5 Questions To Lead You To Happiness In Love

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I believe that the secret to happiness is looking within. I received some advice from an old friend once that said, “You can’t ask anyone to love you if you don’t love yourself.” For a while, I tried to answer questions about why I couldn’t find something that clicked with me. I found that I […]

Trouble With The Swirl: My Boyfriend Was Ashamed Of Me Because I’m Black

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I learned that love isn’t blind the hard way. “I didn’t think you’d want to know.” This was how my boyfriend of three years told me that he was leaving me for a different girl. A white girl. As I watched him struggle with what to say, I remembered that I had seen them together around campus […]

What’s Behind Twitter’s Obsession With Eating “Cake”?

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You know, it’s said that we live in a microwave society. We are trendy. We want instant gratification. I’m sure we’re conditioned to be that way at this point. At least in small doses we all have a little microwave society in us. This day I examine a small part of what’s hot in the […]

Foul or Fair? Trey Songz’s new song and music video ‘Foreign’

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  Trey Songz has a new single and music video and it’s poised to stir up some controversy. Not many of us are surprised to see Trey Songz surrounded in a music video by scantily clad racially ambiguous women but you may be surprised by the lyrics of the song. A friend of mine sent […]

Can an Accent Make a Person More Attractive?

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When we think about attraction we talk about looks such as “how tall?” or “how thick?” or other things that may paint a picture about a man or woman. However, how a person talks and sounds can turn you on or off, it all depends on what you’re attracted to. Nothing gets women more turned […]

5 Signs Your Summer Fling Is Ending

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If you’ve reached this point in the summer and your fling hasn’t turned into a relationship then it’s probably a sure tell sign that it’s ending. That’s nothing to worry about many of us didn’t want it to go any further anyway. However, for some of us we’re wondering what ways we can tell whether […]

Does Someone Deserve To Be Cheated On?

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“Maybe this might sound rude. I’m Taken but I want you.”  Trey Songz – “Cake” This is certainly a predicament many have been in. The above quote references Trey simply being greedy. That’s why the track is coined “Cake.” Today’s post isn’t about cheating for cheating sake. Today’s post is about my thoughts on our […]

5 Phrases Women Use to Initiate Sex

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There’s a misconception that men never turn down sex or that we’re horny all the time. From my experience, women are just as horny if not hornier most of the time than men. Not to mention they have just as much game to get the pipe, as you think you do to get the panties. […]

5 Signs They Haven’t Really Broken Up

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It’s really confusing when you’re trying to establish something with someone who hasn’t quite moved on past their last relationship. At times, they haven’t even broken up with the person they’re dating. They just begin another situation with you hoping for some type of lateral move in the future. This is confusing and whether this […]

The Basics: Achieving the Best Communication in Your Relationship

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Right place + Right time x Right force = Best Communication Ever There is a right way and wrong way to communicate in relationships. I also believe that there is a right place to communicate, a right time to communicate and a right force to communicate your words to your mate. Mastering this formula can […]