Why Women Seem To Date With An Agenda

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It all starts yes with AGE. Its not something that I as female can deny. With all the available anti-aging products in the market, there is no denying youth is in, getting old is out. You age, you wrinkle (it’s like having your outer packaging becoming damaged, and who doesn’t want shiny goods), and you […]

War On Men: Should Women Avoid Dating an Older Man?

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SBM always welcomes reader questions, comments, and feedback. Check out our SBM Mail series here for past submissions and you can submit your own questions using the Contact Us page. Today’s reader ask: Good evening, I’ve been an avid reader of your site for a while now.  I have a question that has been discussed among my circle of friends […]

Study: Your Happiest Age Revealed

One day.

I was browsing the web this weekend when I stumbled on a Yahoo article claiming to uncover our happiest age. What’s the magic age you ask? From Yahoo: Friends Reunited, a U.K. website, found that 70 percent of respondents over the age of 40 said they did not find true happiness until they were 33 […]

The evolution of me – Maturity with age

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   In less than 24 hours, I will touch on a milestone in my life. On this special birthday, like many others, I tend to reflect on my years on this Earth, where I’ve come from and where I’m going. The wins. The losses. The evolution of me. So much reflection in fact, that I […]

I’m Too Old for This Sh*t

I feel like this sometimes...

I don’t have a big intro today. Honestly, I’m just feeling like lately there are a lot of things that I’ve outgrown and I’m just getting too old to deal with. Here are a few things that come to mind since transitioning to the city that never sleeps: The Club Scene I learned this after […]

Age vs. Maturity

Who's more likely to be immature? Is it that obvious?

**I felt this way in January of 2009. My thoughts are still very similar, but the readership here is a lot different now. Enjoy. -Slim** As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on […]

Age Ain’t Nuthin but a Number…Or Is It?

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As I revisit 2008 and consider my approaching birthday a couple months from now (Pisces), I’ve realized I’ve come a long way over the X # years I’ve been on this earth. In certain areas of life, I feel like I’ve matured at a quicker rate than a lot of the peeps around me. On […]