Signs He’s Dating a High-Quality Woman

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I came across an article over on Thought Catalog titled “13 Ways You Know You’re Dating a High-Quality Woman.” Here are some of my favorites or most cosign-able items from the list, and a few thoughts to go along with them: 4. She has a part of her life that doesn’t involve you. Friends, hobbies, […]

Relationship Rules in 2014? Yeah, right – Here’s Why You Can Ditch Relationship Rules

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A few weeks back Gee Hooks penned a good piece on why people are subscribing to relationship guidelines that don’t work for them. I commented on that post saying, “I think it’s a certain type of person who thinks that they have to subscribe to the popular thought about relationships, marriages and good/bad significant others… […]

Let’s Play the Blame Game

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Let’s play the blame game, I love you, more Let’s play the blame game for sure Let’s call out names, names, I hate you, more Let’s call out names, names, for sure Do you have that friend in your circle who’s a doctor, a nurse, or just overall knowledgeable about health issues? Well that’s me […]

On Men’s Condomlessness and the Side Piece Baby Boom

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As of late, stories of side chick pregnancies and simultaneous engagements have become commonplace.  I personally know a woman who was sexually involved with a man who later told her that around the same time they were sexually involved, he had gotten engaged to another woman. The latest story from Ebony editor, Jamliah Lemieux, compelled me […]

Why Are We All Looking For The Same Person And Relationship?

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I had a conversation with this dude who grew up in a religious household. As an adult, he does not follow his old, strictly religious way of life. He enjoys having sexual relationships with porn stars and strippers and engages in threesomes and all sorts of other sexually adventurous activity. But he’s in his early […]

Is a Title Necessary for a Healthy Relationship?

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A title is not necessary for a healthy relationship, but on the other hand it is necessary for a healthy relationship. The unhealthy circumstances come to play when one person is holding back their true feelings and intentions. We call that settling. When a woman wants to have a title, but meets a man who […]

What Do We Really Know About Relationships in 2014?

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I find it hard that in 2014, we are still rehashing many of the same issues we’ve been talking about for the last six years since blogging turned into the industry that it is now. As it pertains to relationships, every year there’s a whole new dose of the same issues and topics with fresh […]

7 Fictional Characters Your Relationship Can Do Without

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1.) Superman: As the old saying goes; Superman was really Clark Kent, Clark Kent wasn’t really Superman. You are human, you will make mistakes, and you can’t save everyday. Don’t try to be superman in your family, just aim to be super faithful. 2.) Lone Ranger: You can’t do it all by yourself, God placed you two together […]

How Singles Cope Without Cupid on Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day can be the best of times or the worst of times depending on whether or not the day ends in coitus or calamity. The best can be summed by spending quality time with your partner. Sharing a meal, gazing at the heartfelt gifts and partaking in adult acrobatics. The worst is obvious: spending […]

Are You Following These Relationship Rules in 2014?

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I will not rush things… I will make exceptions, but no compromises… I will not make it about me… I will make a list of what a want to change about me…. I will make a list of what I want in a mate…. I will celebrate small wins in my relationships… I will ask questions […]