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I was out with Shonna at one of her favorite spots. We’d been there for about an hour. She was laughing. I was smiling. We were having the best night we’d had together since we started dating. I put my drink on the bar, and let her know I had to make a pit stop [...]
I was on Twitter yesterday doing what I normally do when Paul Brunson, the Modern Day Matchmaker, posted a question about chivalry. He cited a Yahoo/Maxim survey which stated that 55% of the women that participated didn’t believe chivalry was important. He asked what people thought and you can imagine what it turned into from [...]
We have had numerous conversations on the topic of chivalry. The most classic being SBM’s warning shot and declaration against chivalry in all forms. I sat back and thought about it, and while there are some points I agree with, I feel that there are basic elements of chivalry that all men should practice. I [...]
My fellow blogger (who I have a secret crush on), The Comeback Girl, wrote a post dedicated to lil ol’ me, called “One Ringy Dingy, Two Ringy Dingy (Mama’s Little Husband)” which is a very … “interesting” read. My Interpretation of the post: Comeback girl feels that us men have been coddled by our mothers [...]
“I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T … Do you know what that means man?” – Webbie Every few months, or weeks, I redefine what is sexy to me. Sometimes I want that super intelligent woman who challenges my intellect and provides me with mental stimulation. Sometimes I want a super-driven Type A personality to compliment me, while keeping me on [...]
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