Six Thoughtful Gestures To Make His/Her Valentine’s Day

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 Share on Tumblr During this time of year, many people are naturally cuddled up with a honey love due to the chill in the air. The frigid temperatures (especially on the east coast) increases the urge to want to snuggle up with someone special. America’s number one holiday for love, lust, and like, Valentine’s Day, […]

7 Bad Dating Habits That Need to Stop NOW

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 Share on Tumblr 1. Making a conscious effort to show how much less you can care than the other person. There’s a game commonly being played in the dating world called, I’m Going To Prove That You’re Into This WAY More Than I Am. It’s kind of like peekaboo but you’re the grown up, the other […]

When Dating Is Like Picking Your Poison

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 Share on Tumblr Years ago, Marckens P. wrote the post: “What are women really looking for in a man.” Sometimes what womenLOOK for in a man is different from what they really WANT from a man. Why aren’t the two connecting? Because what women notice in a man isn’t necessarily associated with what they will get from a […]

How to Be A Good Housewife in 10 Easy Steps [WikiHow]

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 Share on Tumblr A housewife is a married woman who is not employed outside the home. Most often, the husband works during the day and earns income to support the family, while the wife takes on most of the non-financial responsibilities, such as maintaining the home and, if applicable, caring for the kids. It is […]

What’s a Mom Friend and Why Should Every Single Woman Have One?


 Share on Tumblr Until today who knew the importance of a “mom friend” or exactly what a “mom friend” was anyway? Over at Men, Myself, and God, Patia Braithwaite tells us about this woman’s importance and the great experiences you could potentially be missing out on, if you don’t have one. Here are a Few of the Reasons […]

I Thought I Only Wanted a Physical Relationship


 Share on Tumblr A SBM reader asks for advice on the following situation (submit your own questions here): I’d gotten involved with a guy back in December of 2011 when I had just gotten out of a relationship. I had decided that he and I would share a “physical” relationship, but, I never made that […]

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Billboard Taught Me: The Worst Advice from Today’s Hot 100


 Share on Tumblr Billboard’s infamous Hot 100 is filled with songs that make you dance and songs that make you dream. Songs that help you turn up and songs that help you cool down. For some these are our theme songs and provide the soundtrack to our lives. Whether you are out to get lucky, […]

10 Marriage Tips From Happily Married Men

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 Share on TumblrTo gain a better insight on the male perspective of marriage than the usual “more oral, more relations,” I asked the fellas to provide tips that had nothing to do with sex. Although this restriction forced them to take a bit longer to respond, here is a compilation list of what they told […]

Her Mouth, Not Ours: Why You Should Never Assume with Men

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 Share on Tumblr By Muffie Bradshaw Having strong feelings, spending a considerable amount of time together, having sex, meeting the parents, etc. are not indicative of exclusivity. You go to the movies, meet for happy hour and have even gone on a few quick weekend trips. It’s the perfect relationship until you find out he […]

Do men respect abstinent women?


 Share on Tumblr We always welcome reader questions, comments, and feedback here at SBM. You can check out our SBM Mail series here for past submissions, and you can submit your own inquiries using the Contact Us page. Today’s reader asks: Hey Single Black Male first off I like the site keep it up. To start off I am choosing […]