9 Things Men Should Never Say To Women

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If you know anything about women, you know that there are just some things that you should never say to them. Don’t worry, they brought this on themselves. They say they want men to open up to them, but we’ve got a history book full of stories about men who tried and failed miserably. They [...]

Why Do Women Get Angry At Men For No Reason?

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As part of my #30in30 series at Streetztalk, I tackled the topic of men getting angry at women for “no reason”. I wanted to share it with the SBM fam. Check it out. I was cruising down the boulevards of Instagram last night when the picture above danced across my timeline. These SomeEcards are super [...]

Do This or Else: 5 Reasons Men Hate Ultimatums in Relationships

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Check out the latest post from Streetz via Madame Noire: When a man gets into a relationship with a woman, he knows there’s certain concessions that he will have to make. He knows that compromise is essential, but there is going to be times where his woman will just talk about subjects that anger him. [...]

Nicki Minaj vs. FunkMaster Flex: The Different Methods Men And Women Use To Win Arguments

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Every year Hot97’s Summer Jam concert has great moments and equal parts controversy. This year was no different. Hip-Hop artist Nicki Minaj, who was the headliner of the event, pulled out after Hot97 morning show host Peter Rosenberg made some derogatory comments about her music AT Summer Jam! This caused a firestorm of debate on [...]

Are Women Using Their Men Wrong?

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The other day I was reading about What Women Really Want in a Relationship, as theorized by TIME magazine. As is usually the case when I read about things pertaining to “understanding” women I left more confused than when I showed up. Despite my fabled history in writing about the opposite sex if there’s anything [...]

A Man’s Dream: Can You Get to the Damn Point?

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Last Thursday, WIM presented us with his list of the 10 most critical #ManLaw Commandments. All of ‘em had me doing the Hallelujah dance in the Church of Latter Day SBM. But there was 1 in particular that caught my attention and led me to the post for today: 5. Come to us with a [...]

3 Increasingly Lame Blog Rebuttals

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The best thing about the sex & relationship blog niche is the discussion. It’s the only niche that brings out men and women in such great numbers to share their thoughts in the same place. Regardless of if you’ve never had a boo or an earth shattering orgasm, sex and relationship talk is universally relatable. [...]

Read This First, Do Not Delete: Email to this Jawn I Used to Talk to

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[Name redacted], Why did you install silent logger on my laptop?  Did you not think I would find that?  That’s real foul.  I shouldn’t even respond to you because you are freaking ridiculous.  And why the hell did you call my ex and ask her if I was still talking to her?  WE ARE NOT [...]

How to Talk to Women and Get Anywhere: Part II

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 About four months ago, I wrote a Part I to this series to much success.  A lot of women would love to hear less about them and prefer that we talk about men and what men need to do.  In the backroom, I will tell the fellas that we don’t have to do much, and [...]

Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace

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**The following conversation takes place between 3:45 and 3:49** Elliot: Honey, can you pass me a beer? Mercedes: Why don’t you get one of them b*tches to get you a beer… Elliot: Wha…what are you talkin’ about? Mercedes: Them b*tches that you had all up on you @ Joe’s BBQ gettin’ you beers…I saw all [...]