Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life […]

The Last of a Dying Breed: The Fall of Generation Y and the Rise of the Millennial

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 Share on Tumblr We all have to get used to the fact that our time as Gen Y and our prime is in its sunset. Moreover, that the Millennial’s time has come; it’s their time to lead now. I realize that my mindset about loyalty to traditional roles of employment and being focused on making […]

What Is With Female Marriage Proposals?

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 Share on Tumblr Blurred gender roles are a norm in today’s day and age. Most of us want equality for both sexes in all facets of life. Ideally, this would be the case. The truth is that for this to be, there will be some resistance in some instances. For instance we have today’s subject […]

Why Are More Women Choosing to Not Marry?

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 Share on Tumblr I came across an article yesterday and it gave me pause for thought. I thought i’d share some excerpts with you all today and see what your thoughts were. The gist of the article is that more and more women are choosing not to marry and happy being single for the rest […]

What Is Marriage Material?

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 Share on Tumblr The love bug seems to have been striking like a “motha” and it’s definitely a good look. I can’t remember a time when the celebration of nuptials and the celebration of pregnancies were almost congruent. What people have been complaining about for years might be getting satisfied. For years now on social […]

Why Do Women Choose To Stay?

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 Share on Tumblr In light of the Ray Rice and Janay Palmer [Rice] intimate partner violence that took place in Atlantic City, I was personally moved to contemplate why women choose to stay. In respect for Janay Rice’s privacy and her rights as a victim SBM will not not post or link to the video […]

Is Nick Cannon Right to Rant on Twitter about His Marriage?

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 Share on Tumblr Nick Cannon took to Twitter to address rumors about his marriage. He says he’s never made a statement to anyone or any news source about his marriage. Which is confusing because this Twitter rant is addressing the rumors about his marriage which makes that a little contradictory. Anyway, read the rant for […]

15 Ways to Keep the Romance Alive in a Relationship

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 Share on Tumblr Ever wondered what keeps many couples together, and what causes others to split up? Some people enter into relationships for the wrong reasons. As new age guru Deepak Chopra noted, most people seek security in a relationship; we may hook up with a person who makes us feel safe. Finding ‘the one’ […]

#300Sandwiches Lady Gets Engaged 256 Sandwiches Later

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 Share on Tumblr Remember the 300 sandwiches lady? The one who had to make her boyfriend 300 sandwiches in order for him to propose? They just got engaged — 256 sandwiches later. In June 2012, Stephanie Smith started a blog to document the sandwiches she needed to make in exchange for a ring. If you […]

Can Cheating Make Your Relationship Stronger?

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 Share on Tumblr I’ve always thought that people should find ways to make their relationships work even if it might strike others as odd or unnatural. In the end there are only two people in your relationship, you and your significant other. I’ve sat on panels and had private conversations with so many people who […]