attractive and avoid drama and tomfoolery. Granted, that’s [...]

This is the fifth installment in six.  I would be remissed if I didn’t give you one more real talk session before the conclusion of the series next week.  (I actually wrote 8, and then decided not to post this one, but you know what, let her rip!)  So this conversation is always had, why [...]

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Happy Friday SBM Community!
Lately the sex and relationship topics around the internets have been super serious (no shots). I’m currently on vacation and took time to appreciate a lot of things in my life while gettin it in overseas and domestically like drinking and [...]