How A Man Can Avoid The Friend-Zone

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Tweet Men get friend zoned for one reason and one reason only: they’re too available. When you’re friend-zoned by someone, they know that no matter what, they can always depend on you as a plan B if all of their other less available options don’t work out. Whether we like it or not, that’s just […]

Why Being Prude Won’t Get You Anywhere In Your Dating Life

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Tweet I had an opportunity to sit down with a few friends the other day and we were talking about things that both sides do to protect and prevent in relationships. I totally understand why people “protect and prevent” but I don’t think it will ever work. It’s simply a strategy that is rooted in […]

Five Ways Hating Ass Friends Show Themselves

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TweetWhen you and your friends enter a social setting, the goal is to enjoy yourselves and have a great time. In the course of your social interactions, you may come across a group of the opposite sex with whom you want to converse. Sometimes it’s just for normal conversation, other times there’s some initial attrraction […]

Why Looks Matter.

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TweetThe other day I started watching this show called New Girl on Netflix. I usually hear people talking about the show on social media so I decided to give it a go. If you’ve never seen the show the premise of show is based in Los Angeles where a quirky, cute female teacher named Jessica […]

The Sensitive Side: 5 Reasons Why Men and Women Cry

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TweetEditor’s Note: The fellas and I were talking about old posts and I remembered this one from years ago that I thought our new readers would enjoy. You old mofos will be able to reminisce as well. Throwback Wednesday! -StreetZ So I find that in our macho ways, a lot of men dismiss the notion […]

Do Men Prefer Models Over the Everyday Girl?

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Tweet Each year I watch the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show and it gets me to thinking… are men predisposed to think all women should resemble these models? Let me be the first to say, “Hell No!” But let’s really sit down and examine the disconnect that men have between the women they see in the […]

Are Black Women Right to Blame Black Men for Their Personal Insecurities?

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Tweet  Last week, I dropped a post about qualities that I go out and look for in someone that I would consider a companion. I don’t think I did anything wrong, but where things got hectic was when I tried to make a corollary with Amber Rose and implied that she is the “wifey standard.” […]

Are There Not Enough Black Men for Women, Or Is That Just an Excuse?

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Tweet Do women outnumber men? Yes. Is that the reason why Black people aren’t settling down? Hardly. It took me a minute to come to this conclusion but it was the progression of a thought process I explored a while back. I came up with this theory on how many women there were to men […]

Why Do Some Women Enjoy Breaking Up Happy Homes?

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Tweet A while back, I came across this article on Necole Bitchie’s website, Author Kola Boof Claims She’s The Reason Kimora And Djimon Broke Up. It took me a minute to let it sink in because I actually had to sift through the pictures of this lady to think if this was actually true. Personally, […]

Relationship Survival Kit: The Five Tools of Highly Successful Summer Flings

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TweetThe Forever Singleplan their year out like this: Labor Day – “Oh man, need to find something to cuff.” Day after Thanksgiving – “Need to break this off for a few weeks to avoid spending money” or “Need to come up with a swindle that we are not exchanging gifts.” Weekend before Valentine’s Day – […]