Are You Worthy Of Being Committed To?

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 Share on Tumblr There’s a funny irony when you’re a writer who enjoys writing about relationships and dating. How could someone with all these wide perspectives still be a “single black male?” I’ve always thought that if you’re in the business of sharing perspective then it’s all good. Like Charles Barkley says, “There are no […]

She Got Body Part 3: Is There A Line Between Thick And “Fat?”

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 Share on Tumblr So about two months ago I was heavily into a reality show on Lifetime called “Big Women, Big Love.” I was fascinated by it and many of you who follow my work know my interest in alternative reality shows. This show examined the plight of plus sized women which the world would […]

14 Crucial Things Black Women Look For In A Husband

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 Share on Tumblr In response to the 10 things black men look for in a wife. A couple weeks ago, singleblackmale.org created a list of Ten Things Black Men Look for in a Wife. And then they followed it up with a part two, adding 10 more attributes and opening the challenge for women to chime […]

She Got Body Part 2: You With All Those “Curves”…

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 Share on Tumblr This is part two of the “She Got Body” series here on SBM. Part one was last week and covered the topic of women who were late bloomers and became “finer” as they got older. Give that a look here. This week I wanted to speak on a different aspect of body […]

Another Dysfunctional Dating Story

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 Share on Tumblr I will be the first to say that dating is difficult. It’s stressful. As the woman, you have to make sure your hair is on point, nails done, and that what you wear is flattering. You have to worry about what to talk about, how much to disclose, and depending on what […]

She Got Body: Back Then They Didn’t Want Me…

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 Share on Tumblr “She Got Body” is a three part series I’m beginning today. In this series I’ll give one black man’s opinion on different topics concerning body image in today’s society. Throughout the series I’ll do my damnedest to be sensitive to most feelings. I can’t please everyone, but I think there are some […]

Part 2: 10 Other Things Black Men Look for in a Wife

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 Share on Tumblr Here’s the second half to 10 Things Black Men Look for in a Wife. This was definitely a long list, but something that’s worth sharing and discussing. I would love for a woman to write a response to this with 20 Things Black Women Look for in a Husband. Sexually Satisfy Does he have […]

In Bed with a BOSS: How to date a WERKing Woman

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 Share on Tumblr In the last few years, the number of female Entrepreneurs has grown tremendously. Women are no longer waiting in the wings for opportunity to find them, they’re out in the forefront of major corporations, building their own empires and taking the world by storm. So where does that leave their male counterparts? […]

The Best Gift Ideas For Him in 2015

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 Share on TumblrHow difficult can it be to come up with an interesting gift for a loved one? Unlike women, men are easier to please as far as gift giving is concerned. They’re not picky and they usually value things they can actually use. The best gifts for a guy are practical but of fine […]

How to Create Romantic Date for Women Who Love Their Phones

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 Share on Tumblr Girls do love extraordinary steps and non-traditional approaches to dating. If you know how to perform them and organize a perfect date, you will become a hero in her eyes and will be given as many points, as possible. But how to start? The point is to look at your girlfriend’s inner […]