Tough Love: A Black Woman’s Open Letter To Hip-Hop

This past Monday Vh1 aired a special called “Out in Hip-Hop” which basically was an open forum on what it means to be gay in today’s Hip-Hop culture. During this special DMC of Run DMC stated, “In Hip-Hop we disrespect the hell out of our women, so what do you think they’ll do to a […]

You Ruined the Fatty: The 21st Century Version of The Star Bellied Sneetches

I intended on writing about something related to relationships today. I really and truthfully did. Like most times when I sat down to write the article I found myself distracted and on Twitter. Then, I was distracted and on Instagram. Somewhere in between all of the distractions I found a way to have intellectual conversation […]

What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like

Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]

Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse

Cheaters need to heal too, right? Jeff assists a young man get over his regrets in the latest Single Black Mail Episode 3: Cheaters Remorse: #SBMail

Single Black Mail Episode 2: Friends With Benefits

Jeff J. tackles friends with benefits in Single Black Male Episode 2: Friends With Benefits #SBMail

Around-the-Net: 7 Things to Send Her Instead of an Unsolicited Peen Pic

We hear a lot of women talking about receiving photographs of wrinkled sausage in their inboxes, and unsurprisingly, most of them don’t seem to be very happy about it. Some women post them in their GroupMe’s and laugh about it with their girlfriends, others send scathing texts to the gross culprits, and the unnamed few […]

Single Black Mail Episode 1: “The Rekindle”

For years, we’ve answered readers questions via email and posted them on the site in hopes of helping our fellow readers, and anyone really, with any dating/relationship issues they face. Following the enormous digital media wave, we thought it would be natural to progress to video! Allow us to introduce the inaugural episode of the digital […]

Another Year Goes By and I’m Feeling Fine

I pen this post at least once a year and typically it posts around my birthday. It’s my annual reminder to everyone who is celebrating a birthday and also dealing with the slight depression of missed goals and deadlines that we should all calm down. The fact of the matter is that life’s goals don’t […]

5 Tips on Choosing the Right Music for Sex

Compile a playlist, add a song or two every day. It’s hard to think about 50 songs on the spot, but if you compile songs consistently when the time presents itself, you’ll already be set. Your playlist is a feeling process, so when you hear songs that put you in the mood add them immediately. […]

Why People Can’t Stand Relationship “Experts”

The man above is the well known Tony Gaskins. He recently sat down with Madame Noire for an interview. Madame Noire is a site that I frequent because of all the thought provoking content. This time around was no different as the subject matter got  the people buzzing. Feel free to watch the full interview […]