Why Loving Yourself Is More Than Just A Cliche

There is no shortage of Instagram posts about relationships. They range from joking about exes to $200 dates etc. I want to talk about breakups today. I want to talk about breakups and why loving yourself is the biggest component in getting over things. I know someone who recently broke up with a woman after […]

Starting Over Is A Drag, Can You Avoid That Feeling?

We have all been single at one point or another. In the wake of a breakup there’s an interim. In that time you hopefully take some time to heal if you need to. Hopefully you grow a bit in areas where it was necessary. But once all of that low key maintenance takes place, you’re […]

Single Black Mail Episode 9: “The Claim Game”

Friends don’t let friends put claims on people they didn’t even date! Jeff drops the rules of engagement for this chronic hating phenomenon. If you want your questions answered, be sure to hit us on the following: Ask.FM | Twitter  | Email  Let us know if we can post your email with “OK to Print” in your […]

How Do Men Avoid The “What Are We?” Question?

The last time I wrote here I gave my thoughts on a video that was produced by Buzzfeed. The video chronicled a woman hurt by a man who simply wasn’t honest with her. He hurt her by his lies and she felt the need to let people know that we all should be aware of […]

Single Black Mail Episode 7: “First Date Etiquette”

Jeff gives some general dos and don’ts to make that first date go smoothly! If you want your questions answered, be sure to hit us on the following: Ask.FM | Twitter  | Email  Let us know if we can post your email with “OK to Print” in your questions. Be sure to use the hashtag #SBMail when […]

Single Black Mail Episode 5: “Hotline Bling”

How do you handle an ex who calls and texts you nonstop, even though they’re have a new boo? Jeff drops some knowledge in Single Black Mail Episode 5: “Hotline Bling”

Do Men Care About Dogging Women?

Today I Nancy Kerrigan on thin ice with the stance I’ll take. You can always depend on Buzzfeed to bring you nuanced entertainment and information. I happen to enjoy most of their content. I particularly love their clips where they create these crazy recipes. Anyone who knows me  knows how sacred I find a knife […]

What I’d Want The Mother Of My Child To Be Like

Recently I reposted a video on my Instagram page which was a scene from the movie Malcolm X. It was a scene where Malcolm was talking to Betty about the rebuilding of a nation. He stated that the foundation of a nation lies within a woman. “The mother is the first teacher of the child, […]

Why People Can’t Stand Relationship “Experts”

The man above is the well known Tony Gaskins. He recently sat down with Madame Noire for an interview. Madame Noire is a site that I frequent because of all the thought provoking content. This time around was no different as the subject matter got  the people buzzing. Feel free to watch the full interview […]

Debunking The Myth Of Doom For Single Black Women

  Unmarried, accomplished black women are an anomaly to mainstream America. Not unmarried white women or asian women or light-skinned Latinas. Just the black ones. So self-help articles are written, listing the things that these sorts of women should do to catch a man, providing examples of relationships that “beat the odds” to encourage them […]

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