SBM Video Series: Approaching Women and The Three Foot Rule
Honestly, when it comes to the courting process I’m not the most ambitious man on the planet. Some… [more]
Super Bowl 2012: What’s Your Prediction?
After one of the more exciting NFL seasons we've seen in a long while, this Sunday is the day - one of… [more]
Men Should Not Attend Baby Showers
As I get older, I've noticed that there has been a paradigm shift in normal traditional and cultural… [more]
Why Sometimes Perfection Fails
If you're a man like me, you've known this woman. You've bought her drinks at the bar, she's sat across… [more]
Do Men Think About Their Wedding Day?
I'll be honest with you. I haven't given too much thought to the overall wedding process. It's always… [more]
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SBM Video Series: Approaching Women and The Three Foot Rule
February 4, 2012 By wisdomismisery 111645 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F2012%2F02%2F04%2Fthe-sbm-video-series-approaching-women-and-the-three-foot-rule%2FSBM+Video+Series%3A+Approaching+Women+and+The+Three+Foot+Rule2012-02-04+13%3A00%3A02wisdomismiseryhttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F%3Fp%3D11164
Honestly, when it comes to the courting process I’m not the most ambitious man on the planet. Some might even call me lazy. Don’t get me wrong, I have no problem approaching women. I do that all the time. I’m just saying I’m not going to go out of my way to do it. However, I can’t take full credit for this philosophy on life.My best friend and mentor in High … [Read More...]

Super Bowl 2012: What’s Your Prediction?
February 3, 2012 By SBM STAFF 1120919 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F2012%2F02%2F03%2Fsuper-bowl-2012-whats-your-prediction%2FSuper+Bowl+2012%3A+What%27s+Your+Prediction%3F2012-02-03+18%3A55%3A59SBM+STAFFhttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F%3Fp%3D11209
After one of the more exciting NFL seasons we've seen in a long while, this Sunday is the day - one of the most important Sundays of the year: Super Bowl Sunday. As you might imagine the SBM staff is looking forward to this momentous occasion (albeit, some of us are more excited than others) and we couldn't let the moment pass without sharing with you all our Super Bowl … [Read More...]

Men Should Not Attend Baby Showers
February 3, 2012 By Streetz 1114757 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F2012%2F02%2F03%2Fmen-should-not-attend-baby-showers%2FMen+Should+Not+Attend+Baby+Showers2012-02-03+05%3A02%3A21Streetzhttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F%3Fp%3D11147
As I get older, I've noticed that there has been a paradigm shift in normal traditional and cultural practices in this country. Smoking used to be as popular as baseball here once upon a time. Women would even smoke while pregnant! However, now with increased health awareness and state regulations, we've seen less smoking indoors, and astronomical cigarette prices. One … [Read More...]

Why Sometimes Perfection Fails
February 2, 2012 By Dr. J 1107458 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F2012%2F02%2F02%2Fwhy-sometimes-perfection-fails%2FWhy+Sometimes+Perfection+Fails2012-02-02+05%3A00%3A05Dr.+Jhttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F%3Fp%3D11074
If you're a man like me, you've known this woman. You've bought her drinks at the bar, she's sat across the table from you on dates, and she's laid next to you in bed. She's been a lover, a significant other, a friend with benefits. She's perfect, possessed with everything you might ever desire in a long term partner and potential wife. If you're a man like me, at … [Read More...]

Do Men Think About Their Wedding Day?
February 1, 2012 By Slim Jackson 1109392 Commentshttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F2012%2F02%2F01%2Fwhen-i-think-about-my-wedding-day%2FDo+Men+Think+About+Their+Wedding+Day%3F2012-02-01+05%3A00%3A14Slim+Jacksonhttp%3A%2F%2Fwww.singleblackmale.org%2F%3Fp%3D11093
I'll be honest with you. I haven't given too much thought to the overall wedding process. It's always been one of those things that I knew I'd experience when the time was right, but I haven't fantasized about what it'll be like to take a knee and ask her to trust me with the rest of her life, or how I'll be as a husband when it's all said and done. I'm kinda scared. Not … [Read More...]
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