Fine Female Acquaintance: You know its just so hard to find a good man. SBM: *heavy sigh* Why do you say that? FA: It’s just hard to find a guy who just isn’t intimidated by me. SBM: You out here hitting reggins (backwards) in the throat? FA: *blank stare* No … SBM: You out here [...]

1. Excessively Drunk Women – When I was a boy I thought a group of drunk women was the move. When I go to the club now and see a chick throwing up in the bathroom, I get repulsed. Who’s mans is this?! 2. All the way turned up – Why I can hear you [...]

Arguments are a reality in any relationship.  There are different classes of power struggles that occur, and it seems that at some point every issue a couple has will be contested. Do we ever stop and say “why do we argue about everything?” or “Is what upsets me really that important?” Picking and choosing your [...]

We spend a lot of time talking and discussing about the good.  What makes a good man?  How to find a good woman?  What makes you toes curl, eyes roll back into your head, and the Lord’s name to come out of your mouth s*xual relations good? But … what good is the good without [...]

Although a lot of women don’t agree with me, seduction is a 2 way street. Yes … courtship (now) goes both ways. Just as he is wining and dining you, watching Desperate Housewives with you, and putting up with your cackling and annoying female friends … any woman looking to earn the coveted “wifey” title [...]

Jay told us that “30 is the new 20″.  Well, Ms. Andrew’s want’s you to know that “B*tch is the New Black”. The Washingtonpost.com interviewed the author of a new relationship book coming out, and like 6 people sent me the link.  Helena Andrews talks about “B*tch is the New Black” and recants horror stories [...]

****** Admin Note ****** Slim decided to take a vacation from blogging for a week (I think it’s BS too … feel free to throw rocks at him in the street), so we have the resident female making a comeback … Lisa Marie – SBM **************************** When I’m in a relationship with someone, I sometimes [...]

The club is a harsh environment. It’s hot, it’s loud, it’s crowded … and on top of all that you’re trying to get some one night love make a lasting connection with someone. Enter the mind of … a guy In most cases you are bombarded with gorgeous women.  Girls who would be a 4 [...]

Hello [Dr.J], I am a 24 yr old latina, raised in atlanta. [I love SBM and need some advice]. Ok, so ive been “dating” this guy for almost a year, we met at a bar one night and have been talking since. He has two kids, and did not have a job at that time. [...]

Here at SBM.net we get a lot of emails … a very very healthy amount! Since we offer one of the few places in the whole wide internet where a woman can ask some men a question, and get an honest answer without us trying to smash you off later … we draw many looking [...]