You Are Appreciated: A Letter to Black Women

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 Share on Tumblr Dear Ladies: I depend a lot on current events and hot topics to help put together the pieces that I write. A lot of inspiration I have comes from conversations with people. The second source of inspiration is probably from things going on in social media.  At the core of all of […]

Four Reasons Why Men Should Manscape

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 Share on Tumblr Manscaping is sort of a new concept, I don’t think our Pops and Uncle’s were standing around speaking about shaving their pubes. However, this is SBM and we’re going to discuss it today. Here are my four reasons why every man should manscape: Grooming is Important Someone in the bible said it […]

Do Black Women Know How to Take a Compliment?

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 Share on Tumblr  A few days ago, I was watching Kanye West’s new music video; you know the softcore porno he shot with his wife and baby mama, Kim Kardashian? I hit up my homegirl on gchat and said, “I feel like doing a post about women over 30 who look damn good.” Now this […]

Revisited: Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas?

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 Share on Tumblr About three years ago, I penned a piece on SBM titled, Are Black Men Obsessed with Latinas? Since today effectively ends Hispanic Heritage Month, I thought I would post it again with some thoughts three years removed. I want to note that since 2010, I really haven’t done any articles about Latinas […]

Street Harassment: Why are black men the main perpetrators?

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 Share on Tumblr Lately, a plight that I was largely unfamiliar with has dominated the discussion of many blogs and news sites: street harassment. As a man, I figured I was simply unfamiliar with street harassment, because it is largely perpetrated by men towards women. It’s also an activity I have not and do not […]

Where Are All The Good Men Hiding At?

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 Share on Tumblr There are a few things that really upset me. It’s assumptions that women make about men. They are blanket assumptions that are complete double standards because men never do the same to women. These assumptions typically show their ugly face in a conversation and good men tend to write off those women […]

An Anonymous Black Man Explains Why He Prefers Non-Black Women

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 Share on Tumblr For amusement, I sometimes look at Craigslist ads. I fish through the Men Seeking Women section to read posts to see what some men are looking for in women.  There are many anatomically correct parts on full display in the attempt for hookups and many married men seeking a friend. Some posts are sad; others […]

The Real Reason So Many Good Black Men Are Single

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 Share on Tumblr Relationship experts bloggers, and those alike seem to focus on the plight of the single woman. As it has been communicated time and time again, black women and their singleness is nobody’s fault but their own, after all it’s up to women to get chose right? Supposedly women are too aggressive, they’re confrontational, […]

43% of Black Men, 25% of Black Women Looking for Relationships

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 Share on Tumblr One of the most surprising findings of a new poll conducted on over 1,000 African-Americans shows that black single men were much more likely to say they’re looking for a long-term relationship than single black women. Professor Ivory Toldson, and regular parenting contributor, Dani Tucker weigh in on the poll’s results. Transcript […]

The Ridiculous Expectations Black Men Place on the Sexuality of Black Women

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 Share on TumblrYesterday morning when I checked my twitter timeline I expected to see one of two things. 1) Sports talk about how the Miami Heat staved off elimination with a thrilling overtime win against the San Antonio Spurs and 2) hip-hop discussions surrounding J. Cole, Kanye West and/or Jay-Z. Instead I was greeted with […]