How Leaked Nudes Have Changed The Game For The Worse

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 Share on Tumblr Leaked nudes have hurt the game more than the abundance of stretch “4′s” in the NBA. For anyone not into basketball simply ignore that. But leaked nudes aren’t a new thing. When nudes of famous people were leaked in the past it was sort of special. Not in a sacred way, but […]

How Do We Help The Friend That Won’t Listen?

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 Share on Tumblr By now you’ve heard about this little pop tart moment Chris Brown had on Monday. If you’re not familiar, take a quick look a  post on Madame Noire here. In a nutshell the ladies of the talk show “The Real” on Fox were having a roundtable discussion about  what they called “inter-friend-tions.” […]

What Is With Female Marriage Proposals?

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 Share on Tumblr Blurred gender roles are a norm in today’s day and age. Most of us want equality for both sexes in all facets of life. Ideally, this would be the case. The truth is that for this to be, there will be some resistance in some instances. For instance we have today’s subject […]

What Is Marriage Material?

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 Share on Tumblr The love bug seems to have been striking like a “motha” and it’s definitely a good look. I can’t remember a time when the celebration of nuptials and the celebration of pregnancies were almost congruent. What people have been complaining about for years might be getting satisfied. For years now on social […]

Can You Let A Man Down Easy?

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 Share on Tumblr We’ve all been there. We have all had to tell someone that we weren’t interested. Whether it be we weren’t interested in being in a relationship or being more than platonic friends. It’s a compromising position. To the majority of us who don’t want to intentionally hurt someone, we spend time trying […]

Are you standing in the way of being happy?

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 Share on Tumblr A close friend of mine who lives in Atlanta said to me during my last trip there that women sometimes don’t know how to be happy. I don’t think that statement only pertains to women because there are men in that conversation too. I asked myself that same question this week because […]

MELD Dating App Review: A Changing of the Guard For Urban Professional Dating

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 Share on Tumblr For the last few years my area of dating and relationships that I have been most intrigued by is mobile dating applications. They just seem to fascinate me. Online dating is a fascination of mine too. One that I’ve spent extensive time researching but once there was the ability to do it […]

“Clean” Living: Why Losing Isn’t Always Winning

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 Share on Tumblr Being in shape or “fit” is what’s hot right now. Well in truth, it’s always been hot. The exposure of the fit lifestyle however is at an all time high. In this viral world in which we live we can’t escape the visuals of it. At a time it was your magazines […]

The Singles Project : We Aren’t Always Who We Think We Are

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 Share on Tumblr The Singles Project is a new reality show on Bravo. It follows six people from different backgrounds on their dates. It’s all about the proverbial quest to find the right one. I happen to think that through this exercise the hope is that the cast finds out more about themselves too. Today’s […]

Relationships And Relocating, Are You Here For It?

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 Share on Tumblr The older we get the more dimensions are entered into dating. It seems as if when you have all the answers the dating Gods change the questions. I’m a resident of Brooklyn, NY. One of if not the most expensive city to live in, in the United States. New York City is […]