Love or Lust: A Few Dating Sites You Should Check Out

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YourTango recently listed six dating apps/sites that’ll show off your confidence. The article is geared toward the ladies (in tone), but this could be applicable to the fellas too…since no dating happens if men aren’t there to turn the digital into digits into dates into pokey. There are some familiar and unfamiliar (for me at […]

Are Men Responsible For Round 2 in the Bedroom?

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Most times when I begin to write, I listen to a song or two just to get my mind right. Today the ipod was on shuffle and “Tap Out” comes on. How fitting, right? Maybe it’s more ironic considering today’s discussion. Last week I wrote a post entitled “Ladies, This Can be Why Round 2 […]

Can You Actually Breakup With Someone When You’re Not In A Relationship?

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I always found this funny… when you date a girl, never actually get in a titled relationship, stop talking to one another and then she says how hard your break up has been on her. As a guy, insensitive or not, we’re just like… “WE WERE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU CANNOT BREAK UP WITH […]

Possession With Intent: How To Submit for the Sake of Love

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That devastating moment when you get caught for Possession with Intent. You thought you were gonna enjoy recreational use of a woman’s romantic and sexual energies, and keep your freedom at the same damn time.  Or maybe, as a woman, you enjoyed the financial attention a man paid you, in denial of the fact that […]

18 Annoying & Ugly Truths About Modern Dating

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By Christopher Hudspeth 1. The person who cares less has all the power. Nobody wants to be the one who’s more interested. 2. Because we want to show how cavalier and blasé we can be to the other person, little psychological games like ‘Intentionally Take Hours Or Days To Text Back’ will happen. They aren’t fun. 3. A person being […]

Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2″ Doesn’t Happen

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Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s where a guy […]

Picky or Patient: What Type of Dater Are You?

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Nitpick- adj. Overly critical, esp. on trivial matters; focused on only trivial aspects Patient- adj. Quietly and steadily persevering or diligent, especially in detail or exactness Throughout the period of time that we date, we turn down many. Some people in our eyes are completely out of the question. Others might really be on the […]

6 Reasons Men Don’t Ask Women About STD’s

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By Chocolate Vent In my 30+ years of living no man has ever asked me whether or not I have been tested for a sexually transmitted disease (STD), let alone if I actually have one. Can you believe that? I mean it’s not like I’ve had sex with a bunch of different men or anything, […]

Have Blurred Gender Roles Pushed Men Away From Commitment?

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About four years ago, I took a gender psychology course in undergrad. My term paper was based on how gender roles of women have changed between the 1950′s and present day. During this period of time women have made amazing strides. They’ve grabbed the bull by the horns and fought for equal opportunity. This fight […]

Relationship Rules in 2014? Yeah, right – Here’s Why You Can Ditch Relationship Rules

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A few weeks back Gee Hooks penned a good piece on why people are subscribing to relationship guidelines that don’t work for them. I commented on that post saying, “I think it’s a certain type of person who thinks that they have to subscribe to the popular thought about relationships, marriages and good/bad significant others… […]