Have Women Removed Men’s Need to Put A Ring on It?

I recently wrote a post on my personal site asking a simple question, Do Black Men Not Value Marriage? Ideally, successful posts generate conversations that extend far beyond the limits of the comments section, Twitter, Facebook and/or wherever people chose to socialize on-line. A well written, thought provoking post will continue to haunt me generate debate […]

When is it OK to Deny Him S*x?

  I listen to a syndicated talk radio show and it seems like their sole purpose is to come up with inflammatory questions to ask their listeners each week. Last week’s question was: When is it OK to deny your husband xes? Responses fell into three general categories. Category 1: Never. Other than the monthly visit […]

From Elegant to Elephant: When Your Woman Gains Weight

I thought the time was right To ask her for a dance – she said, “Naw, that’s alright” I played it off, walked back across the flo’ F**k that ho! Didn’t wanna see her no mo’ But about 150 pounds and 10 years later Seen her at the grocery store She tryin’ to holla at […]

Abortion: Does the Man’s Opinion Even Matter

Last week there was a news article about a man in New Mexico who took out a billboard accusing his ex-girlfriend of having an abortion without his knowledge (pictured above). Let us agree to ignore the fact that this is a strange looking fellow and, judging by his means of announcing this to the world, […]

Who Men Pursue: Sexy vs Beautiful

  Dr. J wrote a post on here a while back called Why Are All the Pretty Girls Married? I agreed with most of his points but I also wanted to write a post discussing contrary ideas. This is also related to a write-up on my website, Why He Married the Regular Girl. Both remind me […]

7 Reasons Black Men Don’t Get Married

7. Priorities: Most men want to get their affairs in order before they get married: college, career advancement, etc. There are simply certain accomplishments men prefer to achieve before marriage. However, I honestly believe black (and minority) men are the worst offenders when it comes to using this as an excuse not to get married. […]

Women Love S*x, I Think…

Website: http://www.WisdomIsMisery Twitter: @WisdomIsMisery Women put a lot of emphasis on s*x. I’m not here to debate about who thinks about s*x more but I know for a fact that women think more about the intimacy of s*x WAAAY more. For example, I’ve never had a discussion with one of my homeboys about “making love” […]

The Chris Brown(@Chrisbrown) theory on forgiveness

So many of us watched the BET Awards. I have to first tip my cap and say it’s probably the best one since the last one with  MJ and James Brown. Speaking of Brown, it was definitely the comeback show, as Chris Brown performed and the THE MJ tribute we all wanted to see. The […]

She can do it … but he can’t!

Double Standards are everywhere! I mean … some of them really suck … some of them are helpful … some of them just …well … don’t really make sense.  Most of the people that complain about double standards … also seem to benefit from others simultaneously. Double Standards are alive and kicking strongly when it […]

Sisters vs. B*tches

Throughout my life I’ve learned a harsh reality about the fairer sex. Whether it was through first hand experience or observation, I’ve come to a conclusion about women: In life, there are sisters, and there are Bitches! I detest b*tches with every fiber in my soul. I do not like them in a box. I […]