Enough Already: If You Can’t Afford To Date Then Just Don’t Date

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 Share on Tumblr Y’all really intending on this never ending debate about $200 dates and plane tickets, aren’t you? That’s my reaction each time I see the Twitter timeline begin a discussion about if there is actually a preferred or correct range that one should spend on a date. I must say it is very […]

Why You Feel The Need To Label Women

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 Share on Tumblr I wish I could tell you that Amber fought the good fight, and the Sisters let her be. I wish I could tell you that – but the entertainment business is no fairy-tale world. Let’s recap what happened over the last few days: Tyga is dating a Kylie Jenner. Amber says that […]

Do You Post Your Relationship Status on Facebook?

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 Share on Tumblr It’s a controversial topic. Do you have the desire for public affirmation in your relationship? I think deep down that the need to publicly announce your relationship is rooted in insecurity. I’ve been in very public relationships and very private ones too. What I can say is that keeping your private life […]

The Death Of Cheap Dates: Why We Should Appreciate Dates In 2015

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 Share on Tumblr   This post today is partially inspired by Dr. J. About a week ago he let off a series of tweets about dating. I won’t quote them all but the gist of the tweets are that none of us should be caught complaining about someone being cheap. His stance was that if […]

What The Failure to Indict Darren Wilson Means to Us

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 Share on Tumblr Over the past few months there has not been a lot of discussion on the Michael Brown case in Ferguson but today I wanted to put something out to provide a forum for discussion. Also to inform our readers where we as blog, bloggers and most of all Black men stand on […]

The Ten Worst Things BET Got Rid Off

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 Share on TumblrThis weekend BET announced that 106 & Park would be cancelled after this season. Shad Moss’s career is essentially over as a host and actor. Well, damn. Today I’m going to take a look at the shows and people over the years that BET either cancelled or lost. All I can say is, […]

How Do We Help The Friend That Won’t Listen?

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 Share on Tumblr By now you’ve heard about this little pop tart moment Chris Brown had on Monday. If you’re not familiar, take a quick look a  post on Madame Noire here. In a nutshell the ladies of the talk show “The Real” on Fox were having a roundtable discussion about  what they called “inter-friend-tions.” […]

Seven (or Eight) Things We Need To Understand about Street Harassment

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 Share on Tumblr I didn’t want to respond or blog about that video until I came to the realization that I’ve actually experienced it. You know that video, the one with the woman who walked through NYC for ten hours and endured cat-calling or street harassment. I didn’t want to respond because like most times […]

Man, It’s Hard to Give a Crap About College Football This Year

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 Share on Tumblr In case you missed it, the college football season started this weekend. I watched the game. Because football. But honestly, you didn’t miss anything. For one, I couldn’t name any of the players. And second, the game was on a blood red field in eastern Washington. Hard to take that seriously. So […]

The Hot vs. Emotional Unavailability Matrix – Women’s Guide to Men

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 Share on Tumblr Not that there’s anything wrong with women taking a crack at the matrix. I’m sure most have seen the Hot vs. Crazy Matrix by the genius who posted in it late July. This is a version for women to evaluate men on a Hot and Emotional Unavailability Matrix. Thoughts?  Share on Tumblr