How A Man Can Avoid The Friend-Zone

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Tweet Men get friend zoned for one reason and one reason only: they’re too available. When you’re friend-zoned by someone, they know that no matter what, they can always depend on you as a plan B if all of their other less available options don’t work out. Whether we like it or not, that’s just […]

Can A Woman Help Him Be A “Good Guy” With The Fellas

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Tweet It is not always easy being the good guy surrounded by an aggressive group of men, who you refer to as your boys, fellas, etc. Being the good guy makes you the perfect “take one for the team” candidate. I find it funny when I’m out with one of my good brothers—as I refer […]

How To Tell If A Man Is Bad In Bed Using Social Media

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TweetIn Part One (How to Turn Her On), we examined the qualities that are critical to a woman’s genuine sexual arousal and satisfaction. I am stressing the word “genuine” because whether we like it or not, most women at one time or another have faked it. So even though you may believe you have left […]

Married Man Talk: What I Hate About Being Married

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Tweet Before you read the title and get confused, I love being married. I mean I really really love being married. I could easily spend the rest of the post talking about how nice it is to always have someone to go to the movies with, how I still look forward to coming home and […]

Is A Grown Ass Man Living at Home Really a DealBreaker?

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Tweet Off the strength of the title please allow me to clear something up: I do not think a 40 year old man living at home is the the business. That’s not a good look. I thought this was a pretty interesting topic, so I decided to look up some statistics on census.gov Between 2005 and […]

7 Things Men Need To Stop Doing To Women

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Tweet  Every now and then I remember that we haven’t done a post outlining advice for men in a while. It’s not that we don’t have opinions about men and the things they can do better; it’s that we get bombarded with questions from women all the time. We address those issues first because that’s […]

5 Unrealistic Expectations Men Have of Women

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Tweet Do men ever admit to women that they’re slightly crazy in the things that they expect out of women? Not really. I think that’s the way the game works though. Women don’t tell men about all the things they’ve got going on and we don’t tell them either. When it comes to expectations that […]

Love Isn’t Enough to Keep Some Men Faithful

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Tweet Q: Is it possible to love your spouse and family, but still constantly need an outside sexual outlet? A question as old as time, do unfaithful men really love their spouses and family? As usual, it depends, but in most cases, I would say yes. Some would argue that if a man truly loves his […]

Where Are All The Good Men Hiding At?

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Tweet There are a few things that really upset me. It’s assumptions that women make about men. They are blanket assumptions that are complete double standards because men never do the same to women. These assumptions typically show their ugly face in a conversation and good men tend to write off those women as hopeless, […]

Her Husband Is Bisexual: Could You Date a Bisexual Man?

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Tweet In private, my husband, Paul*, has started referring to his sexual orientation as “Results-Oriented.” As in, he doesn’t care what gender his sexual partners are if they can get the job done, so to speak. He’s being glib when he says that — no, he wouldn’t go to bed with just anyone — but […]