Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2″ Doesn’t Happen

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Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s where a guy […]

Friends with Benefits Can Work. Here’s Why…

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If you’re lucky, you’re f*cking someone you adore. You’re in a committed and monogamous relationship with this person and you can see marriage in the near or distant future. But if you’re not “lucky” right now — if you haven’t drunkenly stumbled, or gracefully sashayed into “the one” yet (and I say that with just […]

The Thing About Break Up Sex

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Break up sex is probably some of the best sex you can ever have in your lifetime. For the most part break up sex usually isn’t the last time you really have sex with that person- it’s all bullsh*t. It’s what we see in the movies, that romantic hoopla that makes women glee with moisture, and the […]

What To Do When You Lose Your Old Faithful?

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  Today’s post is for the fellas. It’s for the guys who are single. It’s for men who have or had a rotation of women while single. A friend of mine said to me this weekend that one of the ladies he was messing with started falling back. He said that she was his most […]

On Men’s Condomlessness and the Side Piece Baby Boom

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As of late, stories of side chick pregnancies and simultaneous engagements have become commonplace.  I personally know a woman who was sexually involved with a man who later told her that around the same time they were sexually involved, he had gotten engaged to another woman. The latest story from Ebony editor, Jamliah Lemieux, compelled me […]

Mr. Cee and Black Male Sexuality

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  It’s been some time since DJ Mr. Cee began to open up more about his sexuality. Not that it was anyone’s business anyway, but he was engaging in “illegal” activities; in particular, soliciting transgender prostitutes for fellatio. That is the only reason his activities were made public. He could’ve been a little bit more […]

How To Tell If A Man Is Bad In Bed Using Social Media

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In Part One (How to Turn Her On), we examined the qualities that are critical to a woman’s genuine sexual arousal and satisfaction. I am stressing the word “genuine” because whether we like it or not, most women at one time or another have faked it. So even though you may believe you have left […]

Children Are a Choice

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I remember when I was younger, my cousin and I would go to a NYC project to visit an older cousin who had the latest video game system. We would always play a basketball game, of course. Being much younger it was always cool to be accepted as one of the guys, especially when we […]

How To Turn Her On

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Contrary to popular belief, sex is not merely a physical act. Particularly for women, sex is highly mental and emotional. Now, I hesitate to describe sex as an emotional act for women because this is always misconstrued by men to mean that women are not capable of having “no strings attached sex” and that sex […]

Where Does Your School Rank On Sexual Health?

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Trojan released its College Sexual Health Report Card in which they rank 140 colleges and university across the United States on their peen and vag politics specifically how infectious their campuses are. First and foremost, shout out to Syracuse University for ranking #13 on that list; while the student body manages to pain their bodies […]