She Got Body Part 2: You With All Those “Curves”…

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 Share on Tumblr This is part two of the “She Got Body” series here on SBM. Part one was last week and covered the topic of women who were late bloomers and became “finer” as they got older. Give that a look here. This week I wanted to speak on a different aspect of body […]

Another Dysfunctional Dating Story

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 Share on Tumblr I will be the first to say that dating is difficult. It’s stressful. As the woman, you have to make sure your hair is on point, nails done, and that what you wear is flattering. You have to worry about what to talk about, how much to disclose, and depending on what […]

She Got Body: Back Then They Didn’t Want Me…

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 Share on Tumblr “She Got Body” is a three part series I’m beginning today. In this series I’ll give one black man’s opinion on different topics concerning body image in today’s society. Throughout the series I’ll do my damnedest to be sensitive to most feelings. I can’t please everyone, but I think there are some […]

How to Create Romantic Date for Women Who Love Their Phones

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 Share on Tumblr Girls do love extraordinary steps and non-traditional approaches to dating. If you know how to perform them and organize a perfect date, you will become a hero in her eyes and will be given as many points, as possible. But how to start? The point is to look at your girlfriend’s inner […]

Why You Shouldn’t Believe In Happy Endings

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 Share on Tumblr “Dear Karen, I’ve been thinking about Us, the story of us. How the fuck do I sum it up? Has it been perfect? Hardly. Any story with me at the center of it will never be anything less than a big smiling mess. But here’s what I know for sure—our time in […]

Don’t Sweat Her Over Dessert: Why Women Think Men are Cheap- [Revisited]

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 Share on Tumblr *This is a great time to revisit this post, since last Friday Dr. J is advocated taking women you’ve just met for $200 dates. I think you should put more effort into the planning more so than the spending. Read this old goodie about how I think men should view dates.* A few nights […]

Enough Already: If You Can’t Afford To Date Then Just Don’t Date

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 Share on Tumblr Y’all really intending on this never ending debate about $200 dates and plane tickets, aren’t you? That’s my reaction each time I see the Twitter timeline begin a discussion about if there is actually a preferred or correct range that one should spend on a date. I must say it is very […]

Do Men Need To Show More Affection?

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 Share on Tumblr Men and affection will always be a topic of conversation. The relationship between how we show affection and our age group plus societal influences will always have it’s relevance. Recently I read a tweet from a young lady I follow on Twitter. I consider her to be a pretty sharp girl and […]

Fellas, STOP Being Thirsty In The Club

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 Share on Tumblr It’s over ladies and gentlemen, it’s all over. NYC is getting back to normal after an eventful NBA All Star Weekend. It was personally fun for me being that I was about eight years old the last time New York hosted the All Star game. The plan for my weekend was simple. […]

No Valentine? NO PROBLEM!

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 Share on Tumblr It’s that time of year again. Tweets of bitterness of conversations of $200.00 dates can only mean one thing! It is Valentine’s Day season. Three days from you reading this I am anticipating that you’ll be occupied exactly how you wish to be. Valentine’s Day is arguably one of the most polarizing […]