Why You Never Really Moved On From Your Ex

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 Share on Tumblr The other day I had a conversation with a close friend and the topic of conversation came up of whether you ever move on from your ex. Not the ex that was a dirtbag but the exes that you have that you really cared about. I told her in summary that you […]

Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

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 Share on Tumblr Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life […]

6 Dos and Don’ts for Dating During The Holiday Season

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 Share on Tumblr The holiday season is officially here! If you’re currently dating or in a new relationship, this may be the first holiday you’ll be spending with your partner. Although that’s really exciting, I’m sure there are some looming concerns in your mind. It’s my prayer that the following holiday dos and don’ts will […]

Can Men Ever Successfully Call Women Out?

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 Share on Tumblr Recently I read a Facebook status in which a guy was speaking in retrospect. The following I’ll be pretty much paraphrasing. The man goes on to say that he was curved for being too sophisticated and nice. he says that the man that the woman eventually curved him for was less sophisticated […]

7 Reasons Why You Can’t Let Go of Your Past

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 Share on Tumblr It’s been a long week and Friday is here. All of us can breathe a sigh of relief because we know that in the morning, Saturday is here. I didn’t know what I wanted to post on today because at this point I’m tired of talking about what everyone else is talking […]

When Feminists Attack Male Bloggers

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 Share on Tumblr I love the Internet. It’s the only place where people create fictional images of themselves and then project that image until they either develop a following or earn notoriety. At times that notoriety is for being absolutely ridiculous. And while I’ve been no stranger to attacks on the Internet by people who […]

5 Ways To Use The Love Languages To Show That you Care

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 Share on Tumblr  Sometimes, words aren’t enough. They come out all wrong, they’re cliché, or they miss the point you’re trying to make — and you end up sounding like a bad soap opera character, reciting a reused script. Luckily, there are other ways to show your loved one exactly what you mean. According to […]

Are you standing in the way of being happy?

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 Share on Tumblr A close friend of mine who lives in Atlanta said to me during my last trip there that women sometimes don’t know how to be happy. I don’t think that statement only pertains to women because there are men in that conversation too. I asked myself that same question this week because […]

Are Pregnancies Always To Be Celebrated?

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 Share on Tumblr The title of this posts probably made an “uh oh” go off in your head. Pregnancy can be a touchy subject. It can be touchy especially in where this post will go today. It can be easily thought to be judgmental by some but I promise you nothing of the sorts. I […]

There’s No Middle Ground In Relationships, Either Yes or No

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 Share on Tumblr Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. […]