Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

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 Share on Tumblr The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you […]

A Guide To First Date Conversations For Men

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 Share on Tumblr This past weekend I had a date night and went to go see “Top Five.” I t was a good time, and the movie fascinated me for a few reasons. None of those reasons really correlate with this post. So maybe another time we’ll get into that. More importantly I’m here to […]

Overnight Visitor: Make Your Home Feel Like Her Home, For the Night

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 Share on Tumblr True players are always prepared for overnight visitors. They know that if the date goes well they have to make their visitor feel at home. The goal is to make her never want to leave. Leaving should be out of necessity, not out of want or desire. When she’s over your house […]

Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life […]

The Bachelor’s Guide to Home Organization

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 Share on Tumblr Women love it when a man is on top of his life. There’s nothing sexier than a guy who has it together and pulls off everything he does with a sense of style. That doesn’t mean you have to keep a white tux in the back of your closet or grow a […]

You Are Appreciated: A Letter to Black Women

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 Share on Tumblr Dear Ladies: I depend a lot on current events and hot topics to help put together the pieces that I write. A lot of inspiration I have comes from conversations with people. The second source of inspiration is probably from things going on in social media.  At the core of all of […]

Another Chris Brown and Karrueche Split, Airing Exes Out On Social Media

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 Share on Tumblr I wonder how many times Karrueche’s name was misspelled over the weekend, I searched for the correct spelling and I still feel as though I’m spelling it wrong. Anywho, Chris Brown and Karrueche split for the 1000th time. It seems like this might finally be the end of this messy relationship, whether they stay together […]

6 Dos and Don’ts for Dating During The Holiday Season

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 Share on Tumblr The holiday season is officially here! If you’re currently dating or in a new relationship, this may be the first holiday you’ll be spending with your partner. Although that’s really exciting, I’m sure there are some looming concerns in your mind. It’s my prayer that the following holiday dos and don’ts will […]

Can Men Ever Successfully Call Women Out?

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 Share on Tumblr Recently I read a Facebook status in which a guy was speaking in retrospect. The following I’ll be pretty much paraphrasing. The man goes on to say that he was curved for being too sophisticated and nice. he says that the man that the woman eventually curved him for was less sophisticated […]

Our Flaky Generation: Why Is It So Acceptable to Cancel Plans?

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 Share on Tumblr I hate flakey people. You can even say I despise flakey a** people. For the sake of conversation I’ll define what exactly a flake is, a frequently unreliable person who says that they will do something or attend something, but never shows. Usually this is done without notice.” [urban dictionary]. So Saturday, I posted […]