Views From The 6: A Retrospective On Women As My 26th Birthday Approaches

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 Share on Tumblr At this point I am less than a week from my 26th birthday. 25 was a fun year, a progress year. I expect 26 to be more of the same just with some bigger moves to be made. It was my own bright idea to share with my SBM family some thoughts […]

Chris Rock Top Five Interviews in the Past Few Months

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 Share on Tumblr In light of Chris Rock dropping jewels all over the internet I felt what better way to kick off a Monday, so I compiled some of Chris Rocks best interviews over the past few months. Chris Rock isn’t cutting cards on his opinions about our current social climate. Chris Rock on Hot […]

Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

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 Share on Tumblr The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you […]

A Guide To First Date Conversations For Men

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 Share on Tumblr This past weekend I had a date night and went to go see “Top Five.” I t was a good time, and the movie fascinated me for a few reasons. None of those reasons really correlate with this post. So maybe another time we’ll get into that. More importantly I’m here to […]

Overnight Visitor: Make Your Home Feel Like Her Home, For the Night

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 Share on Tumblr True players are always prepared for overnight visitors. They know that if the date goes well they have to make their visitor feel at home. The goal is to make her never want to leave. Leaving should be out of necessity, not out of want or desire. When she’s over your house […]

Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life […]

The Bachelor’s Guide to Home Organization

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 Share on Tumblr Women love it when a man is on top of his life. There’s nothing sexier than a guy who has it together and pulls off everything he does with a sense of style. That doesn’t mean you have to keep a white tux in the back of your closet or grow a […]

You Are Appreciated: A Letter to Black Women

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 Share on Tumblr Dear Ladies: I depend a lot on current events and hot topics to help put together the pieces that I write. A lot of inspiration I have comes from conversations with people. The second source of inspiration is probably from things going on in social media.  At the core of all of […]

Another Chris Brown and Karrueche Split, Airing Exes Out On Social Media

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 Share on Tumblr I wonder how many times Karrueche’s name was misspelled over the weekend, I searched for the correct spelling and I still feel as though I’m spelling it wrong. Anywho, Chris Brown and Karrueche split for the 1000th time. It seems like this might finally be the end of this messy relationship, whether they stay together […]

6 Dos and Don’ts for Dating During The Holiday Season

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 Share on Tumblr The holiday season is officially here! If you’re currently dating or in a new relationship, this may be the first holiday you’ll be spending with your partner. Although that’s really exciting, I’m sure there are some looming concerns in your mind. It’s my prayer that the following holiday dos and don’ts will […]