She Got Body Part 2: You With All Those “Curves”…

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 Share on Tumblr This is part two of the “She Got Body” series here on SBM. Part one was last week and covered the topic of women who were late bloomers and became “finer” as they got older. Give that a look here. This week I wanted to speak on a different aspect of body […]

Another Dysfunctional Dating Story

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 Share on Tumblr I will be the first to say that dating is difficult. It’s stressful. As the woman, you have to make sure your hair is on point, nails done, and that what you wear is flattering. You have to worry about what to talk about, how much to disclose, and depending on what […]

She Got Body: Back Then They Didn’t Want Me…

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 Share on Tumblr “She Got Body” is a three part series I’m beginning today. In this series I’ll give one black man’s opinion on different topics concerning body image in today’s society. Throughout the series I’ll do my damnedest to be sensitive to most feelings. I can’t please everyone, but I think there are some […]

In Bed with a BOSS: How to date a WERKing Woman

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 Share on Tumblr In the last few years, the number of female Entrepreneurs has grown tremendously. Women are no longer waiting in the wings for opportunity to find them, they’re out in the forefront of major corporations, building their own empires and taking the world by storm. So where does that leave their male counterparts? […]

The Best Gift Ideas For Him in 2015

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 Share on TumblrHow difficult can it be to come up with an interesting gift for a loved one? Unlike women, men are easier to please as far as gift giving is concerned. They’re not picky and they usually value things they can actually use. The best gifts for a guy are practical but of fine […]

Why You Shouldn’t Believe In Happy Endings

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 Share on Tumblr “Dear Karen, I’ve been thinking about Us, the story of us. How the fuck do I sum it up? Has it been perfect? Hardly. Any story with me at the center of it will never be anything less than a big smiling mess. But here’s what I know for sure—our time in […]

Do Men Need To Show More Affection?

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 Share on Tumblr Men and affection will always be a topic of conversation. The relationship between how we show affection and our age group plus societal influences will always have it’s relevance. Recently I read a tweet from a young lady I follow on Twitter. I consider her to be a pretty sharp girl and […]

Do You Post Your Relationship Status on Facebook?

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 Share on Tumblr It’s a controversial topic. Do you have the desire for public affirmation in your relationship? I think deep down that the need to publicly announce your relationship is rooted in insecurity. I’ve been in very public relationships and very private ones too. What I can say is that keeping your private life […]

The Reason You Should Love Less Than More About Them

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 Share on Tumblr I recently read an article that spoke to the amount of things you can love about a person. I can’t remember the exact wording but it came to mind when I readied myself to pen this post. In this article the exercise was to write down everything you love about the person […]

Identifying Your Legacy Of Love

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 Share on Tumblr  I have lived long enough to know Black men are not the only ethnic group of men dealing with family issues. For years, I let it be known every culture has a right to address issues unique within its realm and should not be accused of racism. However, I could not help […]