Old Love vs New Chemistry: Which Do You Choose?

Happy African American Man & Woman Couple

Wanting that old thing back can be a bitch can’t it? Well it sure can be when you’re aware of the dangers of it. We could end up paranoid sometimes about a situation like that. There’s only two ways things can go: right or wrong. We’re only human. With that, there’s been times that we’ve […]

Are Men Responsible For Round 2 in the Bedroom?

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Most times when I begin to write, I listen to a song or two just to get my mind right. Today the ipod was on shuffle and “Tap Out” comes on. How fitting, right? Maybe it’s more ironic considering today’s discussion. Last week I wrote a post entitled “Ladies, This Can be Why Round 2 […]

Yikes, My Crush and Ex Flame Are Friends

Yikes, My Crush and Ex Flame Are Friends

Have you ever been in a situation that you couldn’t anticipate, but you could’ve avoided, and somehow you didn’t? Let’s just start with the moment that I walked into the house party in Brooklyn. It was packed. A tad sweaty due to the summertime heatwave. But not even the heat could distract me from the […]

Ladies, This Can Be Why “Round 2″ Doesn’t Happen

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Today’s post is dedicated to the discussion of sexual chemistry. To put it plainly, it’s an important attribute to any kind of sexual relationship. Through my discussions with friends and my own experience I’ve learned  few things. One of which is that a woman can take somethings personally. In this case, it’s where a guy […]

Picky or Patient: What Type of Dater Are You?

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Nitpick- adj. Overly critical, esp. on trivial matters; focused on only trivial aspects Patient- adj. Quietly and steadily persevering or diligent, especially in detail or exactness Throughout the period of time that we date, we turn down many. Some people in our eyes are completely out of the question. Others might really be on the […]

Have Blurred Gender Roles Pushed Men Away From Commitment?

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About four years ago, I took a gender psychology course in undergrad. My term paper was based on how gender roles of women have changed between the 1950′s and present day. During this period of time women have made amazing strides. They’ve grabbed the bull by the horns and fought for equal opportunity. This fight […]

What To Do When You Lose Your Old Faithful?

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  Today’s post is for the fellas. It’s for the guys who are single. It’s for men who have or had a rotation of women while single. A friend of mine said to me this weekend that one of the ladies he was messing with started falling back. He said that she was his most […]

Two Guys One Show: Brown Fist Urban League {Podcast}

my brothers keeper

The 2 Guys discuss Rich turning 31, some clarification on women not wanting men to have fun…EVER, Stay in Your Lane Relationship Insurance, cutting things out of life that don’t make you happy, a divisive article on Salon.com about the My Brother’s Keeper initiative and the struggles of young black girls and women, a woman […]

How Does a Man Approach a Newly Single Woman?

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I don’t know! How about we start off with that and let it be known. I am not perfect in the world of dating. Although I’ve experienced great successes, i sure have some weak points. One of my biggest weak points is my timing. With women I have the shittiest timing this side of the […]

Is Cheating a Sign of Weakness?

Ahyiana Angel Is Cheating a Sign of Weakness?

There is a big bowl of soft, delicious, aromatic, fresh baked bread in your line of sight ready for you to dig in. You salivate at the thought of the bread and butter melting in your mouth. You can taste it. You’ve been on a carb free diet for the last month. Your hunger makes […]