5 Signs Your Summer Fling Is Ending

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If you’ve reached this point in the summer and your fling hasn’t turned into a relationship then it’s probably a sure tell sign that it’s ending. That’s nothing to worry about many of us didn’t want it to go any further anyway. However, for some of us we’re wondering what ways we can tell whether […]

5 Signs They Haven’t Really Broken Up

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It’s really confusing when you’re trying to establish something with someone who hasn’t quite moved on past their last relationship. At times, they haven’t even broken up with the person they’re dating. They just begin another situation with you hoping for some type of lateral move in the future. This is confusing and whether this […]

How Do You Know Your Relationship Is Serious?

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Listen, not every relationship is perfect. Each relationship is its own relationship in its own right. Every relationship doesn’t have a title (sometimes titles are the precursor to the end) and not every relationship makes sense to everyone else (everyone in your business is typically the precursor to the end). Despite all of that, I’m […]

Are You Really Ready for a Relationship?

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How do you know you’re ready for a new relationship?  Is it a feeling?  Is it perfect timing?  Do you just know? Honestly, feelings, time and the inexplicable are not reliable indicators that you’re ready for a new relationship. Sure, you may have made decisions in the past based on one or all of them, […]

A Wife’s Love : What I Learned From “Legend’s House”

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Like a few writers here at SBM, I’m a pro wrestling fan. As early as I can remember  I was watching it. It entertained me like other mediums didn’t. Now, at 25 I still watch. I might not watch as frequently, but it’s still a pastime. Over the last few weeks I was caught up […]

15 Ways to Keep the Romance Alive in a Relationship

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Ever wondered what keeps many couples together, and what causes others to split up? Some people enter into relationships for the wrong reasons. As new age guru Deepak Chopra noted, most people seek security in a relationship; we may hook up with a person who makes us feel safe. Finding ‘the one’ can create wondrous […]

Three Relationship-Starting Tips from a Family Therapist

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Sometimes I envy the preacher: when couples come to him, they’re in LOVE. When people come to me, it’s not because they’re in love. It’s because they’re in trouble. I’m a family therapist, and when you’re knocking on my door, it’s because the two of you need to work something out. I love my work, […]

Are These Women* Loyal? Some Men Sure Aren’t.

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  We’re a couple weeks from summer y’all!! It’s around this time where there’s a whole slew of new music. We’re all listening and looking to see reactions. We’re trying to figure out what will be the summer anthem. I love summer anthems. I frequent  many outings throughout the summer months (like the UA BBQ […]

Is Honesty Really the Best Policy?

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We all want honesty. Nobody wants to be with someone who’s walking around with a bunch of secrets. Usually when you think of someone you’re with being dishonest, it means they’re keeping things from you that may affect your relationship like they’re married and have 2 kids for example. But how often do you think […]

Is It Wrong for a Man to Suggest A Woman Lose Weight?

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You know, once in a blue there are some great articles I come across on Facebook. Recently I came across an article called “Why I Dated A Guy Who Hated My Body.” For better reference, feel free to read it here. In this post, the young lady recalls a bad experience with a guy she […]