3 Things Men Get Wrong with Women That We Need to Stop

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Tweet I think it’s important that we realize that a lot of the behavior that goes on between both genders is predicated on the simple premise that it’s allowed. Just like most women will see another woman doing something wrong and choose to disassociate before mentoring, men will do the same. I can’t count the […]

How Insecurity Keeps You From Being Great – Pharrell Expands on Album Cover

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Tweet A few years ago I posted a piece on my personal blog that was in response to comments on a post I wrote here that rubbed some people the wrong way. At the time, many people thought that my attempt to pay a compliment was just a backhanded jab. They felt that I really […]

Friends with Benefits Can Work. Here’s Why…

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Tweet If you’re lucky, you’re f*cking someone you adore. You’re in a committed and monogamous relationship with this person and you can see marriage in the near or distant future. But if you’re not “lucky” right now — if you haven’t drunkenly stumbled, or gracefully sashayed into “the one” yet (and I say that with […]

Picky or Patient: What Type of Dater Are You?

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Tweet Nitpick- adj. Overly critical, esp. on trivial matters; focused on only trivial aspects Patient- adj. Quietly and steadily persevering or diligent, especially in detail or exactness Throughout the period of time that we date, we turn down many. Some people in our eyes are completely out of the question. Others might really be on […]

Signs He’s Dating a High-Quality Woman

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Tweet I came across an article over on Thought Catalog titled “13 Ways You Know You’re Dating a High-Quality Woman.” Here are some of my favorites or most cosign-able items from the list, and a few thoughts to go along with them: 4. She has a part of her life that doesn’t involve you. Friends, […]

6 Reasons Men Don’t Ask Women About STD’s

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Tweet By Chocolate Vent In my 30+ years of living no man has ever asked me whether or not I have been tested for a sexually transmitted disease (STD), let alone if I actually have one. Can you believe that? I mean it’s not like I’ve had sex with a bunch of different men or […]

Why That THOT Belongs To All of Us and The Need to Get Rid of It

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Tweet Have you ever really sat and thought about society? I made an observation not too long ago that we’d reached a point where as a society we were in a good place but we were also in a really bad place. You see, at this point everybody should feel encouraged to express themselves, their […]

A Few Thoughts on the Time “Rape Culture” Piece…

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Tweet There’s been a lot of discussion over the last week about the “It’s Time to End ‘Rape Culture’ Hysteria” article that ran on Time. And from what I’ve seen, most of it has been good, albeit heated, discussion. I’ll be honest with you. If you asked me what “rape culture” was a year ago, […]

7 Board Games Men Play In Relationships

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Tweet We all know that men love games, often to our detriment. For whatever reasons, men have been wired to play games and have killed many relationships as a result. Below are 7 board games that men have projected into their own lives and romantic relationships. 1.)    Candy Land: Men love sweet, delicious, “candy.” They […]

Have Blurred Gender Roles Pushed Men Away From Commitment?

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Tweet About four years ago, I took a gender psychology course in undergrad. My term paper was based on how gender roles of women have changed between the 1950′s and present day. During this period of time women have made amazing strides. They’ve grabbed the bull by the horns and fought for equal opportunity. This […]