The Real Reasons Why We're Single

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Tweet The internet is not at all short of posts about why you or anyone else is single. It’s actually a ploy to try and get you to keep reading blogs, online magazines, or however any of these sites wants to classify themselves. Let me be the first to tell you, most of those articles […]

Best Quotes from Last Night’s Jimmy Kimmel Show with Kanye West

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Tweet I was on my way to bed when I scrolled through my timeline and saw that it was almost time for Kanye West to appear on the Jimmy Kimmel Show. For those of you who don’t know a few weeks ago, Kimmel did a Kanye West spoof and Kanye West went ballistic. You can […]

5 Things Women Do that Men Hate, but Tolerate Because We Care

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Tweet Relationships are built on love, admiration, and compromise. However, I’ll be damned if men don’t overlook certain things that may drive us up a wall, but we tolerate because you are that special. I never knew the true meaning of “Women: Can’t live with them, can’t live without them” until I got into my […]

I Hate Talking On The Phone

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Tweet A few mornings ago I was heading to work and I looked down at my phone reviewing over names of friends I hadn’t spoken to in months. I’m lying… I looked at my gchat and looked at several girls that over the years I had fallen out of touch with because they only like […]

Tipping in the United States vs. the United Kingdom: Who Gets It Right?

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Tweet A Cornell professor has written a lot of papers about tipping, with some interesting results for the urban male. Now I know living in the United Kingdom we don’t tip, anywhere as much as Americans. Not only that, the percentage we tip is far below the scale of the U.S. But I’ve spent a […]

14 Things White People Won’t Ever Understand About Black People

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Tweet Been a while since we’ve had a good list. I had originally planned on writing a response to a court case that happened last weekend, but then I realized it was time that we had a smile on our face. If only for one day, Black folks need something to smile and laugh about. […]

What Happened to First Dates?

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Tweet I was at an event where I ran into some old classmates. I found myself in a great conversation with one of the guys I knew. And after some drinks and laughs, he asked me out on a date. Actually, his words were more like, “We should hang out sometime.” Even though I internally […]

The Problem with Love and Hip Hop

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Tweet Before I really begin I want to give a quick shout out. I attended the 2013 Blogging While Brown Conference here in New York this past weekend. I had a great time and it was certainly very helpful. If you’re an aspiring blogger I implore you to try and check it out next year. […]

20 Ways Black People Act When They Go Out Versus Their Counterparts

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Tweet What happens when you go out? I know when I do, I live for the nights I won’t remember with the people I won’t forget. If you’re like me, you notice a difference when you’re hanging out with your “white friends” and when you’re hanging out with your “Black friends.” Personally, I made a […]

An Open Letter to Employers with Ridiculous Requirements

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TweetDear Wayward Employer, I’m writing you this letter because I was perusing your website and saw a job that looked awesome. I read through the description and everything about the job was me. Then I read the “requirements and qualifications” and found myself flabbergasted and appalled. I’ve done everything you describe in the responsibilities, but […]