Show Me The Money: Why Men Use Women For Financial Support

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 Share on Tumblr Dear SBM, I’m a SBF in my 30s no kids, sweet spirited, pretty face with an overweight but still shapely frame. I have never really had this problem until the past 5 years but it seems every man I meet has been brazen & bold enough to ask me for money, usually […]

SBMail: Why Did He Break Up with Me After Spending So Much Time Together?

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 Share on Tumblr A reader writes: I was hoping you could offer some words of wisdom. 8 years ago I met this guy named John through mutual friends. We reconnect in January and hit it off. We go on a couple dates the connection is just amazing. Too bad he’s only here for a week […]

Excuse Me Miss: Why Men Cat-Call Women Aggressively In Big Cities

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 Share on Tumblr I need some advice.  I grew up in Oakland, California, which is technically a city but in most parts doesn’t feel like one. It’s just the hood. I recently moved to Philly for college, and while I love it here, I can’t deal with some of the men I encounter. Take note […]

How Long Is Too Long To Wait For A Relationship?

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 Share on Tumblr From the SBM mailbox: I met someone last September at a wedding. We live on opposite sides of the country and are both relatively busy. I’m currently a full-time student and he’s a young entrepreneur. After we met we kept in touch and via phone and video chat. We never discussed relationships […]

I Thought I Only Wanted a Physical Relationship

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 Share on Tumblr A SBM reader asks for advice on the following situation (submit your own questions here): I’d gotten involved with a guy back in December of 2011 when I had just gotten out of a relationship. I had decided that he and I would share a “physical” relationship, but, I never made that […]

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The Re-Appearing Ex

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 Share on Tumblr Another reader looking for information and enlightenment. While I can get it started, we all know the truth will come out in the comments. Make sure to pitch in. Don’t forget to email your questions to [email protected] and check out our responses to all of our reader questions by clicking here. Hello Single […]

She Wants A Strong Black Man! Is That Weird?

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 Share on Tumblr Keep the letters coming. Well written, relationship & dating focused, and in need of advice. Why wait? Send your question to [email protected] We’ll say something, but the SBM family will say more. Hey Single Black Male, How are you? I’m a 25 year old woman, who has a great job as an […]

Why can’t HE just be my Friend With Benefits?

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 Share on Tumblr Don’t forget that you too can have your question answered by one of the SBM staff, in addition to several thousand readers by sending a short, well written and explanative question to [email protected] Hey Single Black Male, I am going to get straight to the point. I have known this guy since […]

Why do men just disappear?

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 Share on Tumblr When you have spent years talking, thinking, and doing relationships … you get asked a lot of questions. A LOT!  Very soon you realize something … most people have the same problems.  Today, we re-visit one of the classics … Dear SBM, I recently discovered your website and became an instant fan, […]

My Boyfriend Hates My Best Friend … Why?

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 Share on Tumblr Today, yet another edition of Single Black Mail.  Looking for advice, write in. Sure, we might have something cute to say … but the gold is in the comments. Hi my name is Jamie and I am in a very difficult situation. My boyfriend is incredibly jealous of my male bff. I’ve […]