Can You Let A Man Down Easy?

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We’ve all been there. We have all had to tell someone that we weren’t interested. Whether it be we weren’t interested in being in a relationship or being more than platonic friends. It’s a compromising position. To the majority of us who don’t want to intentionally hurt someone, we spend time trying to find the […]

Did You Leave Your Panties at Home?: The Lost Art of Flirting

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How can you be hard to get, if you don’t know how to flirt? Flirting incites the chase. If flirting is essential to dating, then it is not men’s fault if they do no court or date you, it’s yours. It is your fault if all they talk about is sex or are overbearing. Flirting […]

Are you standing in the way of being happy?

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A close friend of mine who lives in Atlanta said to me during my last trip there that women sometimes don’t know how to be happy. I don’t think that statement only pertains to women because there are men in that conversation too. I asked myself that same question this week because I’m starting to […]

Are Pregnancies Always To Be Celebrated?

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The title of this posts probably made an “uh oh” go off in your head. Pregnancy can be a touchy subject. It can be touchy especially in where this post will go today. It can be easily thought to be judgmental by some but I promise you nothing of the sorts. I have a story […]

The Secret Lives of Men

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This following was written by Kelly Marceau: I know a secret about men most of you don’t. Why do I know this little secret? Men talk to me. Most of my friends are males and they tell me everything. And, I mean EVERYTHING. A lot of men don’t know how to be honest about who they […]

Four Reasons Why Men Should Manscape

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Manscaping is sort of a new concept, I don’t think our Pops and Uncle’s were standing around speaking about shaving their pubes. However, this is SBM and we’re going to discuss it today. Here are my four reasons why every man should manscape: Grooming is Important Someone in the bible said it best “cleanliness is […]

Three Ways To Combat Your Relationship Insecurities

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When you find the one you feel like you’ve been waiting for all your life, it’s not surprising that you’d want to hold on tight. Your relationship is something that should be cherished, and you’re likely wary of anything that could harm it or take it away from you. But sometimes, the person in the […]

MELD Dating App Review: A Changing of the Guard For Urban Professional Dating

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For the last few years my area of dating and relationships that I have been most intrigued by is mobile dating applications. They just seem to fascinate me. Online dating is a fascination of mine too. One that I’ve spent extensive time researching but once there was the ability to do it on your phone; […]

“Clean” Living: Why Losing Isn’t Always Winning

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Being in shape or “fit” is what’s hot right now. Well in truth, it’s always been hot. The exposure of the fit lifestyle however is at an all time high. In this viral world in which we live we can’t escape the visuals of it. At a time it was your magazines and commercials. Then […]

How to Tell a Woman She’s Bad in Bed

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The funny thing about sex is that people think a woman can’t be wack in bed. Every time sex is wack the finger always gets pointed at the man. That’s why it’s so much pressure on men to perform in the sack. It’s even more pressure when you’re a sex-blogger. But hey women can be […]