You Can’t Always Save the Damsel

May 20, 2011 By 90 Comments
Save Her

  Joy: “I met someone else.” I read and re-read the words plastered across my mobile. We weren’t in the middle of a conversation. We hadn’t even talked in weeks, yet I wasn’t surprised by this message’s arrival. These were serious words. Not only because of their meaning but because of the “rules” we had [...]

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The Get Over It Series: The Wizard of Oz

December 30, 2010 By 36 Comments

****** Admin Note ****** As you can tell, I’ve changed the look and feel of the entire site.  There are a lot of reasons for the change, but its not over. As always, I want to hear from any and everybody with thoughts, gripes, and complaints.  My email box is always open at sbm@singleblackmale.net -SBM [...]

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Jill Scott, Get Over It

April 1, 2010 By 227 Comments
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There were a ton of articles I contemplated posting, and I had some good ones lined up for you, but we broke stride and went with current affairs. If case you didn’t get a chance to read what Jill Scott had to say on Interracial Dating, you can catch up with the conversation here; http://thoughtmerchant.posterous.com/jill-scott-talks-about-interracial-relationsh. [...]

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The Get Over It Series: Get Over Yourself

August 27, 2009 By 25 Comments

****** Admin Note ****** Since Dr. J brings that fire, and since I anticipate napalm being spit with the last post … I want all my women to breathe, be calm, and then go ahead and vote for us in the Black Blog Awards … before you get all bothered. -SBM ********************** You’ve all been [...]

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The Get Over It Series: You’re a Ho, and He’s not

August 13, 2009 By 51 Comments

This is the fifth installment in six.  I would be remissed if I didn’t give you one more real talk session before the conclusion of the series next week.  (I actually wrote 8, and then decided not to post this one, but you know what, let her rip!)  So this conversation is always had, why [...]

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The Get Over It Series: The Garden of Eden

August 6, 2009 By 53 Comments

For this part of our series we explore how women like to blame men for things that have nothing to do with them. At the end of the day, a lot of things are your fault. God charges Adam to tend the garden in which they live, and specifically commands Adam not to eat from [...]

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The Get Over It Series: Men are Judgmental

July 9, 2009 By 37 Comments

Dr. J by the way of SBM continues on his series on things that women will just have to Get Over.  Last week we touched on who’s at fault for women being single. I actually retrieved the following quote as an update from the Wedding Date: “Every woman has the exact love life she wants“.   [...]

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