What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like

Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]

The Funniest #DrakeAlwaysOnBeat Memes You Need To See!

Last night, Drake released the visual to his hit song “Hotline Bling“, and the internet went insane. Some were in a frenzy over Dram’s declaration that Drake’s single is a rip off of “Cha Cha”. Others were in tears over the variety of dance moves that Drake put on display. Drake has been both a […]

Another Year Goes By and I’m Feeling Fine

I pen this post at least once a year and typically it posts around my birthday. It’s my annual reminder to everyone who is celebrating a birthday and also dealing with the slight depression of missed goals and deadlines that we should all calm down. The fact of the matter is that life’s goals don’t […]

Debunking The Myth Of Doom For Single Black Women

  Unmarried, accomplished black women are an anomaly to mainstream America. Not unmarried white women or asian women or light-skinned Latinas. Just the black ones. So self-help articles are written, listing the things that these sorts of women should do to catch a man, providing examples of relationships that “beat the odds” to encourage them […]

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Are Straight Men Confused By Transgender Women?

“Men are only upset at transgender women because they are confused as to if they should be attracted to them.” Talk about a mouth full right? It was only a week ago that I said the beauty of life is the ability to have great debates and discussions. In the interim, we now have a […]

She Got Body Part 2: You With All Those “Curves”…

This is part two of the “She Got Body” series here on SBM. Part one was last week and covered the topic of women who were late bloomers and became “finer” as they got older. Give that a look here. This week I wanted to speak on a different aspect of body image that is […]

What The Failure to Indict Darren Wilson Means to Us

Over the past few months there has not been a lot of discussion on the Michael Brown case in Ferguson but today I wanted to put something out to provide a forum for discussion. Also to inform our readers where we as blog, bloggers and most of all Black men stand on this issue. I […]

Buzzfeed Says This Is “What Men Are Really Saying When Catcalling Women”

The other day, I heard about this video but I didn’t watch it. Not that i’m not interested in the discussion around street harassment because I am. But because there’s a ton of videos from various sources coming out every other day and it’s a lot to keep up with. Without further adieu, here’s the […]

5 Questions To Lead You To Happiness In Love

I believe that the secret to happiness is looking within. I received some advice from an old friend once that said, “You can’t ask anyone to love you if you don’t love yourself.” For a while, I tried to answer questions about why I couldn’t find something that clicked with me. I found that I […]

10 Reasons Why Your Life is Over at 29 and Begins at 30

Many of our friends are beginning to stress out about the idea that they’re turning 30 soon. Having already passed that threshold, I’m totally over it. Honestly, my life went from good to great when I turned 30. So, I jotted down a list of reasons why it’s better at 30 than it was in […]