The Sensitive Side: 5 Reasons Why Men and Women Cry

Tweet Through It

Editor’s Note: The fellas and I were talking about old posts and I remembered this one from years ago that I thought our new readers would enjoy. You old mofos will be able to reminisce as well. Throwback Wednesday! -StreetZ So I find that in our macho ways, a lot of men dismiss the notion [...]

Do Men Prefer Models Over the Everyday Girl?

2012 Victoria's Secret Fashion Show - Runway

Each year I watch the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show and it gets me to thinking… are men predisposed to think all women should resemble these models? Let me be the first to say, “Hell No!” But let’s really sit down and examine the disconnect that men have between the women they see in the media [...]

Are Black Women Right to Blame Black Men for Their Personal Insecurities?

light skin vs dark skin

  Last week, I dropped a post about qualities that I go out and look for in someone that I would consider a companion. I don’t think I did anything wrong, but where things got hectic was when I tried to make a corollary with Amber Rose and implied that she is the “wifey standard.” [...]

Are There Not Enough Black Men for Women, Or Is That Just an Excuse?

black-women-group-475x350

Do women outnumber men? Yes. Is that the reason why Black people aren’t settling down? Hardly. It took me a minute to come to this conclusion but it was the progression of a thought process I explored a while back. I came up with this theory on how many women there were to men in [...]

Why Do Some Women Enjoy Breaking Up Happy Homes?

kimorakoladjimon

A while back, I came across this article on Necole Bitchie’s website, Author Kola Boof Claims She’s The Reason Kimora And Djimon Broke Up. It took me a minute to let it sink in because I actually had to sift through the pictures of this lady to think if this was actually true. Personally, I [...]

Relationship Survival Kit: The Five Tools of Highly Successful Summer Flings

summer

The Forever Singleplan their year out like this: Labor Day – “Oh man, need to find something to cuff.” Day after Thanksgiving – “Need to break this off for a few weeks to avoid spending money” or “Need to come up with a swindle that we are not exchanging gifts.” Weekend before Valentine’s Day – [...]

Defending a Man’s Right to Choose: Combating the Female Fear of Rejection

This is going nowhere...

I’ll be doing a few posts on combating the female fear of rejection over the next few weeks. This is my first installment, I’m not sure how many posts will be published but it will be poignant. The series originates from my belief that there needs to be something said about how men fear breaking [...]

Five Ways to Just Be Friends with the Opposite Sex

Bad idea: I have known Lisa for twice as long as I've known you, baby. | Better idea: If you have no interest in meeting Lisa, I don't understand your anger.

I doubt this is news to anyone at this point, but if asked, I typically tell people that my best friend is a female. She is great, awesome and I won’t tell you her name here, because she doesn’t really like all the attention that comes with being mentioned on the Internet. I have seen [...]

Why Men Need Women with a Future and a Past: Deciding to Take Care of the Damaged Girl

roflbot (7)

“You can have a brand new Honda Accord, or a used Maserati, that’s a decision that you’ll have to make for yourself.” I meet a lot of women.  And I don’t just mean a lot of women, I mean a LOT of women.  That comes with the territory of being a blogger, women notice me [...]

Why Sometimes Perfection Fails

black-couple-laying-on-bed

If you’re a man like me, you’ve known this woman.  You’ve bought her drinks at the bar, she’s sat across the table from you on dates, and she’s laid next to you in bed. She’s been a lover, a significant other, a friend with benefits.  She’s perfect, possessed with everything you might ever desire in [...]