Lessons Learned on Love and Friendship from ‘The Best Man Holiday’


Tweet There were alot of mixed reviews about ‘The Best Man Holiday’, but like all things there is something to learn from them. These are a few hidden lessons we saw in, ‘The Best Man Holiday’- There Are No Good Secrets In a Marriage (or Friendship) In both films, Harper (Taye Diggs) made his share […]

Is He Really Over His Ex?


Tweet You guys have been dating for awhile and things seem to be going just fine, but in the back of your mind you can’t really tell if he’s over his ex. Well these are few things to look out for in regards to dating ‘that’ guy: Do you ever get the feeling that there […]

Girl Talk: I Refuse To Call Myself “Light-Skinned”


Tweet (VIA) When you grow up in a relatively small town in suburban New Jersey, being the only person of color in your class, you’d understand why I had no idea that other members of my race consider me “light-skinned.” Where I grew up, there was no such thing. You were either black, white, Spanish […]

President Obama Unveils Statue of Rosa Parks

Barack Obama

TweetToday was a historic day for Black History and the Civil Rights Movement. Rosa Parks, the Mother of the Civil Rights Movement, was commemorated by President Obama. The President unveiled a full length statue of Rosa Parks at Statuary Hall in the U.S. Capitol, which is featured below:  Tweet

SBM Is Taking on the Black History Month Challenge on Facebook!


Tweet What’s Up #SBMFam? There was a photo challenge floating around the web that seemed pretty interesting. So in honor of Black History Month, we’re posting a picture a day on the SingleBlackMale Facebook page. This would be a great time to join the page, like/share photos, and get friends to check out SBM, your […]

The State of Black Marriage: Whose fault is it?


Tweet Answer: It’s complicated. Although, the real question we should probably be asking ourselves is, “Is there really even an epidemic?”Ascribing solutions in search of a problem is like bragging about the surgery was a success, but the patient died. More on that later… Yesterday, ClutchMagOnline ran a story titled, A Call to Action: Help […]

Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Family Reunions are better than happy hour at Wet Willies!!!

Tweet“By your powers combined I am … Captain Planet.” As college days were swiftly passing, Black folk used to hate this one part of the party … when they played Spanish music.  If you want to know what it looks like to see someone who smells a fart but can’t say nothing about it, look […]

Do I Know God? How About Do You Know Me?

Guess who doesn't go on Sunday?

Tweet*** Shout-Out *** I have to take a second to note something new BET is trying to do with their show The Deal.  Trying to step it up, The Deal offers a one stop shop for all your hip-hop needs. – SBM ***************** **The following takes place on G-Chat during a random lazy Sunday afternoon** […]

Curiously Strong


TweetLately, I’ve been gettin’ a lot of my blog fuel from previous posts and comments. I made reference in a post on Three Ways to Take It to the concept of the Strong Black Man and the Strong Black Woman. As I was scribing that post, I thought about how we’re always talkin’ about findin’ […]

Black from “Flavor of Love 3″ … Too Fine

[PIC]Black From Flavor of Love[PIC]

Tweet She really wants us to believe that someone that looks like her is actually physically interested in Flavor Flav … who looks a little like a gremlin. I know this isn’t surprising and half the women on the show just want exposure … but this one is ludicrous. She is way too fine … […]