Who Decides What “Making Love” Is?

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 Share on Tumblr It’s Monday night, and we are in the midst of a big time snow day here in the northeast. That’s right, if you reside in a city in this vicinity then your city will be cuff city for a couple days. What better time to have a little fun with this topic. […]

Over 50 Women Confess Their Sex Deal Breakers

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 Share on Tumblr A couple weeks ago I read a very telling blog about what women consider deal breakers in the bedroom. Some were telling and others were just simply hilariously. Hopefully the fellas can comment some of their sexual deal breakers in the comment section. Here’s a few of the 50 sex deal breakers: […]

The Death Of Cheap Dates: Why We Should Appreciate Dates In 2015

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 Share on Tumblr   This post today is partially inspired by Dr. J. About a week ago he let off a series of tweets about dating. I won’t quote them all but the gist of the tweets are that none of us should be caught complaining about someone being cheap. His stance was that if […]

TheSUNK Isn’t Just a Blogger, He Photographs Beautiful Black Women Too

 Share on Tumblr A photo posted by Lost Ones (@thesunk) on Jan 11, 2015 at 9:09am PST I think it’s time to share the other things I do outside of writing for SBM like keeping my site theSUNK.com growing, trying to monetize my interests, looking fly, and critiquing food here in DC. Over the summer […]

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Are Non-Threatening Women More Attractive to Women?

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 Share on Tumblr Before you read this post it’s important that you understand that I find everything that Lil’ Duval says to be ridiculous. I haven’t heard everything he’s said but he made some jokes once about domestic violence and I placed him a box from which he will never return. The name of that […]

Can Great Chemistry Not Be Enough?

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 Share on Tumblr You’ve heard most of us writers who give our ideas on relationships speak ad nauseam about having requirements. “What do you look for in someone?” It’s all too common in conversation. I’m of the thought that seeking good chemistry should be at the top of most people’s lists. If anything, it should […]

4 Good Things About Break Ups

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 Share on Tumblr Some people view break-ups like they are the end of the world. Friends console you as you mope around for a good three to four months, but everything isn’t so bad about cutting your loses and calling it quits. Here’s ‘Four Good Things About Break-Ups': 1. It’s a Relief You ever break […]

Is The Goal Of A Relationship Marriage?

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 Share on Tumblr Over the last few weeks I’ve been asked a lot about marriage and my responses have caught a few people off guard. I thought that would make for interesting conversation on SBM and many other outlets. Simply put, is there really a reason why we should all set our relationship goals on […]

The New Marriage Model

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 Share on Tumblr Tomorrow’s post is going to be about my belief that people should no longer feel pressure to marry. I think marriage has it’s place in society but I also think that it’s time that we start accepting other paths to happiness. Before I jump into that tomorrow I want to share a recent […]

Why Men Should Enjoy The Holiday Offseason

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 Share on Tumblr Happy new year to everyone, and one time for Stuart Scott! I hope everyone had an enjoyable break or semi-break. I happened to thoroughly enjoy mine minus a couple of nonsensical events. But what’s a holiday season without those right? So now we’re in January and the dust is settled. For the […]